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finayang


複式洋房

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發表於 09-7-4 23:12 |只看該作者
Monday night, I was away from home and my husband was out of town. I left my kids with the housekeepers. When I returned home, my 1yr9mons son says his arm is hurting. He said it is made by one of my housekeepers. That maid didn't know she hurt my son until I asked her. There is a burnt mark on his arm and the surrounded area is very red. This maid's only duty is to look after my youngest child. I have other maids taking care of other kids and house works. She is not supposed to bring the ironer out of the laundry area, but she brought it to the living room. Luckily, my baby got burn when the ironer was cooling down. The scar will stay on my son's arm for some time.

I terminated this maid in April 09 because she made some serious mistakes. She bet me to keep her, so I gave her one last chance. In return, she must improve herself. However, she behaves the same. The worst thing is she hurt my son with an ironer. The wounded area is still bleeding everyday. She even didn't apologize to me.

My husband thinks I should keep this maid until her contract expires in March 2010. He said I have mental problem because I want to terminate the maid. I hate this maid very much. How could I keep a person who hurt my kid? I don't even want to see her shallow. If I terminate her, my youngest son will be sad for a while. What shall I do? Please comment. Thanks.
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cathngai


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發表於 09-7-4 23:34 |只看該作者
If you hate the maid, it’s not easy for you to get along with her until March 2010.
Why you have to hide a maid? Just want somebody to help you, not to make you anxious and angry. Men never understand how worry we are about the safety of our kids. If you have lost the confidence on her, don’t tolerate and hurt your health.
原帖由 finayang 於 09-7-4 23:12 發表
Monday night, I was away from home and my husband was out of town. I left my kids with the housekeepers. When I returned home, my 1yr9mons son says his arm is hurting. He said it is made by one of ...
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bbfish1992


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發表於 09-7-5 00:59 |只看該作者
Show your son's wound to your husband for comment & ask why not fire the other maids but only that one.

Besides, i suspect the maid bet for staying behind for her own benefits only.
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finayang


複式洋房

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發表於 09-7-5 09:14 |只看該作者
My husband does not fire anyone. We had many bad helpers before. One stole our car and crashed it. c6 covered her. This maid left when she found another in Canada. I even wanted to divorce him at that time.

Second case is a maid discarded my daughter's medicine all the time. She only fed medicine when I am home, so my daughter was basically sick from 6 months old until 2.5 years old, nonstop. This maid didn't feed much solid to my daughter, so her face was in grey color. My husband thought the maid is very ok. I was too angry and terminated her.

The third case is the most current one. My husband thinks it is fine too. I want to terminate her, but he said I have mental problem.

How could I live with a man like this? He has mental problem or I do?



原帖由 bbfish1992 於 09-7-5 00:59 發表
Show your son's wound to your husband for comment & ask why not fire the other maids but only that one.

Besides, i suspect the maid bet for staying behind for her own benefits only.

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Elefant老婆


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5#
發表於 09-7-5 11:17 |只看該作者
我最憎男人企外人果邊都唔企自己仔女老婆果邊。
況且今次仲係工人做錯。

我唔知你老公有咩理由，
但如果係我，
我會自己處理成件事，
炒工人搵新工人自己攪掂，
佢唔想做衰人丫嘛，
咁你做，唔緊要喎。

俾我都會想同佢離婚，
咁幫出面嘅女人唔幫老婆，
佢係咪同人有野？！

原帖由 finayang 於 09-7-5 09:14 發表
My husband does not fire anyone. We had many bad helpers before. One stole our car and crashed it. c6 covered her. This maid left when she found another in Canada. I even wanted to divorce him at ...
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DoReMi媽媽


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發表於 09-7-5 12:12 |只看該作者
多數男人都係咁ga, 不過樓主嗰個老公就嚴重啲, 我老公有時會扮我對公主講嘢o既語氣嚟揶揄我, 搞到我嬲咪同佢嘈囉, 大佬, 對住公主已經勞鬼氣, 佢仲攞嚟玩, 又唔諗下如果唔係我勞氣制止公主好多錯處, 佢哋有咁安樂日子過!:;pppp: 不過我老公最叻就係叫我換人, 佢唔會開聲留工人, 小一條死罪!
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finayang


複式洋房

積分: 242


7#
發表於 09-7-5 13:22 |只看該作者
I am already very nice to all philipino housekeepers worked and working for me. My only hope is they treat my children right, but they don't seem to understand. Their own benefits are far more important.

My husband thinks I am crazy and l like to create troubles.

I will terminate the bad housekeeper next Mon. I will buy flight ticket, so she can't gain from the difference.



原帖由 DoReMi媽媽 於 09-7-5 12:12 發表
多數男人都係咁ga, 不過樓主嗰個老公就嚴重啲, 我老公有時會扮我對公主講嘢o既語氣嚟揶揄我, 搞到我嬲咪同佢嘈囉, 大佬, 對住公主已經勞鬼氣, 佢仲攞嚟玩, 又唔諗下如果唔係我勞氣制止公主好多錯處, 佢哋有咁安樂日 ...
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