We left our kids to parents and went out for dinner on Friday night. This made us remember how we dated before getting married. And, this made us to have some relax time too.
our girl is 18 months old. We do go out for dinner once a week leaving the baby with the helper but we will always be back before 8 to put her to bed. we have left her with my mum a few months ago when we went to California for a week. I think some down time is needed as we do really need to do things for ourselves. Though we missed her loads when we did not see her, we did have some very good time on our own and this helps particularly there have been quite a bit of arguments ever since she was born. I think, my husband is still the most important person for me as he will be lifelong companion whereas if my girl is taken care of by my mum or helper, I should be more relaxed and leave her with them.
原帖由 Guaichu 於 15-08-19 發表
our girl is 18 months old. We do go out for dinner once a week leaving the baby with the helper but ...
Agree absolutely! I do argue with hubby sometimes after baby born due to the minor issues like the method of taking care kid...however I do recognise that hubby is a lifetime partner at the end... Well my boy will soon leave us after he finds a partner (though still have a very long time...) also, I do believe that if I maintain a good relationship with hubby, filled with joy etc, my kid grows happily too!
we do. we do it once to twice a month not that frequent. we will put our kid at the grandma who looks after her during day time. usually my husband & i will go pick her up once we get off work. but on those date nights, we will pick her up after our couple dinner or movie :) that's how he & i maintain our love and enjoy some park tall time! it is essential
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