睇開d啦!你俾得奶奶湊,有時都要就下佢個套.其實凡事有兩面睇,奶奶最多會縱bb,唔會害bb,你俾其他人湊,你點知佢會點對你個b.如果你放完產假,要返工,一放工就有人煮飯俾你食,唔洗去搭車接仔,又唔洗煮飯,慳番d時間可以同個b玩.
我自己湊了個仔五個月,有時真的湊到忟,真係希望有人幫下手,自己出去行下.
其實個仔係你生,無人可以攞走,佢始終跟阿媽.我家姐一結婚直到現在都係同奶奶住,佢兩個女都係奶奶湊大,現在一樣好痴阿媽.
Take it easy啦!
If I were you, I will talk to your 99 directly but in a nicely way! Do you think you can 忍 her forever? Your son just born! Is not good to keep that emotion again and again. I had a depression after my daughter born, always cried even a very little things. Doesnt like my 99 ee哦哦 all the time. She is not living with us but very close.
After 坐月(my mom was here in the first month), she said she will come over to help me everyday. I told her immediately "99 no need la, I think I can take care of my own bb and I really need sometimes on my own and spend with my baby, I will ask for help if I really need to, ok?"
For me, I dont really want to keep something bad feeling in my heart. Talk to her directly at one time.
thats what I did!
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