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洋房

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發表於 04-4-1 01:14 |顯示全部帖子

If maid gets pregnant

Hi,
My maid is asking for 3-week holidays, she is planning to go back philipine. How about if she gets pregnant after the holidays? Can I ask her to do a test at clinic after she comes back?

Also, before a new contract is signed, can I ask her to do pregancy test?

thanks
AB


大宅

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發表於 04-4-1 09:44 |顯示全部帖子

Re: If maid gets pregnant

amusing_baby,

每次工人放完大假回來,僱主係可以要求佢哋去驗身的,你個工人要求幾時返菲律賓,同埋佢幾時約滿呀?


大宅

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發表於 04-4-1 15:15 |顯示全部帖子

Re: If maid gets pregnant

Hello,

mine will have 2 to 3 weeks holiday in June to get marry.
she will come back & work 1 year more.

Shall I ask her to do a test after she return?

If she gets pregnant, what shall we do?

tks


大宅

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發表於 04-4-1 15:52 |顯示全部帖子

Re: If maid gets pregnant

clmutter,

最好叫佢打定避孕針,或者叫佢寫定辭職信,返來後同佢去驗孕,有咩依郁當佢自己辭職.

係呢,點解唔叫佢完左約先返去結婚?


大宅

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發表於 04-4-1 17:12 |顯示全部帖子

Re: If maid gets pregnant

Hi,
actually she said she will take hoilday during summer vacation,
but yesterday she told us she has to go back earlier for marriage.
She is unwilling to delay the date.
Is it very unreasonable or 'cruel' to
ask her to change such an important date.

Please give me advice.

p.s. do you have a sample of such a resignation letter?

Thanks a lot.
bibi


複式洋房

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發表於 04-4-1 17:23 |顯示全部帖子

Re: If maid gets pregnant

Ballpen,

我個工人都是七月中返菲律賓, 是否真的可以叫佢打定避孕針,或者叫佢寫定辭職信,返來後同佢去驗孕,有咩依郁當佢自己辭職? 如果佢唔agree去做either one.  還有什麼方法?


大宅

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發表於 04-4-2 12:42 |顯示全部帖子

Re: If maid gets pregnant

clmutter,

你要明白一個人出外打工,應該要有計畫,尤其是要去海外打工添,唔係話想要結婚,就隨時咁要求返去結婚的,你依家畀佢中途放假返去,已經係大人大義了,佢應該一早知個合約係兩年格,佢依家合約未完就要求返去結婚,就真係唔啱,唔通仲有一年時間都等唔切,其實如果係我,就會叫佢辭職返去結,起碼唔使我左驚右驚.

你仲要明白好多工人,尤其是菲傭,佢哋好鍾意利用僱主嘅同情心,去滿足佢哋嘅不合理要求.

你一於試吓叫佢約滿後先返去結婚,如果佢唔應承,就叫佢去打避孕針同寫定辭職信,如果都唔應承,就叫佢真正辭職吧.

辭職信嘅sample,以前有媽咪post過出來,依家我再將它post出來以作參考:

Dear (the name of employer),

I, (the name of employee) would resign from the post of domestic helper under the Domestic Helper Contract No. xxxxxxx, effective on ________(date) by giving you one month notice.

The last working day will be ________(date).

Reason(s) of resignation:

________________________
________________________
________________________

Yours sincerely,

______________(signature of employee)
xxxx xxxx xxxx (name of employee)
(Date)

Acknowledged receipt by:

_________________(signature of employer)
xxxxx xxxxx xxxxx(name of employer)
(Date)


大宅

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發表於 04-4-2 12:48 |顯示全部帖子

Re: If maid gets pregnant

Juju03,

如果你個工人唔應承做其中一樣,你就唔好畀佢放假返去,甚至乎叫佢辭左職先好返去,因為佢好可能已步儲懷孕,然後回港攞產假.


大宅

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發表於 04-4-2 17:11 |顯示全部帖子

Re: If maid gets pregnant

thank you ballpen for your info.

of course I understand,
it's just she doesn't understand.

Actually she should take her leave Jan 04,
& then starts another new contract.
but she said at that time she'd like to take
leave during summer holiday.
And now suddenly she said she will get marry in May!

Our plan is totally upset by her!

Now it seems there is little we can do:
ask her to sign a resignation letter
& do a preg. test when she returns.

Worry that she will refuse to do
since she has many aunties to teach her
this & that.

Anyway thank you very much.


子爵府

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發表於 04-4-2 17:25 |顯示全部帖子

Re: If maid gets pregnant

What ballpen said is reasonable. Your maid has a 2-yr contract, cannot come and go as she pleases.
If she refuses, don't let her go back.
She is just pretending not to understand.

You must also be careful in the coming weeks -
she may well disappear and fly back to Phil., get married and then come back pregnant.


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