個個工人都知到只要湊好bb, 太太就cannot say no. 工人只會當bb是boss and 檔箭牌 to escape from more housework.
I think we should respect 工人, but never be afraid to be her boss.
When 工人 is wrong, I tell her what is wrong. Although we are all very sure that she will repeat the mistakes n times.
I'm a working mom but I always go home asap and take over all bb work at once including taking him to bath, feeding him, changing nappies and putting him to sleep, etc. It is very difficult but I will not give up.
Don't delay creating more 親子時間, 所有moments都只有一次機會!!
coffeecake,
當時我同你一樣,連bb都係得3個人,間屋得2間房,婆婆日間都會來幫忙,但都係好dirty,因bb連婆婆都唔跟.卒之我裝cam睇下,原來我地冇人係家時,個印只會用咩帶咩住bb,跟住乜都唔做,但就狂講電話/打機/send sms/坐係sofa睡覺,當聽到門口有聲(即我地返家),佢就即拎塊布扮做緊家務/ironing,真係吞pop+扮野到暈,唔知仲以為佢係100% good maid添
原文章由 CoffeeCake 於 08-1-2 11:37 發表
我都覺工人(印印)鍾意湊BB,因為可以大支野唔做家務!!我屋企已經唔多家務(我同我老公,BB三人), 又多數唔響屋企食, 佢其實已經好得閒! 不過我成日 WORK FROM HOME, 真係要佢睇住BB我先做到野, 所以忍下, 我基本上已經 ...
hey whenever you're at home, you should take care of BB and ask your maid to do her household work, not the other way round. Don't ask if BB want to come to me, just grab him and ask your maid disappear from BB's face! You need to spend time with BB to make him get close to you, if you always leave him to maid, he'll never come close to you.