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發表於 07-11-21 13:08 |只看該作者 |倒序瀏覽 |打印

She has been working for us for more than 3 years. For the past 3-4 months, she has not been on time.

Last week she said she would be back by 7pm. We waited until 9. She gave us no phone call. sunddenly she called us saying that she would be back at 10. Finally, she came back at 11 .

We tried very way to prevent it from happening again. We have talked to her patiently sometimes. No improvement. Angrily sometimes, no improvement.

Any adivce?

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發表於 07-11-21 13:41 |只看該作者

I think you both should talk about a more appropriate time to come home on day-off.

My maid is allowed to come home at 8:30 p.m. on day-off. I will also let her come home at 9:00 p.m. occasionally. My mom's maid come home at 10:00 p.m. I think, has to come home at 7:00 p.m. on day-off is a bit early. Even when my son is under 1-year-old, I allowed my maid to come home at 8:30 p.m.

The first time I have a maid, I listened to my friends to have her back at 7:30 p.m. After a few times of her holidays, she asked me about coming home later because she wants to have dinner together with her friends, she asked for 8:00 p.m. I talked with my husband and let her come home the latest 8:30 p.m. She was very happy. She then come back between 8:00 p.m. to 8:30 p.m. everafter.

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原文章由 TszChingMaMa 於 07-11-21 13:08 發表
She has been working for us for more than 3 years. For the past 3-4 months, she has not been on time.

Last week she said she would be back by 7pm. We waited until 9. She gave us no ph ...

Talk to her, if she still come back not on time. Her day off will change to week day.

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發表於 07-11-21 14:15 |只看該作者

Actually, not all maids will follow employer's instruction. My ex-maid promise me she will arrive home before 10:00pm when her holiday but she was late for 10-20 minutes everytime. I tried serveral ways to talk with her but she said that she entitle 24 hours holiday (means she can return home at anytime !?!?) Lucky she resigned and I don't need to get angry on her holiday.

Most of the maid in Hong Kong who finished contract is "老手" , they will not follow instruction and easy to get black face. Because some of them are not difficult to find a new job in HKG evern break contract with new employer.

Thanks god giving me a happy family.

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發表於 07-11-21 14:44 |只看該作者

我之前個印又係遲到返屋企, 我要佢9點返黎, 點知佢9點先打比我問佢遲d返得唔得, 佢話佢依家重係'尖沙咀'食緊飯, 我丙到佢7彩, 我話你依家先打比我, 點解唔早d打比我, 我話如果我話唔得你可唔可以即刻係我面前出現? 終於佢果日成10點先返, 足足遲左1個鐘, 跟住我係佢下次放假果日要佢遲返1個鐘頭先准出門口, 咁佢就再無遲到啦. 因為佢知道無着数, 都係扣返佢d時間.

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發表於 07-11-21 15:34 |只看該作者

My maid come home at 7:30pm when my son below 1 year old
now is always come back before 9pm
she leave my home around 9am

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發表於 07-11-21 15:48 |只看該作者

我同事個菲菲話佢應該有24小時假
直情星期六晚8:00去老公度訓,星期日晚8:00返
(佢個菲公晌佢來港之後,又來港做司機,我同事送埋避孕丸佢,好彩無大肚, 現在菲菲已完約走人)

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發表於 07-11-21 17:25 |只看該作者

如果佢真係唔肯7點返屋企,咁你訂7點都無用.
不如你問下佢,叫佢講清楚幾點返,免得你地要等佢門啦.
我比我工人自由,佢都識做,通常如果有約,要早出,就一定一早定,而且當日係做妥野先出街.至於幾點返?如果我唔係有事要佢早D返來幫手,我心目中既時間係大概8點至9點.
我次次都會問下佢大概幾點返.早過8點我當係佢比我既bonus.太夜我就會勸佢唔好去咁夜:"對身體唔好呀"之類.

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發表於 07-11-21 17:43 |只看該作者

give her warning letter

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發表於 07-11-21 21:57 |只看該作者

佢今次11點返就下次放假時叫佢早上11點先出門口。如果早返就下次比佢早d出門口。

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發表於 07-11-21 22:20 |只看該作者

Is your maid take Sunday off? If yes, try to give her Saturday off instead, even she not happy but she is no right to say "NO". And you don't need to give her any reasons. Because you're the boss and remember don't listen to her any excuse, even she may crying in front of you say that she need to see her friends.....

Insist her take Sat off for couple months, if her back home on time, you may give her Sun off again.

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發表於 07-11-21 23:37 |只看該作者

可以限佢幾點出門口架咩?
個日係佢休息日,原則上佢鍾意幾點出門口都得架噃!?-(

原文章由 Connielai 於 07-11-21 21:57 發表
佢今次11點返就下次放假時叫佢早上11點先出門口。如果早返就下次比佢早d出門口。

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發表於 07-11-22 10:22 |只看該作者

I get angry because the 7pm time was set by her. I know as an 'experienced' maid, she won't simply totally follow my order. To show my 'respect', I would ask her when she could be back. If she says 7, it means that 7 should ok to her.

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發表於 07-11-22 12:01 |只看該作者

原文章由 方方媽媽 於 07-11-21 23:37 發表
可以限佢幾點出門口架咩?
個日係佢休息日,原則上佢鍾意幾點出門口都得架噃!?-(

我只會比工人出去12小時, 7點出就7點返, 佢要11點返咪11點先出囉。休息日係佢吾駛工作,我又吾係要佢做野。

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發表於 07-11-22 12:05 |只看該作者

原文章由 方方媽媽 於 07-11-21 23:37 發表
可以限佢幾點出門口架咩?
個日係佢休息日,原則上佢鍾意幾點出門口都得架噃!?-(

基本上係佢鍾意幾點出門口都得, 但係佢吾聽話, 成日遲返既, 就要同佢講, 你想幾點返就幾點先出去。

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發表於 07-11-22 13:03 |只看該作者

'你想幾點返就幾點先出去' - good suggestion.

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發表於 07-11-22 13:29 |只看該作者

如果佢唔肯呢?
咁點算?
休息日唔一定要"係屋企裡面休息",佢出街多過12小時點解唔得呢?
我唔係要挑戰各位媽咪,我只係想知個理據係邊.
我唔想自己持住係僱主就大石壓死蟹,如果個工人唔服,或口服心不服,最後都會係工作上出問題.
我只係想做到合法合理合情,同埋保障自己.令到個工人想反咬我,都咬唔入.

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發表於 07-11-22 13:36 |只看該作者

我之前都有限佢出門和返來的時間,佢亦有試過遲到,但我覺我仲要管埋佢E樣野,實在浪費我的精神和時間,我索性一口價,9AM-11PM,其實主要原因是佢沒有屋企鎖匙,11時我會休息,如果要我等佢門,實在太無聊,佢只是來打工,唔好影響我的生活

[ 本文章最後由比樂B 於 07-11-22 13:40 編輯 ]

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