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大宅

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發表於 14-6-20 15:35 |顯示全部帖子
Any working mama can share how it's like to have only a couple hours with the children each day? off work, come home, dinner, shower, then it's almost bedtime. almost no quality time to spend with kids?

i am now a full time mama but have been having thoughts and struggles lately as the financial burden is here. i am really considering returning to work, but i really really miss my boys. each day, seeing their smiles is so precious... but from time to time i get really frustrated too because i really have no time for myself... going back to work, at least i have some "breathing" time during travel and lunch...

it's really hard to choose, i don't want to regret it if i choose to go back to work.


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發表於 14-6-20 20:59 |顯示全部帖子
要揾食,真係無辦法...
自己毎晚幫小朋友沖涼/食飯/玩一陣便睡覺...
放假安排多點親子時間/活動...

暫時跟小朋友的關係都好好的


大宅

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發表於 14-6-20 23:38 |顯示全部帖子
wcpcelia 發表於 14-6-20 20:59
要揾食,真係無辦法...
自己毎晚幫小朋友沖涼/食飯/玩一陣便睡覺...
放假安排多點親子時間/活動...
how old are your children? i think if they are older they might understand better? i am afraid switching from ftm to working mama they will have a hard time to adapt, my boys are 2.5yr and 10 months only. if i return to the workforce, that means i'll get home at 7 (at least, if i'm lucky to have a job that doesn't require OT), but they need to get to bed at 930, that means in that 2.5 hour we will have to have dinner, shower, and play...


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發表於 14-6-21 08:00 |顯示全部帖子
attaahhhh 發表於 14-6-20 23:38
how old are your children? i think if they are older they might understand better? i am afraid switc ...
明白, 你的問題, 相信都是不少在職媽媽的問題...
我放完產假,便繼續返工了...
會唔捨得BB架...但比時間自己去適應...為咗兩餐,有時真係無計的...
我自己好D,可以揾到一份準時返放工的文職(但人工唔高)

其實有D人, 就算無返工,理應可以有好多時間陪下小朋友, 但她們可能只係各有各玩: 買咗一份玩具, 只係放响度比小朋友,但大人又走去做其他嘢, 基本唔係陪小朋友一齊玩的,呢個也絶非一個理想的親子時間。反而我和C6, 放工/放假,多數都係陪住小朋友..., 小朋友雖然日間返學/返嬰院,見不到面,但大家關係都可以繼續維持得好好的。

自己再慢慢衡量一下家庭及工作吧...



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發表於 14-6-23 02:13 |顯示全部帖子

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原帖由 attaahhhh 於 14-06-20 發表
how old are your children? i think if they are older they might understand better? i am afraid switc ...
Who will help u to take care ur kids while u are returning to work? U may request the helper to shower ur kids before u go home! My schedule is:
6:15-6:30 arrive home
6:30-7:30 dinner
7:30-8:00 homework time
8:00-9:30 quality kids time, we may play together, story time or go to supermarket
9:30-10:00 prepare going to bed

Thus, I have at least 1.5hrs kids time in weekdays, quality is better than quantity!!



每日望住佢哋就充滿力量啦!


大宅

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發表於 14-6-23 13:17 |顯示全部帖子
I am working mum too, only can tell myself 重質不重量!
I play with my kid for 2 hrs after work, no TV, no phone, only my kid and I or daddy :)


大宅

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發表於 14-6-23 16:12 |顯示全部帖子
my mum looks after my daughter who is nearly 3 years old.
and I only get home for dinner at 9pm everynight, I will either bring my girl back to our own place after dinner and we will read and play with her until 1030. and bring her over at 8am next morning
Otherwise we will stay at my mum's till around 10+ and go home but dont get to see her in the morning as she tends to oversleep when she's at my mum's.

However we do spend all our weekends with her packed with activities such as going to parks, playground, swimming etc etc.

my mum makes sure she has nap in the evening before we come home so she got energy to play with us and often showers her before we get home.

We explain to her why sometimes she dont get to use mama and baba, we need to work to be able to afford to pay for her school fees and buy things she wants. and we treasure time together alot.


大宅

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發表於 14-6-24 01:31 |顯示全部帖子
Thanks for all your replies. I know it's really hard, for us in Hong Kong. It seems it will be better when the kids are older? Because right now, my 2.5 yr old, it still takes him almost an hour to finish dinner! I just can't imagine what it would be like if I have to come home at 7ish and still have to spend an hour trying to get him to finish his dinner...

and maybe when they are older, they can sleep a bit later?

well i guess, if i have to go back to work, i have to... i just need to adapt to it... i think it's harder for me to adapt than for my kids...


大宅

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發表於 14-6-24 06:59 |顯示全部帖子

回覆:Any working mama can share how it\'s like to...

I\'m a working mum, for my case, pick a job near home, I can back home after work more earlier, arrive home at 18:30, also I walk to home to hv lunch nearly everyday
U can choose a job which no need ot( maybe lower salary) or work half day to exchange the time with kids




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