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melau

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我姐姐做o左年半,照顧阿女都照顧得幾好,家務就過得去啦,當然無初初來果陣做到咁足,有時佢做錯野我都無鬧佢,癈事佢無心機做野,對阿女唔好,但有時唔話個心又頂住,好似:
1. 呢排發覺d廁紙用得好快,兩日就要用一卷,我地兩公婆都要返工,用得幾多呢,我觀察左一段時間,先出聲問佢,佢就話佢成日要便便,咁我有咩聲出呢?只有叫佢慳d啦....
2. 廁所條抺手市濕左幾日都唔換;
3. 阿女d沙巾星期六洗完(沙巾同口水肩用手洗),星期一放完假唔洗...算, 你星期二都應該洗啦,返到屋企見到成10條沙巾4條口水肩都未洗,真係火都來....於是咪叫佢聽日洗lor.....
你話做我地係咪好慘......返工受氣....放工又氣頂......
我姐姐好在唔會頂我咀,我話一佢唔會話二,亦唔會黑面,但邊有工人係十全十美,我諗我都要練好d忍耐力...
最慘都係見阿女(15mths)好鬼痴佢,見到咁仲心"up"...

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你有沒有比schedule給工人跟? 我覺得某些工人不會自動自覺的, set左比佢地如果唔跟既話, 起碼一定係佢問題, 自己又唔洗激氣

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佢用晒 d 時間去同bb玩, 咪冇時間做家務囉, 沙巾口水肩洗一洗要幾內, 我以前都要工人日日清. 唔洗完咪唔好訓囉. 佢通常訓前會清晒的.

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靚媽唔易做

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其實你所講既問題都係一般工人既通病, 聽落都唔算好差, 做得耐梗係咁架啦, 佢成日唔記得你咪哦到佢記得為止囉........佢唔黑面同駁咀已經還得神落.

我屋企d box tissue同一卷卷既tissue都用得超快架, 因佢地唔會同你慳, 地下有一滴水佢都走去攞tissue抹的, 你見到咪同佢講攞布囉. 其實你可以留意下, 佢地m come o個時為咗慳錢, 好鐘意用tissue舖係條巾面, 咁條巾咪唔使成日換囉, 所以你會覺得o個排特別用得快的.....但我又唔想佢一陣話同你慳, 攪到個女dirty, 所以我都無理佢, 見到o個陣咪同佢講唔使用咁多張囉.

至於阿女方面, 呢個年紀邊個見得佢最耐佢就最痴邊個的, 你多d同佢玩, 單獨帶佢去街, 唔好比工人跟, 一放工返去就叫工人煮飯, 你同佢玩, 同佢沖涼, 訓覺, 佢肯定痴你多過工人.......到佢2歲, 你一放工返去佢會跟到你實的(你對佢付出幾多, 收返幾多係正比的).......

同埋佢有無問你續唔續約既問題呢?

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發表於 08-4-30 11:15 |只看該作者

回覆 #5 melau 的文章

my maid is similar to your maid~ And my maid also worked for me around 18 months while my baby is nearly 17 months old.

I think what you've mentioned is very common la. no need to be angry (waste your energy). Well, since your maid is like my maid - won't black face & 唔頂咀 (except sometime giving me some dumb excuse and think I'm 'lulu') - So, you just need to ORDER her what to do la.

洗沙巾 - if she didn't wash it, jsut tell her to do it (and finish it on the day you ordered her) They are like that ... seems their memory is very short-termed.

she only 呢排成日要便便 and 用廁紙用得好快 ?? or since 1.5 years ago ar?? if only 呢排 .. better ask her if she is ill bor..... maybe should go see doctor.

"最慘都係見阿女(15mths)好鬼痴佢,見到咁仲心"up"..." <-- just spend more time with 阿女~ I played with my son once I got home (and told her to disappear) and never take her with us when we go out... on Sat, usually just ask her to take care of baby if I'm busy with other things or too tired.

[ 本文章最後由 eshiro 於 08-4-30 11:44 編輯 ]

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melau

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其實我好少同佢出街,因為我唔鍾意有個人跟住哂,又爭住推bb車...我放工就返工企睇阿女,不過就俾姐姐氹阿女瞓,我可以做o下自己野,不過由今晚開始,我會氹番阿女瞓.....好彩阿女唔係同佢同房,如果唔係仲c....

原文章由 靚媽唔易做 於 08-4-30 10:40 發表
其實你所講既問題都係一般工人既通病, 聽落都唔算好差, 做得耐梗係咁架啦, 佢成日唔記得你咪哦到佢記得為止囉........佢唔黑面同駁咀已經還得神落.

我屋企d box tissue同一卷卷既tissue都用得超快架, 因佢地唔會同 ...

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原文章由 melau 於 08-4-29 23:31 發表
我姐姐做o左年半,照顧阿女都照顧得幾好,家務就過得去啦,當然無初初來果陣做到咁足,有時佢做錯野我都無鬧佢,癈事佢無心機做野,對阿女唔好,但有時唔話個心又頂住,好似:
1. 呢排發覺d廁紙用得好快,兩日就要用一卷,我地 ...

我賓賓系唔會用手洗bb既沙巾、口水肩同巾仔架,全部都開機,講極都唔會聽,佢話bb成日出汗,一日有成5-6條巾仔、3-4條口水肩、3-4套系屋企著既便服,又有餵奶時用既毛巾仔,咪一次過洗囉!!
甘會無甘晒水喎!!但隔日就開機,每次都系得1/3或1/2機,甘又唔晒喎!!

佢仲成日持老買老甘話我2公婆唔好成日買左食物唔食等過期又丟,菲律賓果度既人,好多人都好困難喎!!但佢將我屋企既toilet 2個燈同電視機就長開,甘就唔浪費??
你話激唔激氣???

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melau

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其實好耐之前試過發現廁紙用得好快,同佢講完,好過一排,跟住就無理到,到呢排又係咁,前晚換完,第二朝佢用完少左3份1....聽見話佢地來m時用廁紙...真有d恐怖

原文章由 eshiro 於 08-4-30 11:15 發表
my maid is similar to your maid~ And my maid also worked for me around 18 months while my baby is nearly 17 months old.

I think what you've mentioned is very common la. no need to be angry (waste y ...

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eshiro

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發表於 08-5-4 09:54 |只看該作者

melau,

yes gar.. a lot of things also are "同佢講完,好過一排,跟住就無理到" ... so, just need to keep remind her whenever you found out... sometimes don't directly point her out her mistake/fault... just indirectly tell her that everything is getting expensive now.. we need to try to minimize our expenses la... try not to use the 廁紙 too fast while keeping yourself clean, too ... did she use the 廁紙 to wipe her hands, too ??? try to 'pretent' to talk to her and seek solution together.... it seems to work on my maid.

原文章由 melau 於 08-5-3 23:13 發表
其實好耐之前試過發現廁紙用得好快,同佢講完,好過一排,跟住就無理到,到呢排又係咁,前晚換完,第二朝佢用完少左3份1....聽見話佢地來m時用廁紙...真有d恐怖 ...

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melau

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I told her this matter already. She noted and really try to save... eg. switch off the light of the toilet/kitchen when no one here... but except the tissue.. she only say she always go to "po po".... I can't limit the times to go ga ma... so just accept lor