no, my 99 won't 去我娘家拜年.
It is because in chinese tridition, it should be 娘家去6299家拜年 (male is 'higher' then female).
In the first few years, my parents 去6299家拜年. They bought 2 gifts (all birds nest), one for my 99, and one for my 99's 99. However, my 99 take all the 2 gifts to her mother.
I was angry and told my parents. Then, my parents never 去6299家拜年 again.
原帖由 ac321 於 10-3-3 14:37 發表
no, my 99 won't 去我娘家拜年.
It is because in chinese tridition, it should be 娘家去6299家拜年 (male is 'higher' then female).
In the first few years, my parents 去6299家拜年. They bought 2 gifts (a ...
But my 6299 will also go to my C6' sister-in-law's parent house also. That why our feeling is not well
Your 62 99 go to your C6' sister-in-law's parent house, it doesn't means that they should go to your parents' house.
It depends on their personal relationships.
原帖由 vwong 於 10-3-3 14:43 發表
But my 6299 will also go to my C6' sister-in-law's parent house also. That why our feeling is not well
原帖由 ac321 於 10-3-3 14:55 發表
Your 62 99 go to your C6' sister-in-law's parent house, it doesn't means that they should go to your parents' house.
It depends on their personal relationships.