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bibimuimui


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發表於 08-7-31 15:24 |只看該作者
自己試咗5年都冇bb, 身邊d朋友剛剛結婚就有咗bb, 我應該替佢開心的, 但係我冇替佢開心還仲心裡面咀咒人….. 我覺得自己真係好得人驚….. 希望主會原諒我…….
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jamie_mama


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畀面勳章 爸B勳章


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發表於 08-7-31 15:44 |只看該作者

回覆 #1 bibimuimui 的文章

bibimuimui, 起馬你諗到自己唔係好啱呀！你都係太jealous啫！我成日都係咁㗎啦！前幾年c6仲未想要bb時，見到家姐有咗就想佢生個仔（因為我想要個女），到佢生第二個，我就連恭喜佢都唔想！身邊個個朋友都話咁快就有咗，我就努力咗年幾都未有！屋企人仲話我唔知點解生唔倒，叫我去做ivf。唉！我都唔想㗎！
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siucandy


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好媽媽勳章


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發表於 08-7-31 15:59 |只看該作者
有時壓力都唔係來自自己,好多時都係身邊既人和屋企人比架,當你結左婚耐左都無聲氣,就開始吹你,其實咁樣都係有無型既壓力....

原文章由 jamie_mama 於 08-7-31 15:44 發表
bibimuimui, 起馬你諗到自己唔係好啱呀！你都係太jealous啫！我成日都係咁㗎啦！前幾年c6仲未想要bb時，見到家姐有咗就想佢生個仔（因為我想要個女），到佢生第二個，我就連恭喜佢都唔想！身邊個個朋友都話咁快就有咗，我就努力咗年幾都 ...
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PPyeung


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發表於 08-7-31 23:55 |只看該作者
原文章由 bibimuimui 於 08-7-31 15:24 發表
自己試咗5年都冇bb, 身邊d朋友剛剛結婚就有咗bb, 我應該替佢開心的, 但係我冇替佢開心還仲心裡面咀咒人….. 我覺得自己真係好得人驚….. 希望主會原諒我……. ...


don't do that if you want to be a
mother of a bb.

it's normal to be jealous but you
should accept the truth now.
if you want to be a good model of
a bb, you should be nice and kind
and can't be evil.

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wohwoh


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原文章由 bibimuimui 於 08-7-31 15:24 發表
自己試咗5年都冇bb, 身邊d朋友剛剛結婚就有咗bb, 我應該替佢開心的, 但係我冇替佢開心還仲心裡面咀咒人….. 我覺得自己真係好得人驚….. 希望主會原諒我……. ...

==>bibimuimui

妳事後識得唸番禁樣唔岩即係證明妳只係一時衝動，大家都好明白果種等完失望再等又失望既感覺，所以唔好禁怪責自己，由而家開始多 D 祝福番距就 okay 喇。:)
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mannc


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好媽媽勳章


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發表於 08-8-1 10:28 |只看該作者
你有冇試過睇中醫呀, 我個朋友又係咁, 幾年都冇, 跟住睇中醫, 之後就報喜, 有冇搵下係咩原因咁耐都未有, 壓力大, 都好難有, 加油呀, 我會支持你架!
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Lumpy


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發表於 08-8-1 10:40 |只看該作者
bibimuimui ，
我好明白你的心情，事關年初時，我知道叔仔老婆有左，我都好唔開心，係呢度發洩過，之後仲俾好多人話我惡毒．
其實當時我的心情同你現在一樣．
唔緊要的，初初一定會係咁，慢慢就會淡化的了，同埋，有個好好的方法，就係減少見果個大肚婆，因為我每次見完叔仔的老婆後，我就會回家哭到癲左．事關，佢自從有左之後，就唔理我（我係佢大嫂呀！！）仲要間接點我攞呢樣攞果樣．

唉，鬼叫自己個肚唔爭氣咩，唯有認命啦．

你唔開心一段時間好了，要堅強哦！我會支持你！
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babywantwant


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發表於 08-8-1 11:22 |只看該作者
原文章由 bibimuimui 於 08-7-31 15:24 發表
自己試咗5年都冇bb, 身邊d朋友剛剛結婚就有咗bb, 我應該替佢開心的, 但係我冇替佢開心還仲心裡面咀咒人….. 我覺得自己真係好得人驚….. 希望主會原諒我……. ...


