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男爵府

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發表於 04-4-25 10:02 |顯示全部帖子

regret to see my friend not breastfeed her baby

yesterday i visited my friend as she just gave birth to her baby girl, now her baby is 25 days, she is same as me that born baby in St. Teresa, however, from starting, she always said she does not have enough milk so everytime gave her formular after breastfeeding, i already told her she will no longer have milk if giving formular. however, she feels very stressed and very tired. sometimes i told her a lot of knowledge, she feels very stressed from me ...
yesterday when i visited her, she told me she stopped bf for 1 week, because she feel very very tired, and no more milk. but her left side breast is much bigger than right, and feel some area blocked on left side, i told her she should clear the block and re-start bf, .... she said she will try later.
i know she is not willing to re-start, hidden story is that she married with her japan husband while her husband needs to work and cannot come back to take care of her, and she will return to japan after complete the visa for baby. i really feel regret about her case, but everybody has her own choice, she only said i am so tough to still bf baby, but i said i should thank to BK moms, no you, no breastmilk for my baby.

the sharing may be too long, ..


複式洋房

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發表於 04-4-25 17:29 |顯示全部帖子

Re: regret to see my friend not breastfeed her baby

為什麼人人都說餵母乳困難,餵母乳的媽媽tough?我常想:當初決定作母親便應有克服種種困難的決心,若要方便容易,買個布娃娃抱抱便好了,犯不著養育一個小人兒來自苦.

餵母乳其實只是多勞多得而已,勤力一點,付出多一點,沒有什麼問題解決不了.相對於將來教養兒女的種種問題,實在太容易,想想當兒女進學校讀書後,你要鼓勵他,讓他們學有所成,若他們被外間的種種壞風氣誘惑時,你又要令他們知所選擇,而這些都不是你可以單憑自己努力便可成事的,不是困難得多嗎?現在剛起步便輕言放棄,將來仍然可以避得過去嗎?

當一個母親根本就不是輕鬆容易的,孩子的一生就在我們的手上,現在為他的健康多費點心力怎麼也不願意呢


男爵府

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發表於 04-4-26 15:01 |顯示全部帖子

Re: regret to see my friend not breastfeed her baby

我覺得既然生得bb, 就要付出. 只有媽媽才能給寶寶最好的東西, 其他人是不能代替的. 若然覺得餵人奶很辛苦, 餵一陣就不餵, 半途而費, 又怎樣能夠給自己的孩子一個好的榜樣? 所以餵人奶除了給寶寶最好的食物外, 亦是給自己鍛鍊的一個好機會.


大宅

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發表於 04-4-26 17:43 |顯示全部帖子

Re: regret to see my friend not breastfeed her baby

我都有朋友係咁。我覺得比bb呢d食人奶係人之常情! 我唔敢講話佢地唔愛bb, 但為何明知係最好既都唔比佢??
我同我朋友講到口水都乾, 個多月以來都不下數了, 我話佢都已捱過左最辛苦的一個月, 為何唔肯堅持落去呢? 佢都唔信我! 我同佢講, “你就算辛苦, 都只不過一年半載, 最多咪多一年, 兩年好未?!” 呢d日子唔多, 我就好enjoy呢d同bb相處既日子。 佢大個都唔會咁可愛咁”痴”實你啦, 下話!? 同埋我真係覺得好值得lor, 嘩~~for佢一世架喎, 係咪先!? 我亦同佢講, 如果你繼續餵的話, 第時一定唔會後悔, 亦會好有成功感! 但佢都係覺得我煩。佢雖然冇講出口, 但我feel到, 所以我話, “好啦好啦, 我唔煩你喇! 我亦唔係迫你, 只係話比你知個好處, 你自已諗下啦!” 到依家, 我朋友個bb個半月大但已經轉晒全奶粉, 真可惜!!


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發表於 04-4-26 23:56 |顯示全部帖子

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男爵府

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發表於 04-4-27 11:00 |顯示全部帖子

Re: regret to see my friend not breastfeed her baby

mommantong
我諗你已經好努力幫助你朋友餵哺母乳,不過很多人在初初餵的時候沒有足夠的信念的確很難繼續下去,特別是她沒有老公在身邊支持,可能是較辛苦吧! 既然她已選擇了奶粉,希望她可以享受到與bb其他方式的親子快樂吧!


男爵府

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發表於 04-4-27 14:01 |顯示全部帖子

Re: regret to see my friend not breastfeed her baby

我一直都沒有很積極的鼓勵身邊的人餵母乳, 就算我個妹都沒有. 我個妹起初都係餵人奶的, 但佢係澳洲生BB, 而BB亦早產一個月, 差一安士才夠 5 lbs, 但那邊的護士竟然教我個妹4個鐘才餵一次. 試問剛出生的嬰兒怎會一開始就食得咁叻, 就算食得咁叻, 剛開始餵, 4個鐘先餵一次, 點會夠奶? 所以我都不停的在電話教我個妹, 叫佢密些餵, 最好2個鐘餵一次. 山高皇帝遠, 我個妹又點會唔聽那邊姑娘講, 所以end up個BB重得唔夠快, 又話係早產嬰, 要補奶粉. 補奶粉補得多, 未越來越冇奶, 最後我個妹梗係放棄, 只係餵奶粉. 不過睇返整件事, 都係我個妹懶, 如果餵人奶, 佢自己要半夜起身餵, 但餵奶粉, 就由我亞媽餵. 當時我亞媽都在電話裏向我呻, 話要餵夜奶, 好辛苦.

