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1月12日東方日報

來港只有數月的菲傭，昨在跑馬地住所餵少主吃奶時，疑女僱主不滿牛奶太熱，發生爭執，菲傭遭人抓傷手部及即時解僱，她事後拿

行李，由救護車送院敷治，女僱主則被警方拘捕。
菲傭二十四歲，在黃泥涌峽道四號一單位工作。昨午三時許，事主餵 BB 吃奶時，姓劉（三十八歲）女戶主認為牛奶溫度太高，大為不滿，責罵菲傭，兩人發生爭執，菲傭遭人抓傷左手，致電報警，僱主將其即時解僱，她收拾行李，乘救護車送院，警員調查後，將女戶主拘捕。
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各位切記要控制自己情緒，無論如何也不應動手，以免自己吃虧。

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精人出口,笨人出手.切記切記咪中人圈套.否則後果......頂籠同佢開罵戰,並要保持距離.

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原帖由 saiwanho 於 09-1-12 09:46 發表

各位切記要控制自己情緒，無論如何也不應動手，以免自己吃虧

Totally agree. We are civilized and we can't let this happen, though I myself might have violent thoughts most of the time, which is not nice either.

Not only our behaviour, but our mind has to be clear of violence all the time to avoid such things from happening. I 've been always saying scolding is not nice as well as it always triggersemotions of both sides and finally a fight..

[ 本帖最後由 pollyw 於 09-1-13 16:30 編輯 ]

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今日收音機都有報導太太掌摑印傭被罰款!!
我估佢地都係新任僱主, 請外僱年資可能唔高, 如果請得三五七年, 應該好高EQ.

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都唔知係咪條友玩野，自己抓傷再告人。。。

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發表於 09-1-13 16:47 |只看該作者

She called an ambulance to go to the hospital after departure from boss's household, I don't think the case is that simple....

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原帖由 saiwanho 於 09-1-13 16:47 發表
She called an ambulance to go to the hospital after departure from boss's household, I don't think the case is that simple....

Sounds like we have taken the role of the cop in their investigation.

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As employers, we need to think twice before we scold. And specially cautious too on firing a maid.

That's also why I brought the maid to the Labour Dept to settle. Getting the agent to witness is also anothe way. It seems to be a bit safe with a third party's presence.

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EQ真係要高d,就算好嬲好嬲時都要找另一種途徑發洩,唔好同佢有任何肢體接觸.[寧願阿Q d同自己講,同佢郁手只會影低自己身份

]等自己好過d.

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發表於 09-1-13 17:54 |只看該作者

原帖由 pollyw 於 09-1-13 16:55 發表
As employers, we need to think twice before we scold. And specially cautious too on firing a maid.

That's also why I brought the maid to the Labour Dept to settle. Getting the agent to witness is a ...

I don't know employer can settle a termination in Labour Dept. Need to make appointment? Actually how? Can you tell more, pls.
Thanks a lot.

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原帖由 quoquo 於 09-1-13 17:54 發表

I don't know employer can settle a termination in Labour Dept. Need to make appointment? Actually how? Can you tell more, pls.
Thanks a lot.

Check PM pls!!

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佢地係工人, 最多都係唔用佢, 用不著動手, 動完手又唔係唔使補錢補機票, 千其唔好咁笨呀!

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EQ控制唔到，"sit底"永遠係自己，我覺得無論工人幾衰同蠢，都可以炒Q o左佢就算。

幾難忍都唔可以出手，呢樣係基本教養，大家諗下，呢個年代無妹仔架哪

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發表於 09-1-13 23:21 |只看該作者

POLLYW, I also want to know the process!! Could you also PM me the info please? THanks!

原帖由 pollyw 於 09-1-13 18:04 發表

Check PM pls!!

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普洱姐，ng爭在比埋住西灣河個老友

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原帖由 saiwanho 於 09-1-13 23:24 發表
普洱姐，ng爭在比埋住西灣河個老友

saiwanho & coffeecake,

接住!!!

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原帖由 pollyw 於 09-1-13 23:53 發表

saiwanho & coffeecake,

接住!!!

thank you so much

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