Thank you so much! 他有1-2個星期冇出去, 因為我哋有傾過,I said I feel something difference cuz he treated me differently, wasn’t as good as before and didn’t care about me. Then. He 當然said 我諗多咗 ,話冇野。我話這半年我哋嘅10th anniversary , 我係過得最唔開心!因為佢個心唔係我度!佢講咗一句sorry,話所有野沒變。我問佢佢最愛嗰個係咪我、家庭and our kid... of course he said “yes”. I was too emotion and asked stupid questions. I said I wouldn’t accept if he has other woman....
U aar right ! But He gone out last night after two weeks !!! Although he promised me he wouldn’t go out with girls (when we talked and I know he wouldn’t quit keep promises )....
昨天晚上,原來我諗住我們兩個人帶埋小朋友一齊去尖沙咀吃飯,我中午打去佢公司問佢意見,當冇事傾吓計,又特登想如果個秘書聽電話我就話太太搵佢。後來佢先至同我講話夜晚約咗同事farewell (but actually they have Farewells lunch already)..... he said why, I said happy Friday... and I didn’t ask maid to cook yet... then he said he doesn’t want to dine out cuz we usually dine out every weekend... 之後我話咁你喺邊度飲嘢我哋找你去嗰度食飯你飲完嘢過嚟咪得囉!佢好大反應就話「如果係你同個仔去啦我返屋企自己食麵。我唔想出去食飯我想係屋企食飯!」好友脾氣地說。
at the end,he came home 9:30pm last nite... we didn’t eat together of course. 佢放工前10分鐘打俾我好似試探下我去邊,我話喺香港區佢猛咁問我係邊度。之後我話等埋佢返嚟一齊食飯,佢有好大反應同埋發脾氣地說個仔肚餓唔使等!
Then I wonder what’s the point to say “want to have dinner at home but not to eat together”... 我之前都有false hope 覺得佢自己會醒,同埋想自己承受晒嗰條刺同之後相處嘅尷尬問題。但經過琴日咁樣,我會同佢講我已經知道,同埋我好難受。諗緊同佢講嘅時候我係咪應該放上結婚戒指等佢知道我對呢件事有幾認真同埋俾佢知道佢一直都講緊大話,但這兩天一直都對我發脾氣同埋覺得自己啱!
謝謝你JM! You are right. Already two weeks, I re-read your post again... I’m actually thinking this approach to talk to him frankly now after giving him two weeks time to take “some actions or changes”, but he denied (expected), and even angry with my “fault thinking!”.... so I quite want to talk to him. At first, I hope he can finish the relationship but he seems wouldn’t since what happened these two nights.... and it’s really difficult for him to pretend until “no when”.... wish me luck