If you have to go to work after your baby is borned then you should fire her. If you are ftm then you can just check and tell her to fix everything she didn't do right.
佢逢星期X一齊去wet market買一星期嘅餸,我俾$,佢揹嘢 -> I am ftm and that's what I do too. She doesn't have money in her hand. Also the same when I need to buy rice in supermarket, 我俾$,佢揹嘢
工人開奶 -> Everything she doesn't do it right tell her to do it again. Maids don't care if you yell at them, they are more afraid if you check their work and ask them to redo it.