Sorry, my Chinese typing is too slow...pls accept my English here.
She wears low-cut + tight spaghetti straps only, not see through yet....I'm really not sure whether this is their culture or what, it really makes me anxious...but there's no way we can control what they wear, right?
She wasn't like this before...must have influenced a lot by her "so-called...aunts".
The worse thing is...it seems that she's spending most of her time to groom herself, & show no more interest on her work. We've asked whether she still wants to stay with us or not...she said "Yes", but still remain the same. What to do?
如果我個賓有番些少自之知明, 就唔駛煩la... 佢唔窄唔少布既唔著, what to do? 仲以為自己好正...成日噹冇人響屋企度就換衫玩"自拍" (take photo for herself), 死未!?? (we discovered that from her photo album) 炒佢!? 佢又無做錯D乜野大事...但你會唔會放心俾個女佢揍? 如果係你, 你會點?
today when she comes home, I found her dressed in low cut tee shirt, I asked her not to do so next time and stressed that she should wear appropriately as she was told on day one when she reported duty. She nodded and hope she would listen next time. If not, I would consider terminating her contract as it would influence my children.
Aye...finally got someone who is having a similar case. To be honest, I feel really uncomfortable having such a maid, but still want to be fair to her. At least, she has been working for us for more than 2 years (moved together with us all the way from Singapore)...although she has changed a lot after moving here, she hasn't done anything harmful so far.