both have the responsiblity and contribution to the house. nowadays, man is more diff to get a job, if you don't mind - shift the role to him - let him stay home to take care of the kids' homework and other household work...
i don't see any harm on this.
I'm doing that for the last 5 years.
I am also taking the full responsibility of the family as my husband said that he needs to pay off some loans before I married him. Though I work for long hours, taking care of son in the evening and also need to study after work, I feel very sad that he keeps on spending money in buying things for personal enjoyment. I wonder whether he really loves the son and me. I am very tired now.