God, please take care of B 媽, her baby and family. We don't know what is going to happen, but pray that you help us to accept the result. Please comfort the heart of B 媽 and her family.
那時小生命只有七個星期大,但同樣的令我傷痛不已,個人好消沉,任何人的安慰說話都不能進入我心,我亦有問神點解,總之就係無法接受現實。但很奇妙,在我最痛的時侯,我老公遞給我一篇當時他看到的靈修日程(daily bread - from http://www.gospelcom.net/rbc/odb/odb-11-08-01.shtml),全文如下:
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November 8, 2001
Mercy In Disguise
Read: 1 Kings 14:1-18
The child shall die. And all Israel shall mourn . . . because in him there is found something good. —1 Kings 14:12-13
"Don't worry. Only the good die young." This was the reply of an unbelieving man to his sister when she expressed concern that he wasn't ready to meet the Lord.
The parents of a young boy who died apparently had the same idea, saying, "He just seemed to be too good for this wicked old earth."
I am sure this sentiment cannot be proven, but I know of one instance when a child died because he was the only good person in his family. In 1 Kings 14:12-13, we read that young Abijah would die, be mourned, and be given an honorable burial because God "found something good" in him. Other members of his family lived a little longer, only to be executed as criminals (15:27-29). I believe that God, seeing the dreadful fate Abijah would have faced if he had continued to live, took him to heaven peacefully. His early death was indeed an act of God's mercy.
Through the years, I have often used this passage of Scripture to comfort those mourning the death of a baby, a child, or a young person. God alone knows what awaited them if they had lived. He may have delivered them from unbelievable distress by taking them home.
An early death can be God's mercy in disguise. —HVL
That which seems a tragic ending
To our red and tear-filled eyes
In our heavenly Father's wisdom
May be mercy in disguise. —Fitzhugh