Hi hi,我同你情況差唔多,我大仔3歲,返k1,都算聽教,細女兩個半月,我份工一日只需要返3至4小時,所以大仔出生到依家主力都係我湊,我返工時就請鍾點ee睇住,直到有左細b,我地就選擇請工人,細b出生後,我主力依然都係湊大仔,細B就多數俾工人睇,因為我唔想俾大仔覺得細b ge出生會令我地疏忽左佢,而唔鍾意細b,我聽人講多數細佬妹出生後,大嗰個都會好呷醋,會學返細b ge bb 行為,會蝦細b,我個仔開頭都有呷醋,真係一日一激,但因為我地重心都係放返係佢到,同時教返佢,佢同bb ge分別,到依家睇到佢都聽教返 ,其實我奶奶都住我地附近,我未生時佢都叫我地是但俾一個放係佢到湊,但我知道如果我真係俾左佢,我基本上會無左個仔或者女,我唔係話佢對佢地唔好,相反佢錫到佢地燶,我可以想像到俾佢湊完我仔會變成點,俾細b佢我又唔捨得,所以我地月月清都決定請工人,錦樣我可以日日見到我對仔女,所以我覺得好值得