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how do you keep your sanity towards kids


大宅

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發表於 17-8-20 21:17 |顯示全部帖子
I am going to explode!!! I really don't know how to be a parent nor how I can keep my sanity towards them! Experts always say no screaming nor yelling nor hitting the kids, but I don't know how to do this! Can anyone shed some lights for me? Maybe it's just wrong for me to have any kids!


複式洋房

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發表於 17-8-20 21:32 |顯示全部帖子
jw2013 發表於 17-8-20 21:17
I am going to explode!!! I really don't know how to be a parent nor how I can keep my sanity towards ...

冷靜自己,彎低身攬住佢哄下佢,同佢講媽咪知道佢好乖,問佢係咪唔開心唔小心扭計? 俾佢感覺你知道佢既感受再錫下佢安撫佢,睇下有冇改善


翡翠宮

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開心吸收勳章 2017勳章 BKXmas勳章


發表於 17-8-20 21:46 |顯示全部帖子
生多個. 對住第一個b 係會炆熷好多.

講真呢d 係一個loop, 有時係要靠自己放鬆d, 睇開d, 由小朋友角度去睇.

另外都要了解係咩事先.


王國長老

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好媽媽勳章 王國長老 BKXmas勳章


發表於 17-8-20 21:47 |顯示全部帖子
你d小朋友幾大呀?


水晶宮

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BKXmas勳章


發表於 17-8-20 21:53 |顯示全部帖子
KerryComplaint 發表於 17-8-20 21:32
冷靜自己,彎低身攬住佢哄下佢,同佢講媽咪知道佢好乖,問佢係咪唔開心唔小心扭計? 俾佢感覺你知道佢既感 ...

點解人地英文問你地答中文


水晶宮

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好媽媽勳章 醒目開學勳章 BKXmas勳章


發表於 17-8-20 21:55 |顯示全部帖子
tkop 發表於 17-8-20 21:53
點解人地英文問你地答中文

因為BK係香港網


複式洋房

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發表於 17-8-20 21:57 |顯示全部帖子
tkop 發表於 17-8-20 21:53
點解人地英文問你地答中文

睇得明就得,理得我速成定倉頡..


男爵府

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BKXmas勳章


發表於 17-8-20 21:58 |顯示全部帖子

回覆樓主

Expectations lead frustrations:(
We have to lower our expectations on kids ....
See everything from a different perspective!
Step back, deep breath!
YOUR NOT ALONE!!!


水晶宮

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BKXmas勳章


發表於 17-8-20 22:33 |顯示全部帖子
KerryComplaint 發表於 17-8-20 21:57
睇得明就得,理得我速成定倉頡..

可能佢唔明呢


珍珠宮

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BKXmas勳章


發表於 17-8-20 22:41 |顯示全部帖子
Ashleycorina 發表於 17-8-20 21:58
Expectations lead frustrations:(
We have to lower our expectations on kids ....
See everything from ...

agree

and don't compare with others


別墅

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發表於 17-8-20 23:07 |顯示全部帖子
jw2013 發表於 17-8-20 21:17
I am going to explode!!! I really don't know how to be a parent nor how I can keep my sanity towards ...

Leave the situation if possible
Try talking to him in a quieter tone, he would slowly calm down.


禁止訪問

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發表於 17-8-20 23:10 |顯示全部帖子
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水晶宮

國民生產總值:74541

BKXmas勳章


發表於 17-8-20 23:13 |顯示全部帖子
豌豆花 發表於 17-8-20 23:10
寫英文可能仲唔明

咁佢寫英文人地都明


子爵府

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BKXmas勳章


發表於 17-8-20 23:14 |顯示全部帖子

回覆樓主:

本帖最後由 iluvmeeself 於 17-8-20 23:16 編輯

Tbh... the only way is not to have kids.
I would choose to keep my sanity at bay over anything.

I can't even stand the kids I see on the streets... even when they are not really misbehaving.


子爵府

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發表於 17-8-21 05:56 |顯示全部帖子
jw2013 發表於 17-8-20 21:17
I am going to explode!!! I really don't know how to be a parent nor how I can keep my sanity towards ...

How old is your kid? I can only say they will get better with time. As our nursery teacher once told us, you need the "patience of Saints" to deal with the kids.


大宅

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BKXmas勳章


發表於 17-8-21 06:43 |顯示全部帖子

回覆樓主:

保持心情開朗,天跌落黎當被冚


大宅

國民生產總值:1484

BKXmas勳章


發表於 17-8-21 20:43 |顯示全部帖子
KerryComplaint 發表於 17-8-20 21:32
冷靜自己,彎低身攬住佢哄下佢,同佢講媽咪知道佢好乖,問佢係咪唔開心唔小心扭計? 俾佢感覺你知道佢既感 ...

Tried everything but they won't be good... I'm too tired from them


大宅

國民生產總值:1484

BKXmas勳章


發表於 17-8-21 20:44 |顯示全部帖子
bosch 發表於 17-8-20 21:46
生多個. 對住第一個b 係會炆熷好多.

講真呢d 係一個loop, 有時係要靠自己放鬆d, 睇開d, 由小朋 ...

I have two kids already! Probably it's wrong to even have any kids


大宅

國民生產總值:1484

BKXmas勳章


發表於 17-8-21 20:45 |顯示全部帖子
Ashleycorina 發表於 17-8-20 21:58
Expectations lead frustrations:(
We have to lower our expectations on kids ....
See everything from ...

Feel like I'm dealing with craps everyday, never has any improvements! This is killing me! I can't be a mom!


大宅

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BKXmas勳章


發表於 17-8-21 20:46 |顯示全部帖子
clee90210 發表於 17-8-20 23:07
Leave the situation if possible
Try talking to him in a quieter tone, he would slowly calm down. ...

No that's not gonna happen! Tried many times being nice and calm but wouldn't work! Sometimes screaming and yelling works!
I'm just sick of my kids and being a ftm
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