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發表於 17-8-20 21:17 |只看該作者 |倒序瀏覽 |打印

I am going to explode!!! I really don't know how to be a parent nor how I can keep my sanity towards them! Experts always say no screaming nor yelling nor hitting the kids, but I don't know how to do this! Can anyone shed some lights for me? Maybe it's just wrong for me to have any kids!

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KerryComplaint

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jw2013 發表於 17-8-20 21:17
I am going to explode!!! I really don't know how to be a parent nor how I can keep my sanity towards ...

冷靜自己，彎低身攬住佢哄下佢，同佢講媽咪知道佢好乖，問佢係咪唔開心唔小心扭計？俾佢感覺你知道佢既感受再錫下佢安撫佢，睇下有冇改善

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發表於 17-8-20 21:46 |只看該作者

生多個.

對住第一個b 係會炆熷好多.

講真呢d 係一個loop, 有時係要靠自己放鬆d, 睇開d, 由小朋友角度去睇.

另外都要了解係咩事先.

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好媽媽勳章王國長老

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發表於 17-8-20 21:47 |只看該作者

你d小朋友幾大呀？

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KerryComplaint 發表於 17-8-20 21:32
冷靜自己，彎低身攬住佢哄下佢，同佢講媽咪知道佢好乖，問佢係咪唔開心唔小心扭計？俾佢感覺你知道佢既感 ...

點解人地英文問你地答中文

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好媽媽勳章醒目開學勳章

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發表於 17-8-20 21:55 |只看該作者

tkop 發表於 17-8-20 21:53
點解人地英文問你地答中文

因為BK係香港網

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KerryComplaint

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tkop 發表於 17-8-20 21:53
點解人地英文問你地答中文

睇得明就得，理得我速成定倉頡..

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發表於 17-8-20 21:58 |只看該作者

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Expectations lead frustrations:(
We have to lower our expectations on kids ....
See everything from a different perspective!
Step back, deep breath!

YOUR NOT ALONE!!!

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KerryComplaint 發表於 17-8-20 21:57
睇得明就得，理得我速成定倉頡..

可能佢唔明呢

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Ashleycorina 發表於 17-8-20 21:58
Expectations lead frustrations:(
We have to lower our expectations on kids ....
See everything from ...

agree

and don't compare with others

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jw2013 發表於 17-8-20 21:17
I am going to explode!!! I really don't know how to be a parent nor how I can keep my sanity towards ...

Leave the situation if possible
Try talking to him in a quieter tone, he would slowly calm down.

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豌豆花發表於 17-8-20 23:10
寫英文可能仲唔明

咁佢寫英文人地都明

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發表於 17-8-20 23:14 |只看該作者

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本帖最後由 iluvmeeself 於 17-8-20 23:16 編輯

Tbh... the only way is not to have kids.
I would choose to keep my sanity at bay over anything.

I can't even stand the kids I see on the streets... even when they are not really misbehaving.

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jw2013 發表於 17-8-20 21:17
I am going to explode!!! I really don't know how to be a parent nor how I can keep my sanity towards ...

How old is your kid? I can only say they will get better with time. As our nursery teacher once told us, you need the "patience of Saints" to deal with the kids.

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發表於 17-8-21 06:43 |只看該作者

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保持心情開朗，天跌落黎當被冚

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KerryComplaint 發表於 17-8-20 21:32
冷靜自己，彎低身攬住佢哄下佢，同佢講媽咪知道佢好乖，問佢係咪唔開心唔小心扭計？俾佢感覺你知道佢既感 ...

Tried everything but they won't be good... I'm too tired from them

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bosch 發表於 17-8-20 21:46
生多個. 對住第一個b 係會炆熷好多.

講真呢d 係一個loop, 有時係要靠自己放鬆d, 睇開d, 由小朋 ...

I have two kids already! Probably it's wrong to even have any kids

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Ashleycorina 發表於 17-8-20 21:58
Expectations lead frustrations:(
We have to lower our expectations on kids ....
See everything from ...

Feel like I'm dealing with craps everyday, never has any improvements! This is killing me! I can't be a mom!

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