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老公這陣子鬼鬼祟祟的同佢家人默默的傾電話~~

問佢做什麼佢又話沒事~~

昨天99打電話比佢~我問什麼事???
佢話他已經遊說到99將間屋租比人~~:;pppp:

我心立即好不舒服~
1 佢應該傾了很久的了~~
2 點解我又是最後一個知??

我又應該比什麼的反應佢呢??

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我老公乜都會話我知既! 佢會喺我面前同佢屋企人講電話，收咗線又會話我知乜事; 就算我唔在場，佢屋企人打完電話比佢，佢返到來都會主動話我知!

我知還知~ 我只覺得老公乜都話比我知，係因為尊重我! 所以我亦都好尊重佢 - 絕對唔會理唔插手佢屋企既事 - 除非直接影響到老公本身! 我先會講自己感受 + 比意見~~~~

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發表於 08-4-29 17:50 |只看該作者

ac321, good point!!

I share the same though with you, myself also youngest daughter, I dun want to invole in husband's family stuck, not telling me is very good!

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發表於 08-4-29 11:35 |只看該作者

原文章由 ac321 於 08-4-28 17:06 發表
You should enjoy it. You don't need to handle all the 2 families.

Yes 我想我要好好的學習不去八卦c6的事~~我不想c6的家事影響到自己~~:;pppp:

唉~有時我覺得自己有d自找煩惱

c6又不會理自己而且轉頭會話自己多事~~so我要放下~~

不理不理~~

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發表於 08-4-28 17:06 |只看該作者

You should enjoy it. You don't need to handle all the 2 families.

原文章由 Funghei 於 08-4-28 16:07 發表

敢我死了~~我c6是大仔是唯一個仔之後全是女~~
我呢~我是大女之後有2個細佬~~~

唉~~自己家中的事我沒辦法理因為我2個細佬都好好的handle
而我c6的事有時的會覺得我應該有權去知~~but 現在的想要好好的改 ...

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發表於 08-4-28 16:59 |只看該作者

我覺得冇咩問題喎~ 男人係冇咁中意講家事嫁....可能佢覺得冇咩必要同你講掛, 咁你同99平時有冇聊天的呢? 你可以同你99閒聊時8下都得格....我個c6剛好相反, 對我外家事一d都唔八卦, 連同佢自己mami都唔係好多野傾, 99有時知c6不在家, 都會打電話來同我傾下偈八下, 反而99d野要經我把口c6先知道......

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原文章由 Funghei 於 28/4/08 13:53 發表

我都想自己有d種想法~~
但c6的家人有什麼事的時候一定會牽涉到我:;pppp:
因為佢地家人好奇怪的~有什麼事的時候c6的姊姊妹妹佢地會在酒吧呀~傾而我c6又會消失一晚~~佢試過的了~~

有一次我問佢~點解你敢奇怪的有 ...

我老佢地就唔會出街傾,但佢地會閂門傾,唔會比你知,就算佢地比你知呢,佢地又會捉你入房閂門傾ka.
佢地唔會大家一齊傾,我覺得玩分化咁.
所以我係咩都唔會去理同知

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發表於 08-4-28 16:10 |只看該作者

老公的家事, 我仲清楚過我老公

一個人之所以快樂,不是因為她擁有得多, 而是因為她計較得少

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原文章由 ac321 於 08-4-28 15:59 發表
That's why some old people say: it is better for a younger daughter/son marry with a elder son/daughter.
My husband is the elder son in his family. He like to make all the decision for his parent/bro ...

敢我死了~~我c6是大仔是唯一個仔之後全是女~~
我呢~我是大女之後有2個細佬~~~

唉~~自己家中的事我沒辦法理因為我2個細佬都好好的handle
而我c6的事有時的會覺得我應該有權去知~~but 現在的想要好好的改變了~~

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That's why some old people say: it is better for a younger daughter/son marry with a elder son/daughter.
My husband is the elder son in his family. He like to make all the decision for his parent/brothers/sisters. And sometimes he complain about I am not care about his parents ( as I don't want to involve in).
And sometimes, he is angry about me if my we (or my brother) make some decision for my parent. And now, I let him handle all the 2 families' 家事 and I don't involve in. We 2 are all feel happy.

原文章由 Funghei 於 08-4-28 15:45 發表

唉~~完來是性格~~我自己都不知~~

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發表於 08-4-28 15:45 |只看該作者

原文章由 ac321 於 08-4-28 15:33 發表
It is the chara. of elder son/daughter.
It is because the elder one always think that he/she has teh responsibility to their families......They like to handle all the 家事
I am the younger daughter ...

唉~~完來是性格~~我自己都不知~~

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It is the chara. of elder son/daughter.
It is because the elder one always think that he/she has teh responsibility to their families......They like to handle all the 家事
I am the younger daughter in my family. Therefore, I alway think that it is not my busniess to handle those 家事. Don't disturb me! I am selfish !

原文章由 Funghei 於 08-4-28 15:19 發表

嘩~~你又知的??

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發表於 08-4-28 15:19 |只看該作者

原文章由 ac321 於 08-4-28 15:05 發表
Are you the elder daughter in your family?

嘩~~你又知的??

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Are you the elder daughter in your family?

原文章由 Funghei 於 08-4-28 14:54 發表

OIC~~我想其實現實是不可能將兩家人的事都變成自己的事~~

看開d~~看開dd~~

C6有權不話佢d家事比我聽~~~而我呢~~我的家事
is my business~~~是不敢??? ...

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原文章由 ac321 於 08-4-28 14:49 發表
my point is: 你的家事 is your business. If you need my help (discuss with your, us my name to refuse them), I can help you. If not, then solve by yourself. They are your parent/brother/sister.
我的家 ...

OIC~~我想其實現實是不可能將兩家人的事都變成自己的事~~

看開d~~看開dd~~

C6有權不話佢d家事比我聽~~~而我呢~~我的家事
is my business~~~是不敢???

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my point is: 你的家事 is your business. If you need my help (discuss with your, us my name to refuse them), I can help you. If not, then solve by yourself. They are your parent/brother/sister.
我的家事is my business. If you want to know, I will tell you. If not, I will solve by myself.
Don't mix two families' 家事 together.

原文章由 Funghei 於 08-4-28 14:39 發表

其實我有時覺得兩公婆有什麼是要分你的家事，我的家事呢??:;pppp:
如果任何一方家中有事都會牽涉到另一方的(老公或老婆)~~

而其中的過程大家的知情權又去到那裡???mouth:

問得多大家沒趣~~不問又話不關心~~:si ...

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原文章由 ac321 於 08-4-28 14:32 發表
That's waht man like to do.............
He want to looks as a good son!!!!
However, I don't angry with him. Sometimes I will ask him do he want to refuse them (99) by my mouth? And don't forget to ask ...

其實我有時覺得兩公婆有什麼是要分你的家事，我的家事呢??:;pppp:
如果任何一方家中有事都會牽涉到另一方的(老公或老婆)~~

而其中的過程大家的知情權又去到那裡???

mouth:

問得多大家沒趣~~不問又話不關心~~

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發表於 08-4-28 14:34 |只看該作者

I won't angyr with my husband. Sometimes I think that he use my name to refuse his parent's requirement is better then he don't refuse them..............At least he know what he should do and what he shouldn't!

原文章由 Funghei 於 08-4-28 13:45 發表

My husband always let me (in my name) to refuse my 99's requirements我c6都是好的是佢~不好的而佢又不想做的就是我不想用我作衰人 ~~

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