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別墅

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發表於 04-5-5 22:41 |顯示全部帖子

賓賓不再說goodnight!

各位:

想分享下...我工人已在我家工作三年, 在第三年開始她在睡前不再向妳說聲"good night". 在最初兩年每晚都很有禮貌地說good night 才入房. 不知她有什麼不滿. 每日見到她都好好笑容可能背後就好嬲我. 有次叫她幫我老公去買一包煙, 她就面黑黑, 返來氣怱怱話買了兩包. 但我覺得已經沒有待薄她. 她可以9時入房睡覺, 每個月有五日假期. 工作量都不多. 我諗可能contract完要請過另一個.
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發表於 04-5-6 00:30 |顯示全部帖子

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別墅

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發表於 04-5-6 06:49 |顯示全部帖子

Re: 賓賓不再說goodnight!

i found indonesian maids their attitude are much better than bunbuns even for the 2nd term. It is not my personal experience but my friends. Mostly, for those indonesian maids where their contracts can be renewed, the performance is OK and because of their loyality character, the longer they work the better they are. For bun bun because of their culture and the bad influence from outside, they usually end up worse no matter how good they are at the beginning.


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發表於 04-5-6 09:13 |顯示全部帖子

Re: 賓賓不再說goodnight!

我個菲來了只是7個月, 已好耐冇同我講 good morning, goodnight. 要我地出聲先, 佢先至會回番一句greeting.

佢又時不時面黑, 我都唔係比好多o野佢做, 佢每晚上9:00已入房做自己o野, 都唔係好理其他o野, 如阿仔在晚飯後, 攪到d玩具周圍放, 佢都唔會執, 留番第二朝先做. 我又唔洗佢喂埋阿仔夜晚餐奶, 佢每晚都早訓過我.

D工人真係, 冇佢地唔得, 有佢地又要睇佢地面色, 而家都唔知邊個係mom.


大宅

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發表於 04-5-6 10:33 |顯示全部帖子

Re: 賓賓不再說goodnight!

I would have "bing" my maid long time ago if she is like this.

birdbird 寫道:
我個菲來了只是7個月, 已好耐冇同我講 good morning, goodnight. 要我地出聲先, 佢先至會回番一句greeting.

佢又時不時面黑, 我都唔係比好多o野佢做, 佢每晚上9:00已入房做自己o野, 都唔係好理其他o野, 如阿仔在晚飯後, 攪到d玩具周圍放, 佢都唔會執, 留番第二朝先做. 我又唔洗佢喂埋阿仔夜晚餐奶, 佢每晚都早訓過我.

D工人真係, 冇佢地唔得, 有佢地又要睇佢地面色, 而家都唔知邊個係mom.


She has to say good night before going to sleep. Not only is this a manner, it is a way letting us know that she is going to rest so we don't have to look for her later to do something else.

It is also a must to clean the toys and tidy them up before going to sleep.

Generally they don't have the initiative to work unless we specifically ask them to. So our instructions have to be very clear, specific and detailled.


大宅

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發表於 04-5-6 12:03 |顯示全部帖子

Re: 賓賓不再說goodnight!

我個賓賓剛來了一星期, 佢都冇刻意同我講 Goodnight, 佢會係房,到咁上下時間, 就關門


別墅

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發表於 04-5-6 13:02 |顯示全部帖子

Re: 賓賓不再說goodnight!

My bun is a little bit better. At least up to now, she greets me when I wake up and walk out of the room, she says goodbye when I goes to work and say goodnight to me before she sleeps. I am very concerned about bun bun 's matter and attitude. When employ new maid and when she first comes to my house, I stress the importance of politeness and I expect my maid to have good manners and should not talk back. This is particularly important as I want my kids to have good manners and by all means shether my kids from all 'bad elements'.


別墅

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發表於 04-5-6 13:11 |顯示全部帖子

Re: 賓賓不再說goodnight!

I told my maid that she should ask us what special things that she tomorrow needs to do. Then said good night to us. Because we both go to work. So it will be better if we tell him what she needs to do for tomorrow.


大宅

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發表於 04-5-6 19:04 |顯示全部帖子

Re: 賓賓不再說goodnight!

我個賓賓只會同我個仔講good morning 同goodnight, 就算我同個仔一齊都係咁, 只係同我個仔打招呼.

我同HelloSnoopy一樣, 都係每晚親自吩咐佢第二日要做咩, 我d朋友都話我咁樣好辛苦, 不過我覺得至少我地同個仔o既饍食同生活, 都會比較合我意, 但賓賓就從來唔會之後同我講goodnight或者thank you之類.

有時我會笑佢, 阿仔至係佢老細.


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發表於 04-5-6 20:49 |顯示全部帖子

Re: 賓賓不再說goodnight!

justjust 寫道:
I would have "bing" my maid long time ago if she is like this.

She has to say good night before going to sleep. Not only is this a manner, it is a way letting us know that she is going to rest so we don't have to look for her later to do something else.

It is also a must to clean the toys and tidy them up before going to sleep.

Generally they don't have the initiative to work unless we specifically ask them to. So our instructions have to be very clear, specific and detailled.
[size=small]totally agree with justjust. we, as employers, have to tell our maids exactly what we want


別墅

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發表於 04-5-7 07:06 |顯示全部帖子

Re: 賓賓不再說goodnight!

I agree with just just, we need to bs strict on them and their good manner is one of the important things, I will not accept anybody in my house without any manner. Also, other than house rules etc that she was required to agree at the beginning of the contact, for maid's work, i would give her a schedule and do any variation so that she will know what to do for the day. There are 2 purposes, one is to ensure that they will not lazy and do what I ask and second is when they did not do it, I would know as I have a few clues so that I can countercheck whether they had completed the works whilst i am at work. Ha if not for the kids, i would employ part time and no bun bun in my house. thank you


大宅

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發表於 04-5-7 13:29 |顯示全部帖子

Re: 賓賓不再說goodnight!

我賓初初三個月後就唔叫good morning, 我就同佢邁一定要佢叫good morning , 仲解釋這是禮貌及尊重,我們香港僱主好介意佢地唔叫good morning, 所以就算將來到第二家打工,記緊都要say good morning & good night. 以後佢就有講,到現在三年了都有講. 我個人覺得佢叫good morning 的同時,佢會知道我是佢boss, 就算幾唔like我,佢都要面對我,仲要死死氣,都要叫我早晨.

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