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Pls. Help me my son very destrucive abd naughty! [複製鏈接]

mo2

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發表於 04-4-13 16:32 |只看該作者

Pls. Help me my son very destrucive abd naughty!

My 3 year old son isvery destructive and not listening.At first, i thought may be the newborn brother arrvied and tried to get attention but it's been 3 mths now. I have tried many things to make him stop. Like time out, light spanking and reason to him but he seems like understand that moment but after a while he doing the same thing. He doesn't not listen to me when i tell him "pls. stop " he seem like borrowing the deaf chan 's ear" What can i do?Can anyone help me here. The major thing is after u yell at him he will quickly suck up to me and say "Mom u are very pretty". i dunno wheather i should laugh or angry or not! Pls hlep ...........

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JimVan

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發表於 04-4-19 07:08 |只看該作者

Re: Pls. Help me my son very destrucive abd naughty!

好嗎, 我想知你所指仔仔好頑皮同鐘意破壞, 係具體指乜野？破壞, 係專登將家俬、電器、玩具等弄壞, 還是只係因為好奇, 將所有可以打開既野都打開？
我諗你可以觀察下佢破壞東西既目的, 我個仔有時都係咁, 我初初都好激氣, 做乜樣樣都同我拆開, 除左佢自己既玩具, 好多家庭用品, 好似 alarm clock, TV remote control, 甚至錄音帶 .... 後來, 我老公話原來佢細個時都係咁, 鐘意拆開 d 野, 研究下, 佢話呢 d 係科學精神喎, anyway, 當我再留意下仔仔既目的, 發覺, 佢真係只出於好奇, 當佢拆開過一樣野之後, 佢好少會再拆第二次, 一定搵其他未拆過既野！
不過, 假如你仔仔係專登搞破壞, 咁就當然要找出原因, 或者會同情緒有關！
Good luck !!

珍惜生命、把握今天，因為仍活著不是偶然，也不是必然！ :-P

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SingMamei

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發表於 04-4-22 17:34 |只看該作者

Re: Pls. Help me my son very destrucive abd naughty!

I think the major reason should be the new baby. He may want more attention from you and the most direct and effective method is by destruction.

Try to spend more time with him and talk to him. The baby actually does not need too much attention but it is the 3-year-old that needs the pouring of your love and care.

The most important thing is to stay calm and patient with him. Spend more time with him, read him stories, take him out for playground, etc. Try to let him hold baby when baby gets bigger. Teach him how to love baby and be a big brother...... it will take some time to make him accept the new comer that has taken more than half of mummy's love and concern from him !!!