find another one, I just renew a contract with my maid, then after signing the new contract, her attitude changed 180 degrees!!! I called agent and immigration 4 days before new contract begins to cancel it... I increased her pay to $4000 for new contract because I tihnk she is ok good with my son and I wanted her to keep working for me, then after I told her I will give her a pay increase, she started to bargin with me, she thought I need her so much that I will let her be rude and show me black face............. so, don't ever give them pay increase!!!!
原帖由 mrshoho 於 10-5-20 23:30 發表
find another one, I just renew a contract with my maid, then after signing the new contract, her attitude changed 180 degrees!!! I called agent and immigration 4 days before new contract begins to ...
mrshoho...agree with you!I fired my maid after we signed the second contract for two months.....!
After fired her, i decided to take care my dauhgter by myself!They are not the believeble guys.
樓主,你如果自問係用個心對佢,又想佢留低的話!你都係回頭事岸好啦!佢地唔會真係用個心對你ka!
而且佢講得唔做,就唔好逼佢啦!可能唔係你放生佢,係佢放生你.....都唔定!
REASON FOR RESIGNATION HAS TWO (發生在生前一星期):
1. 我見佢好多野在家,主要係衣服鞋襪,有兩袋野在上格床,我叫佢清左佢,我建議佢存倉同寄番家鄉,點知佢話要CLAIM返我,我亦表明這不是得負責,佢剛來時只有一個GIP,難道佢之後有十箱野我要DUMP左自己野俾地方佢用佢定係租倉俾佢呀,成日話係EMPLOYER'S RESPONSIBILIY.
2.佢話要十月返PHIL有教會活動.我話唔可以,因我要人用,BB才5-6個月,大女又要十月TEST,唔APPROVE,佢又話我之前AGREE,但我真係無,EVEN有,我現在有BB點都唔放佢,佢下年五月到期,點解仲要十月返去.
BASED ON THE ABOVE, 我在5月1日找到一個OVERSEA BUN,諗住新一來便炒佢,點知佢快我一步RESIGN, LAST DAY 6月6日.
No matter how well you treat them, they don't know how to appreciate and will keep ask for more in return!!!
原帖由 ms.aeroplane 於 21/5/2010 04:37 PM 發表
mrshoho...agree with you!I fired my maid after we signed the second contract for two months.....!
After fired her, i decided to take care my dauhgter by myself!They are not the believeble guys.
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i had the same experience about 2 years ago! haha.. I also have 2 kids (one 3.5 years old and one almost 2 years old + 2 cats )
finally, I hired a maid without experience in taking care of new born.. and I trained her and kept very close monitoring... my baby girl is almost 2 year old la ~~ (even though my current maid still very weak in taking care of new born / baby).. but we survive.
well, i guess there aren't much work for 2 cats.. except the maid really have to clean / mop the floor .. coz' it's very easy to find out if she didn't do her work (with the cat fur everywhere)...
don't worry, you still have time and you are stay home mom, you have time to monitor and train the new maid. found someone with kids themselves and with family burden..
mrshoho, I totally agreed with you, at least 90% (if not all) maids regardless of their nationality are selfish 'coz to them, you're just a stranger employer, why they need to put their hearts into the jobs? my maid is also v 'cheap' as she resigned before the birth of my bb with an excuse of getting married, only idiots will believe coz there're still >8 months before the contract expires, nonsense.
Yes, maids are maids only, if no good, then find another one!
What I have learnt from my experience are - don't trust them, don't believe what you thought would happen will happen, they are usually lazy and love to act stupid, their attitude will only get worst and we should not have any hope!
SO... if a maid said NO to you when you ask her to renew a contract, then that's it, NO MEANS NO, no need to offer her more money, no need to try to keep her, I am saying all these based on my own experience.
actually I don't have any racial prejudice but I tend to think that most of the maids like to lie (very professionally) and act stupidly as mrshoho said, pretend to know nothing but inside being real cunning, that's the most annoying! this is from what I heard and experienced by myself, it's only by a v small chance that you could have a real good & honest maid. My friends even said "lying is the culture of the maids" haha