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mercy_mama

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發表於 04-8-25 23:16 |只看該作者

A "wonderful" 奶奶！

When I was pregant about 8 months. One day, she told me that "你知我頭家在Tuen Mun，but 你住在 Kln.，我無可能唔理自己頭家去照顧你". You know what's the meaning la! So I say, I will take care myself.

After I give birth, she told me don't touch water and wash so much thing, but she remind me again, she will not go out to take care me. So I need to do everything myself, even I just give birth only 3 day, I also need to cook the meal for myself. (My mother need to take care my son, he's P.1). But in front of the others, she said "why you wash the thing yourself ka?" She is so cheap.

Then坐完月, I sick and the Chinese doctor said why I don't eat some 補品, she said"唔使食補品＆貴

:-D 我於七月四日在廣華醫院出世 :-D 4/7 = 3.27Kg 13/7 = 3.7Kg 4/8 = 4.2Kg 23/8 = 5Kg

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發表於 04-8-25 23:34 |只看該作者

Re: A wonderful 奶奶！

好過我奶奶la, 生完整煲清補凉比我嘆,(問佢我飲得咩?佢say yes,我唔知道,on 居居飲咗2碗)我開刀gar.
人哋7日d嘢就清晒,我就成個幾月重ba ba 聲,成個人'許'晒...
都唔知係咪靠害...重口口聲聲話有益...

唉,見到個"補"字咁樣叫補品wor!

我99都真係好鬼wonderful 嫁??!!

所以佢唔煲比你都係好彩數,我寧願食白飯好過la!!!

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mercy_mama

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發表於 04-8-25 23:42 |只看該作者

Re: A wonderful 奶奶！

hktissue:

My 奶奶 forced me (with my baby daughter) to have lunch in Chinese restaurant just 5 days after I give birth. Of course I say no la. Then she forced my husband to force me. I told to my husband "I just 生完 5 days, do you want me die with your daughter?"

Finally, my 奶奶 very unhappy and leave my home.

:-D 我於七月四日在廣華醫院出世 :-D 4/7 = 3.27Kg 13/7 = 3.7Kg 4/8 = 4.2Kg 23/8 = 5Kg

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發表於 04-8-26 00:22 |只看該作者

Re: A wonderful 奶奶！

Hello EVACHOY

After I gave birth to my baby, my "wonderful" mum-in-law also told me "唔使食補品"ga, but after a while she also said all of my daughters ate a lot of 補品 after gave birth to their children. In front of her son, she always mentioned my face looks very 紅潤. May be she's afraid her son might complained she wasn't cook any 補品 for me to eat.

She told my other child " your mum got a lot of jewellery hidden somewhere". I forgot to tell her, oh yes, I got a lot of jewellery but not even one of them was given by you.

Take care yourself.

:cry: :cry:

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發表於 04-8-26 01:17 |只看該作者

Re: A "wonderful" 奶奶！

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maggiechow

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發表於 04-8-26 08:59 |只看該作者

Re: A "wonderful" 奶奶！

我奶奶仲串，生完後好快修身，當天對答如下：
奶奶話：緊係啦！乜補品都唔食，連雞都唔劏隻。
個仔即答：我哋儲埋幾千諗住比佢補身，点知比你攞左去駛，仲邊有錢補身呀！

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發表於 04-8-26 09:31 |只看該作者

Re: A "wonderful" 奶奶！

maggiechow 於 2004-08-26 08:59:53

我奶奶仲串，生完後好快修身，當天對答如下：
奶奶話：緊係啦！乜補品都唔食，連雞都唔劏隻。
個仔即答：我哋儲埋幾千諗住比佢補身，点知比你攞左去駛，仲邊有錢補身呀！

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你老公好斗膽 wor! 咁串自己媽

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christinewg

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發表於 04-8-26 20:14 |只看該作者

Re: A "wonderful" 奶奶！

[size=large]而家0的人特別矜貴,又要食燕窩,佢以前得田雞呀,蝦蟹都食woo~ 大佬,而家咩年代呀..佢唔好話打仗要食樹皮..係矜貴0的架啦..鬼叫你唔係呢個年代生呀..??

yes!! yes!!

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Re: A "wonderful" 奶奶！

我老公都成日叫我奶奶整燕窩我食，我老公通常趁佢放假返奶奶度拎o既。有次老公o係放假前一日叫定奶奶整燕窩，奶奶都話ok(老爺奶奶均退休，好得閒)，但到第二日(咁o岩我又放假，稔住同老公一齊去奶奶度食飯，但奶奶唔知我都放假，以為淨係老公放，佢亦好恨老公返去食飯o既)，我老公臨出發前再打電話俾奶奶，問佢整o左未？奶奶話無整呀~~下次先喎！老公又問佢咁有無煲湯呀？佢又無煲。我老公一句頂埋去：咁我唔返o黎食飯啦~~
之後去o左同我媽咪食飯，話番呢件事俾我媽聽，我媽反應：無湯飲無燕窩就唔返去食啦？咁都得o既？我老公答：緊係~~咩o野唔得呀 :mrgreen:

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maggiechow

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發表於 04-8-27 11:10 |只看該作者

Re: A "wonderful" 奶奶！

sunshine0613:

This is true.

