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iphoneiphone

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本帖最後由 iphoneiphone 於 12-6-18 12:23 編輯

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工人: 9點幾訓, 早上5點幾起身...
仲有,絶對不可以自己開電視比自己睇!!!

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CJCJ

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原帖由 iphoneiphone 於 11-3-24 10:11 發表
我叫佢 6:00起身﹐佢多數都會6:30 先起身﹐(BB6:30起身要食奶)
佢洗面刷牙+換衫要成半個鐘﹐所以呢半個鐘BB自己一個向廳到睇電視。
之後工人就一直向廚房到弄午餐比BB﹐同自己食早餐﹐起碼成個鐘都唔會出廳看BB( 可能我又已經 ...

Your maid is similiar to my maid. Every weekdays I asked her to wake up at 6:00 to prepare the lunch for my elder kid (take to school), she wakes up at 6:25, I guess she knew that I wake up at 6:30, she think just wake up earlier than me and I won't find it. But sometimes I will wake up earlier, because every morning I prepare the breakfast to my sons. Anyway I am fine with this because so far she can cook the lunch before my son go to school.

I am a FTM, I always take care of my sons by myself, she just clean the house, go to fresh market & cooking. Most of the time when I am at home, she always hide herself in toilet, playing mobile messages (I knew that because as a normal person, u won't go to toilet more than 10 times every day, and more than 10 mins every time !! AND she has her own toilet, I used her toilet sometimes when my son occupied my toilet, I found she always hide her mobile phone in the toilet). At the begining I was very angry, I warned her not using / playing her phone during her working hours !! But finally I think may be she is bored, she has no need to play with my little son, I am not a talkative person, I won't chat with her all the time, as long as she can finish the housework well every day, I keep my one eye closed.

Same as u, after our dinner, she just wash the dishes and throw the rubblish at about 2030, she can take her time to shower........ and told her if finished she can sleep, hopefully before 1030 so that the next morning not too sleepy. BUT she never listen to me, she always sleep 2300 or later every day. I have never scold her because so far she has not show her sleepy face in front of me.... may be she sleeps less.

As u know, to work for a FTM, most of them don't know what can she do everyday. For me, I gave her a daily schedule, she still have much time to hide, to stay in kitchen or even her room with nothing to do...... but only if she can finish the work, it is ok la.

If I were u, planning to fry her, I won't let her know it. I will fry at the same time when she go back home. I really afraid she plays me during the following days.

[ 本帖最後由 CJCJ 於 11-3-24 10:38 編輯 ]

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iphoneiphone

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原帖由 CJCJ 於 11-3-24 10:33 發表

Your maid is similiar to my maid. Every weekdays I asked her to wake up at 6:00 to prepare the lunch for my elder kid (take to school), she wakes up at 6:25, I guess she knew that I wake up at 6:30, ...

其實我會唔會要求多呢? 我想佢做好家務﹐同BB玩﹐煮飯﹐但我自己就向屋企上網﹐唔做野﹐我有冇問題呀?

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CJCJ

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原帖由 iphoneiphone 於 11-3-24 11:09 發表

其實我會唔會要求多呢? 我想佢做好家務﹐同BB玩﹐煮飯﹐但我自己就向屋企上網﹐唔做野﹐我有冇問題呀?

I don't think u ask too much from her, U are the boss, u just want to ask her do more and let yourself more free, right ?! It is reasonable !! But did u speak out when u want her to play with your BB ? If I want her to look after BB so that I can browsing the internet, I will ask her come out to play with her. I won't let my son watch TV with her sitting nearby, because I think MAID "always" concentrates on the TV !! I will take the blocks, pizza, books or any toys out and ask her play with my son.

Because in the past I also thought like u, why didn't she come out AUTOMATICALLY and help me look after my son... why she always day-dreaming when I asked her to play with my son ?? As always said, she is not the worm in my tummy, if she won't do it automatically, I will ask her to do it, make her has the mind that even I am at home, I will need her help.

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BTW my maid also irons the clothes 2-3hrs, once every week. For me, I ironed the same amount clothes for about 1 hr (I did not employ a maid before), sometimes I wondered why she needs so long, even now I cannot tell...... I thought she is playing the mobile messages in the room when she is ironning the clothes, sometimes I will go into the room suddenly to check her, but she never let me catch....

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原帖由 CJCJ 於 11-3-24 11:30 發表

I don't think u ask too much from her, U are the boss, u just want to ask her do more and let yourself more free, right ?! It is reasonable !! But did u speak out when u want her to play with your B ...

我之前做過好多野﹐時間表﹐叫佢幾時做咩﹐幾時做乜都講過﹐但佢做左兩三日之後﹐又做返佢自己安排D時間。我都有叫佢同BB玩多D﹐不過佢都係冇。

我叫佢等我同BB再睡覺先好抹地(因為BB向到佢抹地時﹐會抱BB向張凳到坐﹐但BB就不停甘叫﹐最後佢放BB落地﹐BB對腳因睬地下而濕晒﹐又唔同BB換襪。) 跟住我同老公都未起身就抹地﹐但到我們起身後又唔會主動抹我地房間個地。即是我地間房成個星期都冇抹過地。

話佢又唔出聲﹐個樣好似唔想做甘。真係想即抄。其實我可唔可以即抄﹐叫佢聽日走呢? 我可以陪一個月薪金同比機票錢佢。

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發表於 11-3-24 13:34 |只看該作者

How can you expect your maid to play with YOUR child if you are NOT playing with your child yourself as well ???

原帖由 iphoneiphone 於 11-3-24 11:09 發表

其實我會唔會要求多呢? 我想佢做好家務﹐同BB玩﹐煮飯﹐但我自己就向屋企上網﹐唔做野﹐我有冇問題呀?

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CJCJ

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[quote]原帖由 iphoneiphone 於 11-3-24 12:15 發表

我之前做過好多野﹐時間表﹐叫佢幾時做咩﹐幾時做乜都講過﹐但佢做左兩三日之後﹐又做返佢自己安排D時間。我都有叫佢同BB玩多D﹐不過佢都係冇。

Of course u can fry her immediately but I think u should book the air tickets as well instead of giving money !!

For the example case of my mother's maid, before we plan to fry her, we asked the agent staff to buy the air ticket, prepare the document for her to sign first, on the day of frying her, the agent staff come to my mother's home to ask her pack immediately. She has no time to think & play.

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發表於 11-3-24 16:38 |只看該作者

仲有半年忍埋唔好續約囉

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原帖由 JessMama 於 11-3-24 13:34 發表
How can you expect your maid to play with YOUR child if you are NOT playing with your child yourself as well ???

噤如果僱主係唔勤力嘅人, 係咪都唔應該要求工人勤力?

個人覺得同小朋友玩都係part of湊小朋友工作, 如果佢噤唔鍾意同小朋友玩, 噤唔該佢唔好去要湊小朋友嘅屋企做野, 去做照顧老人家嘅屋企! 無媽媽會鍾意一個唔同自己小朋友玩嘅工人...

我相信樓主唔係完全唔同自己小朋友玩而要求工人做, 只係希望個姐姐有時都會同小朋友玩下啫~