bibimuimui,

我好明白你心情,因為我都試過知道一些我唔喜歡的人有左後,我和你一樣心裡都有咒罵她,有時和c6行街時佢一見到有大肚婆都會叫我望下佢地,奶奶又成日叫我添丁,你都咪話唔大壓力,心情都會緊張起來,其實心情緊張都會有影響架,或者試下睇不育科醫生,可能佢地會幫到你呢,我都book左下個月看醫生,希望大家一起努力啦
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Lumpy


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發表於 08-8-1 12:15 |只看該作者
最憎就係奶奶!!!!
都話左會生架啦,問題係未有,點生呢!!你迫我都無用架!!!一係你就勤力d煲補品,一係就收聲啦!你俾壓力我都無用架!!!
仲有,生bb係我地兩公婆養,我地都要儲錢和安排好多野架,你估真係生個孫你玩下就算呀!!!
仲要教架!!!

唉!
佢追問得我太多,現在連我地兩公婆都怕左返去食飯,攪到佢鬼死咁悶,時時打電話叫我地返去食.
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babywantwant


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發表於 08-8-1 12:22 |只看該作者
原文章由 Lumpy 於 08-8-1 12:15 發表
最憎就係奶奶!!!!
都話左會生架啦,問題係未有,點生呢!!你迫我都無用架!!!一係你就勤力d煲補品,一係就收聲啦!你俾壓力我都無用架!!!
仲有,生bb係我地兩公婆養,我地都要儲錢和安排好多野架,你估真係生個孫你玩下就算呀 ...


Lumpy,

唔好咁激動先,我聽過你的故事,亦好明白你受壓的心情,因為那種無助的心情,真係當時人先會明白,有時平心靜氣去想,maybe自己有天做奶奶時都會好恨抱孫,我唯有這樣安慰自己,另一方面去找方法解決,現在醫學昌明,我相信大家都會好快有bb的,努力呀!
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Lumpy


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發表於 08-8-1 12:28 |只看該作者
babywantwant,

多謝你!


我現在好努力了,睇緊兩個西醫,一個中醫.
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小月月


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MELODY430


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發表於 08-8-1 17:26 |只看該作者
I understand the feeling. all my school classmates all hv their babies. One classmate married later than me. Got 2 baby within 3 yr. I remember, in first yr she said she prefer to adpot children & no plan to hv babies wor. However 1 year later, she got 1 child (Boy) by natural. Then she said no more la. If pregant again, his husband will go to divorce with her wor. But last week, fm another classmate news, she will deliver another children (girl) next month. (She always say reverse word).Sometimes, I also hv hard feeling when I heard some news about bingo fm relatives or classmates. For family gathering, my mother in law only focus on my husband's brother & his wife. (because they hv a boy). Example, they are only pay $1000 per mth for her living support but she never complaint. If go out dinner, sometimes, they only pay little portion. But for us, she always said the food prices rises so much, I think she want us to pay more $$$ to her. If his brother & son came home for dinner, she always buy so much food & sometimes buy extra for them to take always. I always feel not fair la. I think the main point is we hv not children.
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alicesang


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發表於 08-8-9 17:39 |只看該作者
正常,我都好似你咁,唉!恨生幾年都無,前排知道一個無聯絡好耐嘅朋友有bb(佢個人人品&道德好差,十個ex boy fd以上,仲要落x一次...).我同我老公覺得上天好吾公平,因為當時剛iui failed,我傷心到無再祈禱,超級妒忌,why我地生活檢點都無,d 咁嘅人就...唉.後來放鬆心情,同一個best friend講,又同mother傾,慢慢就釋懷一d近排佢在 facebook 勁show bb d photos .我真係無事啦,原來真係要學習接受.
努力啦,一定會有,因為主要安排一個最好嘅俾我地 所以may be要 耐少少囖!
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PPyeung


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發表於 08-8-9 19:48 |只看該作者
原文章由 alicesang 於 08-8-9 17:39 發表
正常,我都好似你咁,唉!恨生幾年都無,前排知道一個無聯絡好耐嘅朋友有bb(佢個人人品&道德好差,十個ex boy fd以上,仲要落x一次...).我同我老公覺得上天好吾公平,因為當時剛iui failed,我傷心到無再祈禱,超級妒忌,why我 ...


yes. i feel a bit sad when friends
easily have bb. but it's fine. i feel
very sad when i know some people
have bb. i feel jealous and want to
ask why. esp. my ex-c6's present
wife(the 3rd person in my ex-
relationship and she's very old lah). however, i need to learn to accept.

don't curse people. no mothers or
mothers-to-be can curse people.
if you don't want bad children, you
need to learn how to be nice.
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