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KiuKiu媽媽

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Re: A "wonderful" 奶奶！

我都唔想話我自己阿媽, 佢都系奶奶, 咁我弟媳有左, 咁我叫佢咁得閑, 有時間煲多D湯水比弟媳飲, 例如魚湯, 因為好有益嗎, 點知佢同我講, 話佢大肚個時都無咩湯水飲喎, 唔使專登煲, 都系平時咁一星期煲一次半次, 我就答佢 "唔通以前您無得飲, 依家就要自己個新抱都好似您咁無得飲咩, 您咁奇怪架", 我頂完佢, 我都興興地轉話題

雖然佢系我阿媽, 但系將心比己, 都唔希望我阿媽咁對人地個女啦, 講真咪當系煲比個孫飲囉, 我自己做系做人新抱, 我奶奶亦無煲過野咩好野比我食, 但算啦, 我自己知自己奶奶事, 佢系唔會做這些野的人, 我亦唔會期望, 講真我又唔系叫我阿媽煲補品只系煲下日常湯水等BB吸引多D, 我真系比佢激死, 心諗又時我阿媽重難頂過我奶奶呀...唉!

________________ KiuKiu媽媽

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HoWangMami

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Re: A "wonderful" 奶奶！

我奶奶都係未生之前同我媽咪講得架啦,我咁多個女都係返來我到坐月,我知點照顧佢的,結果生完佢果D所謂照顧就係,每晚食剩D"食送"尾,在零晨3-4時的時間,放入爐整熱,然後叫我起身食飯,我同我老公講好熱(當時是4月尾5月頭)唔食得唔得,我老公話咁等我0羅入來你食D啦,咁我就算啦食D,點知我老公話奶奶話唔得,一定要出去食,我幾辛苦又累又熱,一路食一路流汗,仲要聽佢講煮埋比你食都咁...........
當時因為工人未到,所以我老公就叫佢家姐幫手煮飯,佢重要同我個姑奶講多一次上面件事,仲話我咁巴"幣"叫MAMI0羅咁多野0黎,D家姐又成日都帶咁多補品來等(其實D補品係MAMI整好,因為怕奶奶唔鍾意,所以就避忌D叫我家姐帶來),咁我生完又咳,所以MAMI又買好多批把比我,佢一句多謝都冇,就自己食左,問都冇問我! :-x

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發表於 04-8-27 15:49 |只看該作者

Re: A "wonderful" 奶奶！

I also lived with my 99 during the first month after giving birth to my BB. She always said no need to eat other "Bo Bun", just eat "Ginger Vinegar" is enough. So she only boiled "Ginger Vinegar" for me. After 1 month, her daughter also gave birth and lived with her for the first month. However, she boiled Ginseng and chicken for her every day! Even though I saw it, she would not ask me to eat. Then I know it was because she is her daughter and I am not. She just treat me as an outsider and not a family member. And I said to myself, "99, you don't treat me as your family member, you also can't expect me to treat you the same too!" :-x

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Re: A "wonderful" 奶奶！

It's difficult for 99 to treat ourself as her daughter. So, always in my mind "I can't have any expectation from her as she is not my mother". Then, how can I love her who is my husband's mother.

Previously I very concerned her feeling - happy or not and her commend on me/my family. It made me very unhappy. But now, I am trying to - 時運高，聽不到，睇不到．

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發表於 04-8-28 13:42 |只看該作者

Re: A "wonderful" 奶奶！

我生完之後我奶奶請左一星期假話同我坐月，佢黎到我屋企都幾好買埋送添，但係唔知點解成日坐晌道唔煮，於是乎果個星期就係我一日三飧咁煮飯俾佢食，佢仲要連我亞媽特登整俾我果ｄ糯米酒都食埋。佢之後仲成日同我ｄ姑仔同朋友講話佢特登請假黎幫我坐月，我心腍唔知係我幫你坐月定你幫我坐月。 :evil: :evil: :evil: :evil: :evil:

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14/5/2006: 3.30kg (birth)
14/6/2006: 4.34kg (1 month)
20/7/2006: 5.58kg (2 month)
25/8/2006: 6.41kg (3 month)
16/11/2006: 7.5kg (6 month)

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Re: A "wonderful" 奶奶！

Prior to my pregnancy, my 99 kept on saying that she would help take care of my baby. She has never mentioned this again since my pregnancy. She has never prepared any thing special for me to eat during my pregnancy.

She will come to visit BB once a week now. Whenever she comes, she will have a lot of comments. "You cannot make BB burp like this." "
Why don't you put on some cream for BB after taking a bath?" "You don't need to take a bath for baby everyday". "Let BB cry, it's a good exercise". "Don't carry BB too much". And then she will go on telling me something how she raised her children 30 - 40 years ago.

Thanks god that she is not living with me.