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發表於 04-4-6 12:57 |顯示全部帖子

I was given a black

I was given a black face last night till this morning. What happen?
1) I found 2 fish bone (very big) in the congee when I feed my son yesterday. Although it was the first time I found it cos I seldom fee fish congee on weekend, I still thought I have to remind her to be very careful cos the result can be very disastrous. She didn’t say sorry but just said “Yes, the fish has lot of bones” But the ‘fish’ I am talking about is Garoupa (shek ban) steak.
2) I cannot stand with her to kiss my son mouth to mouth. I try to talk to her for a week but can’t find a good excuse so as not to hurt her. My son got fever last Friday and I told her last night that my mum (baby’s grandma) request me not to kiss my baby anymore cos it will easily pass any disease/ virus to babies. So I suppose all of us (including her) not to kiss baby anymore.
3) I told her to take a bath after she takes her holiday on the first day she joined our family, she just did it in the first month she joined and now, she just wash hands and change the clothes before play (or even kiss) with my son. I don’t mean to discriminate but I saw her sat on the street with her friends during holidays in the photos that she showed me before. Last night, I reminded at least to wash her hands and feet if she doesn’t want to take a bath.
Am I wrong? This morning, I took my son and say ‘Happy Birthday’ to her but she just say ‘thank you’ but not looking at me. Today is her birthday, I brought her to dinner on Sunday and gave her $100 lai see and a cake coupon as gift. In fact, with her black face this morning, I much worry about how she treats my son today.


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發表於 04-4-6 13:56 |顯示全部帖子

Re: I was given a black

Geoffreymom,
I can understand your situation and feeling because I had that experience before. They are easily to show her "Black Face" to the employer in account of bad mood.
You should check it out the main reason why did your domestic helper show you her "Black Face". Ask her directly and privately. Do not pretend nothing happened. It can't work.
I think you must have a Guide Line / Handbook from your agency when your domestic helper arrived at your home. Try to read the regulation with your domestic helper and remind her follow the regulation especially the hygiene section.
Explain it to her if she could not fullfill your request that you will terminate her service contract. If you do not want to do it tough, ask your agency to teach her again on her holidays.


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