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what is bad effect if I have a baby / child??


大宅

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發表於 04-4-10 21:06 |顯示全部帖子

what is bad effect if I have a baby / child??

I want to have a baby,but I heard that there is many bad effect after have a baby. Or some couple will have a problem after have a baby. (eg. husband doesn't like to have sex or no feeling............) Actually, my husband doesn't like to baby, he feel very trouble. I don't know how to do. what is good?? I am already 27. is it too young or too old.
I really afraid my husband feel unhappy.

So I feel headache to consider to have a baby or not.
Please kindly share your experience to me, what is your problem after ahve a baby.


別墅

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發表於 04-4-16 21:59 |顯示全部帖子

Re: what is bad effect if I have a baby / child??

我未生BB前, 無你唸得o甘長遠和詳細, 只是考慮BB出世後有否人湊, 如果有就無問題 ! 其他的就船到橋頭自然直 ! 唸得多反而會不成事!
點知BB出世後, 我們有很多開心的事是無子女的人感受得到的! 相信很多媽咪都感受到這點 !
還有, 我很多朋友在婚前或婚後都話不喜歡小孩, 有的話不生, 但年紀大了又後悔, 想盡辦法生, 另外, 返而後來決定生了BB的朋友, 就話無後悔, 甚至好快再生第二個!
當然, 你要預了BB出世後, 做父母的要犧牲自己少少用心去照護子女 ! 有些人會覺得要負出很多即所謂的"責任", 做成現今出身率低的結果 ! 我提意如想湊得舒服D就搵父母或請工人幫手就最好 ! 因我有些朋友自己要返工, 日頭比人湊, 夜夜自己湊的就覺得很辛苦, 話不再生BB ! 因不是每個男人都會幫手湊BB, 玩就有份 !
以上是我o甘耐得返來的結果, 你自己要考慮一下! 我都希望你決定生, 可以多些媽咪上來分享經驗 ! post 上來報一下好消息 !


大宅

國民生產總值:4057


發表於 04-4-17 17:56 |顯示全部帖子

Re: what is bad effect if I have a baby / child??

joeystar,
27唔細啦, 我都係27生囡囡!
係你哋親生, 佢一定鐘意!
係生咗小朋友的生活係完全唔同, 但有苦有樂, 不過我話比你知, 生咗囡囡之後,我雖然又要返工, 又要同佢玩, 冇覺好瞓, 但係都真係好開心, 睇住佢大, 日日有新嘢令我好開心! 可以話成個人生都變, 同老公有共同目標好比好的生活囡囡, 佢顧外, 我顧內! 成個家都變得好開心!
仲有"有仔襯(亂)生" 係冇錯, E+d BB個個大隻過以前我哋做細路, 抱佢一陣就手軟, 如果臨老先生, 自己身體又唔好, 咁唔知點湊啦!

努力游說吧啦!


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