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原文章由 cowkingb 於 08-12-9 15:51 發表

it's nice to have the sharing with you. I was a full time mommy too since my boy was borned, and back to work only few months ago. Frankly I enjoyed much in taking care my boy but hate to face up ...

Given you have a goal in mind, I think you have achieved half of it already. The remianing half relies on your perserverence and as long as you keep up, it's not hard to succeed finally.

I, too, have my own target, which is to stop hiring such rubbish 2-3 years later. By that time I still need helper's assistance in the routine household chores (like cleaning, 'cuz I hate doing these) but I will hire a local helper instead. For the time being, I'm still so sick of having a stranger here in my house, whom I'm not obliged to take care of (her mood, fussy eating habit, behaviour, etc), yet I' m actually giving consideration everyday.

Good luck to us!

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原文章由 pollyw 於 08-12-9 15:20 發表

I've gained all the tips from my adverse experience. I remained silent all until the day I fired this rubbish. That's why she thought that I'm alright with her, but actually not. SHe even kept on ...

it's nice to have the sharing with you. I was a full time mommy too since my boy was borned, and back to work only few months ago. Frankly I enjoyed much in taking care my boy but hate to face up with the maid all day.

I plan (hope or dream??) to be a full time mommy again or just take a part time job years later when my boy enters into primary school. I promise myself that I will not employ any maid from that time on...

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原文章由 cowkingb 於 08-12-9 14:59 發表

You are so smart and choose not to scold her anymore... I really have to learn from you. My husband always advised me to be patient and don't be annoyed by the maid as all maids are ridiculuous!

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I've gained all the tips from my adverse experience. I remained silent all until the day I fired this rubbish. That's why she thought that I'm alright with her, but actually not. SHe even kept on making her ridiclous requests all the time without noticing that I was fXcking dissatisfied with her. WHenver I wanted so much to scold at her , I though to myself," Fine, then....You will get the fXXk out of my sight very soon!", and then I will eat up my words and silently wait for the day to come. I dunno if this is a right way to handle but at least it makes me feel much better than to shout and and to get myself annoyed, and there is peace in my mind.

It's a bit difficultt to be working mom but it's also ncie that you don't need to face your maid all day loong, which reduces the conflict which I often may have.

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原文章由 cowkingb 於 08-12-9 14:19 發表

左面果個係你位公主? 唔好意思, 佢都幾樣衰 wor... 我一定唔會請呢 d 樣既工人, 惡形惡相.

點解你會比佢落街食飯既? 你重咁好買咁多 choices 比佢 choose. 講真我真係無咁既心思同時間, 返工已經好辛苦, 重要 ... 真係重多嘢過我個仔呀...

係呀…我d仔囡都無咁多要求。食咪食囉!呀支呀左咁,又成日要懶街…我99話呢d叫做無衣食呀!:;pppp:

好好笑,我99同我唔係好喏牙,但一講到隻印就同我同一陣線。

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原文章由 pollyw 於 08-12-9 14:43 發表

你錯喇!係王子,唔係公主呀!拒有女友嫁! She didn't look like that when I interviewed her, and she did had smiles at that time. She was juz a yes girl towards everything that I verbally asked h ...

You are so smart and choose not to scold her anymore... I really have to learn from you. My husband always advised me to be patient and don't be annoyed by the maid as all maids are ridiculuous!

You are better than me, you can stay home to protect your kids. I am a working mom, I have no choice to work as I want to give a better future to my boy.

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原文章由 cowkingb 於 08-12-9 14:19 發表

左面果個係你位公主? 唔好意思, 佢都幾樣衰 wor... 我一定唔會請呢 d 樣既工人, 惡形惡相.

你重咁好買咁多 choices 比佢 choose. 講真我真係無咁既心思同時間, 返工已經好辛苦, 重要 ...

你錯喇!係王子,唔係公主呀!拒有女友嫁!

She didn't look like that when I interviewed her, and she did had smiles at that time. She was juz a yes girl towards everything that I verbally asked her to commit during the interview. But ofcourse, this was only a trap created by her and the rubbish agent.

”點解你會比佢落街食飯既?”＜＜＜＜＜＜因為諗住快炒,費事Stop拒囉! Get real, even if I successfully kept her from going downstairs, she was juz staying home doing nothing and hiding herself inside the washroom or storeroom. ALways physically absent, not to talk about her soul. So, her value is minimal even if she's there inside the house.

There were times when I asked her not to go out for lunch 'cus there were food in the fridge for her, then she claimed that she wants vegetable for that particualr day, and then I told her there was lettuce in the fridge, which I showed her, then she said she wanted Choy Sum. This is ridicuous! SHe's the kind that never gives up if she has a detemination to do anything, no matter how you stop her. I'd rather save my "air" arguing with her, and warm my tummy instead.

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原文章由 pollyw 於 08-12-9 14:10 發表

我下面左邊ロ個件呀,比哂牛雞羊扒拒,拒都可以毎日話要落街食飯呀!ロ個排七、ハ月d仔女放暑假响企,拒日日咁落1個鐘,百有時两個鐘tiM呀,剰番我ー個對住两條靚。諗住温左新人就炒,費事gut拒ロ窄。真係X拒臭街呀!:ange ...

左面果個係你位公主? 唔好意思, 佢都幾樣衰 wor... 我一定唔會請呢 d 樣既工人, 惡形惡相.

