見到好多外國人,外國同事,佢地通常第一句就How are you?! 咁我當然就話I'm fine,thank you!之後因為禮貌我會跟住問 and you? 佢地就blah blah blah, 先入正題⋯⋯
問題係我發覺好多時我答完 I am fine thank you 後,佢地就想入正題。 我既' And you ? ' 好似有㸃多餘。其實正常外國人禮儀,我使唔使問侯返佢講....... ' And you?' 呢?
請jm 多多指教!
我d同事/上司, 同我make call都會一開頭就how are you咁.
我次次都係答: i am good, thanks/ good/ great thank you之類.
有時我都唔知應該點答先好..
於是有次我就係佢地同我講how are you之前, 主動講左: how are you 先
想睇下外國人會點答, 點知佢地都係一句: great/ well i am doing great/ excellent/ not bad, etc. 之後就入正題.
咁所以我諗人地都唔expect你長篇大論。
下,我又唔覺得人地問how are you, 你答I'm fine, thx.有咩問題。
我男友都係英國人,見面都必問,當然唔會話I'm fine, thanks.好似咁見外。
通常佢問我問,我都會有時話yes, fine, because blah blah blah, then how about you?
Or 我有時答so so, because blah blah blah.
其實係可以想句野當中講一你點解咁諗同答
當然我覺得要睇你同緊咩人去講先啦。第一次見就blah blah, 未必個個都受囉
我屋企,生活圈子都有英美澳嘅人 ,我都明白就算兩個美國人親戚,住响唔同地方就有唔同風俗習慣,用字都好唔一樣。
其中一個都有講 ,佢 呢世人講how are you / I m fine thank you 應該無多過十次但咁樣並唔代表how are you /I am fine thank you係錯。
即使英國人都唔一定講how are you ? 咁真係有好多答案。
我之前嘅回覆,係去話俾樓主知 How are you ? I am fine. Thank you.And you ?响英國,私校又好,官校又好,屋企又好,posh 嘅地方都好,都係咁教how are you ? I m fine thank you . 去打開對話。樓主絕對無錯。