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佢係咪好似乜都唔緊張？無乜懷孕knowledge? 我有時真係俾佢激死

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vb2016 發表於 16-10-17 10:58
佢係咪好似乜都唔緊張？無乜懷孕knowledge? 我有時真係俾佢激死

外國人的確比較relax (加上男人)，又或者咁講，佢地緊張嘅表現同我地女人唔同。例如我老公會叫我唔好成日照超聲波對小b 唔好，可能好多港媽都會抓狂，但我又冇乜嘢。
有時男人需要啲時間先意識到自己就快做爸爸，放鬆啲，唔駛太在意嘅，太緊張對你自己都唔好啦

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vb2016 發表於 16-10-17 10:58
佢係咪好似乜都唔緊張？無乜懷孕knowledge? 我有時真係俾佢激死

唔關事。我先生嗰時都唔太緊張（不過佢都算西化嘅人）。我自己一樣，大肚唔似大肚。

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我自己覺得外國女人生仔易過我地中國人好多，佢地自己大隻，pat pat又大，個B又細，所以陀同生都易過我地。我兩個姑拉生左5件，件件都好易，我自己生大女時就食左全餐⋯

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多謝各位。因為我老公係鬼佬，連佢阿媽都緊張過佢！上次我哋去英國探佢都不停叫我記得唔好拎重野。反而我老公直情當我正常人一樣，仲搬左幾箱野出嚟叫我執

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又成日叫我去行山游水... 我已經同佢講話醫生叫我唔好做運動。（未有BB前我一個星期做四至五次運動，spinning and yoga ) 但係醫生都叫我唔好做住。
我今個星期岩岩12 weeks. 第一胎，仲要係高齡，我自己同埋屋企人都好緊張。

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我剛剛有咗后，佢都成日叫我做yoga and swimming. 我話我好累，佢話做運動對身體好。好彩e生都話3個月前要休息多D。咁佢就聽e生講。我也是高齡。過了三個月后我也有游泳至39週。剛生了。BB 7lb14oz。very healthy. 加油！

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睇開啲啦，佢地只係 CAREFREE 唔係 CARELESS，唔好咁擔心!

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Not all westerners are carefree, my husband is British and I am carrying our second child, he is very caring, remind me. It to do too much housework, he helps out with handing the washing, cooking etc and he totally understand about 坐月，he does whatever he can to help, he just said tell him what he can do to help

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睇人啦... 我老公係緊張, 會一早準備bb用品, 我恥骨痛會好緊張要我休息等, 但唔係中國人果種有左bb 就乜都唔食得唔做得諸多限制咁. 我陀住bb 同大仔二仔落雪出街都冇反對, 去買床搬床上樓砌床都冇特別叫我唔好做. 佢冇補身呢d 想去但好彩佢唔反對我去煲薑醋又幫我渣車去勻全國搵瓦煲同甜醋 (佢聞到薑醋味就頭痛架...) .

外國人覺得陀bb , 生bb 湊bb 係自然既事, 唔駛bb 一到就焦點落晒去個bb 或者媽咪度, 又唔會focus 晒響飲食度, 生完唔駛成隊軍隊咁去湊bb陪老婆, 佢地認為2個人就搞得掂. 總之佢地唔會因為bb 而改變太多自己既生活, 亦會尊重大肚婆既決定.

係人第一人做爸爸媽媽都冇懷孕知識架啦! 如果你想佢緊張, 你可能會有少少hard feeling, 我呢d 唔鍾意人地管我既人, 我覺得好輕鬆自在.

放鬆d, 只係文化唔同o者, 你同佢拍拖時總會遇到, 呢d 咪當情趣囉.

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多謝各位sharing! 我諗正常來講我都唔係一個緊張嘅人。但係因為太多因素，所以一定要小心啲。同埋at the end of the day, 大吉利是，如果有咩意外，suffer 嗰個係自己！
我老公都有盡量配合，好似請陪月咁，雖然佢唔明，但係都贊成。
我諗對於懷孕佢哋真係比較carefree , 同我哋中國人有好大分別。

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vb2016 發表於 16-10-17 10:58
佢係咪好似乜都唔緊張？無乜懷孕knowledge? 我有時真係俾佢激死

YESSSSS!!!
My husband asks me to RELAX and STOP WORRYING all the time!

But he does help out around the house, dishes, laundry, carrying stuff.

I think some Western men are nervous too but they don't show it as much as Asian men!

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roxyrider 發表於 16-10-18 10:54
YESSSSS!!!
My husband asks me to RELAX and STOP WORRYING all the time!
But he does help ou ...

Yes! He does tell me to relax. And throughout this pregnancy, he learned the word 緊張！hahaha
I think of course they do care, but in a different way compared to Chinese men.

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vb2016 發表於 16-10-18 10:58
Yes! He does tell me to relax. And throughout this pregnancy, he learned the word 緊張！hahaha
I t ...

And i force him to read pregnancy books too!!

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roxyrider 發表於 16-10-18 14:49
And i force him to read pregnancy books too!!

Well done ! I think getting him to the dr's appointment helps. "If the dr said" he will listen.
Is this your first pregnancy? It's my first and we r so clueless

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vb2016 發表於 16-10-18 18:35
Well done ! I think getting him to the dr's appointment helps. "If the dr said" he will listen.
Is ...

Yup its our first too! And thankfully my husband attends every single checkup with me!
Very clueless too but I try to get more info online since I don't have many friends who are mummys!

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睇黎真係好唔擔心咁..可能佢覺得冇咩問題既

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我要做媽媽發表於 16-10-18 20:19
睇黎真係好唔擔心咁..可能佢覺得冇咩問題既

係啊。佢覺得係冇分別㗎。覺得你同平時一樣！

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roxyrider 發表於 16-10-18 18:58
Yup its our first too! And thankfully my husband attends every single checkup with me!
Very clueles ...

Yes me too. That's why I read a lot of things online. (He reads about 5% ) Have you downloaded babycentre? I find it quite informative. How far along are you? I am just 12 weeks.

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