點解你會比佢落街食飯既? 你重咁好買咁多 choices 比佢 choose. 講真我真係無咁既心思同時間, 返工已經好辛苦, 重要我諗埋佢食 d mud... 真係 sor li 啦... 我做唔倒... 不過而家我屋企呢個, 無咁衰之前我都會盡量諗唔同既 chicken related 既食物, chicken wing, chicken 扒, chicken 脾都試過... 魚亦有買過, 不過佢好似唔多 like, 所以買左兩次無再買... 睇下... 真係好煩, pork 又話唔食... 因為 religious, I am fine, 魚又唔 like, 真係重多嘢過我個仔呀...

真係好想.................... 好想快 d 個新工人來... 真係好憎而家屋企呢件, mud 都唔掂, 而家重會駁嘴 tim...

雖然, 我都有保留, 唔知新既會唔會重差過舊既....希望唔會啦...

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原文章由 cowkingb 於 08-12-9 13:59 發表

千祈唔好覺得係自己 biase 左 d 印印. 我都用過好幾個印, bun 姐都試過兩個啦. compare 之下我真係頂唔住 d 印. 之前 c 唔憤氣覺得印應該係乖 d, 純 d, 全部都係錯既...

今朝先同老公講, 我地而家個印咪又係 ...

之前個印, 食物既我地都會就下佢, 而家呢個, 話知佢, 有 chicken wing 有 chicken 腸, 佢想點整都得... 唔好煩我...

我下面左邊ロ個件呀,比哂牛雞羊扒拒,拒都可以毎日話要落街食飯呀!ロ個排七、ハ月d仔女放暑假响企,拒日日咁落1個鐘,百有時两個鐘tiM呀,剰番我ー個對住两條靚。諗住温左新人就炒,費事gut拒ロ窄。真係X拒臭街呀!

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原文章由 pollyw 於 08-12-9 13:49 發表

唉…可能我自己經驗另我biased啦!我比ぇ前ロ個两件印搞到我雞毛鴨血え後(真係有仲衰過無ロ個隻),我向燈火法誓:我以後都唔再請印。

仲有,d印通常送番郷下既机票都勁貴,Bun既比較平d。印既飲食習慣真係好「師爺」, ...

千祈唔好覺得係自己 biase 左 d 印印. 我都用過好幾個印, bun 姐都試過兩個啦. compare 之下我真係頂唔住 d 印. 之前 c 唔憤氣覺得印應該係乖 d, 純 d, 全部都係錯既...

今朝先同老公講, 我地而家個印咪又係話想要 $$唔要假, 諗住佢咁都 ok r, 無咁易學壞... 最後又點呢? 咪有另外一d 嘢煩, 話好悶, 無心機做... 總之做得唔好佢地一定有原因...我覺得問題在於係佢地本身份人係點 lor... 個人係好既, 會無咁易學壞, 本身份人係差既底, 你唔比佢出街佢都可以諗 d 古怪嘢出來....

之前個印, 食物既我地都會就下佢, 而家呢個, 話知佢, 有 chicken wing 有 chicken 腸, 佢想點整都得... 唔好煩我...

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原文章由 cowkingb 於 08-12-9 12:51 發表

都係架...

唉…可能我自己經驗另我biased啦!我比ぇ前ロ個两件印搞到我雞毛鴨血え後(真係有仲衰過無ロ個隻),我向燈火法誓:我以後都唔再請印。

仲有,d印通常送番郷下既机票都勁貴,Bun既比較平d。印既飲食習慣真係好「師爺」,又要拜神,(做得黎,又要我就拒)我覺得呢d真係好惡頂。

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原文章由 pollyw 於 08-12-9 11:55 發表

In terms of this, I consider Bun is better.

都係架...

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原文章由 cowkingb 於 08-12-9 11:05 發表

我之前個印, 未來前我地都講左唔比, 因為我個仔都係好細, 當時只得一歲都唔夠.... 唔比唔比, 佢咪又係偷偷地做...! 所以成日唔見人 lor, 唔係 li 0係 toilet 就係 kithen. 根本睇唔倒咁多... 我地又要返工, 有 c ...

In terms of this, I consider Bun is better.

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原文章由 tramtram 於 08-12-5 11:32 發表
我姐姐幫左5年幾了, 我知佢本身係回教徒, 但佢又食豬肉, 日常生活都無麥唔同 ?? 最近發覺佢唔食豬, 我都無理佢, 因影響唔到我家庭.

琴晚, 比我知近排, 佢每日要祈禱5次, 分別早上, 下午, 黃昏, 晚上, 睡前, 我強烈 ...

我之前個印, 未來前我地都講左唔比, 因為我個仔都係好細, 當時只得一歲都唔夠.... 唔比唔比, 佢咪又係偷偷地做...! 所以成日唔見人 lor, 唔係 li 0係 toilet 就係 kithen. 根本睇唔倒咁多... 我地又要返工, 有 cam 都唔可能分分鐘咁去睇....所以相比 bun, 印真係有好多煩嘢.

我之前個印, 就淨係用塊布包住個頭, 而家屋企果件, 佢話0係之前個 employer 到, 會著晒成套衫去祈禱, 有次半夜佢咁樣 (成身白色), 嚇到 d 小朋友喊. 從此佢既 employer 就唔比佢祈禱啦... 當時佢同我地講重係咁0係到笑...

我老公就同佢講, 話咁會嚇親 d 細路, 唔係玩架, 佢地會 nightmare... 佢地 d 工人就係咁無惱.

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