所以我一直都不太積極叫人餵人奶, 因為我認為餵唔到好多原因都係媽媽本身有惰性, 再加上身邊的人不支持, 所以不成功. 我不能叫人唔好咁懶, 要勤力d, 因為始終都係大人, 不鐘意比人話. 但如果有人餵人奶但未放棄, 我都會好積極分享我的個人經驗, 希望佢地唔會放棄.

我的朋友的小孩, 現在都有4,5歳, 但都仍然要用奶瓶食奶, 又有行為問題. 他們每次見到我同囡囡, 都很envy我囡囡很乖, 又肯食野. 但我認為係我餵人奶的成果, 亦係我們餵人奶那份堅持和毅力的回報. 但我身邊有很多朋友對於我餵人奶態度都係自找麻煩, 但我又沒有不高興, 因為我的動作及囡囡的表現已證明一切, 一d都唔麻煩!

今早我坐巴士時, 有一對老公公婆婆和一個媽咪(帶著一個兩個月的bb)講話, 佢地問那媽咪是否餵人奶, 那媽咪好大反應話餵奶粉. 但那位公公話餵人奶, 小朋友好湊d, 會乖d, 所以佢認為餵人奶好d. 誰說老人家不支持餵人奶?

所以各位好姊妹, 我們只要做好榜樣, 我相信有好多準媽咪都會被我們感動, 不用勞氣. 我們齊來為我們的bb而高興, 因為他們有一個勤力, 有毅力的媽咪.


大宅

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發表於 04-4-27 14:32 |顯示全部帖子

Re: regret to see my friend not breastfeed her baby

對, 我都唔知點解人地唔認同我時, 我會好激氣!


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發表於 04-4-27 20:13 |顯示全部帖子

Re: regret to see my friend not breastfeed her baby

yuenwa 寫道:
我一直都沒有很積極的鼓勵身邊的人餵母乳, 就算我個妹都沒有. 我個妹起初都係餵人奶的, 但佢係澳洲生BB, 而BB亦早產一個月, 差一安士才夠 5 lbs, 但那邊的護士竟然教我個妹4個鐘才餵一次. 試問剛出生的嬰兒怎會一開始就食得咁叻, 就算食得咁叻, 剛開始餵, 4個鐘先餵一次, 點會夠奶? 所以我都不停的在電話教我個妹, 叫佢密些餵, 最好2個鐘餵一次. 山高皇帝遠, 我個妹又點會唔聽那邊姑娘講, 所以end up個BB重得唔夠快, 又話係早產嬰, 要補奶粉. 補奶粉補得多, 未越來越冇奶, 最後我個妹梗係放棄, 只係餵奶粉. 不過睇返整件事, 都係我個妹懶, 如果餵人奶, 佢自己要半夜起身餵, 但餵奶粉, 就由我亞媽餵. 當時我亞媽都在電話裏向我呻, 話要餵夜奶, 好辛苦.

所以我一直都不太積極叫人餵人奶, 因為我認為餵唔到好多原因都係媽媽本身有惰性, 再加上身邊的人不支持, 所以不成功. 我不能叫人唔好咁懶, 要勤力d, 因為始終都係大人, 不鐘意比人話. 但如果有人餵人奶但未放棄, 我都會好積極分享我的個人經驗, 希望佢地唔會放棄.

我的朋友的小孩, 現在都有4,5歳, 但都仍然要用奶瓶食奶, 又有行為問題. 他們每次見到我同囡囡, 都很envy我囡囡很乖, 又肯食野. 但我認為係我餵人奶的成果, 亦係我們餵人奶那份堅持和毅力的回報. 但我身邊有很多朋友對於我餵人奶態度都係自找麻煩, 但我又沒有不高興, 因為我的動作及囡囡的表現已證明一切, 一d都唔麻煩!

今早我坐巴士時, 有一對老公公婆婆和一個媽咪(帶著一個兩個月的bb)講話, 佢地問那媽咪是否餵人奶, 那媽咪好大反應話餵奶粉. 但那位公公話餵人奶, 小朋友好湊d, 會乖d, 所以佢認為餵人奶好d. 誰說老人家不支持餵人奶?

所以各位好姊妹, 我們只要做好榜樣, 我相信有好多準媽咪都會被我們感動, 不用勞氣. 我們齊來為我們的bb而高興, 因為他們有一個勤力, 有毅力的媽咪.



我都為我們能堅持的媽媽而驕傲!
我好認同你的講法。
囡囡就快10個月都未病過,
上次有少少咳去看醫生仲未醫生叫番走,
話咁少事自已會好番﹙我地全屋連工人都病左﹚,
我都好為我的堅持而自豪呀!
此生無悔入華廈,來生願在種花家!


大宅

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發表於 04-4-27 21:00 |顯示全部帖子

Re: regret to see my friend not breastfeed her baby

monmantong:
你說的這個朋友是否上次懷孕37周出席寶康公園聚會的那一位?很可惜上次又是趕


男爵府

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發表於 04-4-28 12:05 |顯示全部帖子

Re: regret to see my friend not breastfeed her baby

mama Tam,
no, she is not the one you saw on 3/06. for my friend you saw on 3/6, she is my colleague, but have not yet heard she has already given birth to baby yet( her estimated delivery date is 4/26), but she has strong incentive to bf baby, she is willing to listen to me and she said she will try. she is living in tseung kwan o, so later i may invite some t.s.o mother to visit her and ask her add oil...


男爵府

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發表於 04-4-28 12:56 |顯示全部帖子

Re: regret to see my friend not breastfeed her baby

相信每個媽咪也知道母乳的好處,如果未能餵哺成功,我想她已經覺得不好受了,為什麼還要給她如此大的壓力?

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