After reading this topic, I asked my husband why so many husbands/fathers would hang out with their friends in bars/pubs instead of staying home. I asked him about mens' opinion. However, my husband said that if the husbands/fathers keep hanging around bars/pubs, that means they are not mature enough to be a family man. This situation will keep on happening until all his friends become family man.
Luckily, most of my husband's friends became family a long time ago.