Re: 你們會怎樣做? 教教我.
The bad situation of you and your mother was building up for a long time, since a certain problem has happened which you might not know too.
Every body's situation is not the same, some families are suffering economic trouble, but some are rich with nothing worry about.
I think you should make sure on what kind of problem in your mother side? (Are your parents still on jobs or retired?) It is very important to know or worry their jobs at the first place. Your mother might need more income, if your parents have lost jobs or retired.
Me and my wife retired from the American factories a few years ago. Of course, our incomes are not quite enough at nowaday. We need to come back to HongKong every 6 months, taking care our children-in-law for our daughter and daughter-in-law, and bring back many children clothes every time. We can keep very good relationship with our daughter's families.
Your mother is bringing too much for you, certainly it is not necessary if she is not suffering bad economy. You should ask her about her economic situation, and parents' jobs etc..
I think she is not meaning care to get how much from on the duty with you. She might be showing you a hint of her economy of some tight. Since you said that both you and mother have seldom talking, so your mother expresses promptly and shortly, that is showing her economic problem. How many families in Hong Kong are suffering this same problem now? Do you know? I want you try to hear more detail from your mom, that can help you improve the relationship become better than before. Don't just only seeing on money! Keep better relationship is more important.
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