htcmama,
Although I have 2, but I agree with you 而家D小朋友唔同以前, 佢地的競爭都大咗, 個個都十項全能,一個都已經花咗唔小糈神同時間, so it is a problem to balance the time if you have 2 or more kids. And it is a big problem to me too.
However, 2 seems will bring more happiness and balance to the children, they can be more considerate, and they can sharing their happiness and sad with brother and sisters to balance the emotion.
What a surprise to see this topic here It used to be a big headache for me since the 1st delivery.
Now, we're still 15/16 to have the 2nd baby or not, my baby boy will be 1 soonest. I think we can consider it when he is 2-3. Thanks God that my age is still able for me to wait.
Most importantly, we would let God plan our family
No matter 1 or 2 kids, I wish God bless all of your families :lol:
I think 2 childrens in the family is much better than one. They can play, learn and share to each other. I really concern is the finanical , becoz I am a big flower 同. I gave birth my 1st bb on Sept, and I am now 33. I will consider 2nd child before 36 if my husdand and me can afford.