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子爵府

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發表於 05-2-1 11:25 |顯示全部帖子

工人情緒化,點算?<急>

我請工人比我媽及照顧BB,她好勤力。但有時好情緒化,常常喊,或係唔出聲。佢在香港做左大約一年。我仲打算繼續簽佢多兩年。但係有時這樣情緒化,都唔知點算。應唔應該問佢咩野事呢?會唔會比佢覺得我地太緊張佢呢? ?-(


別墅

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發表於 05-2-1 11:37 |顯示全部帖子

Re: 工人情緒化,點算?<急>

一個人,離鄉別井, 當係朋友關心下, 傾下, 都好架~~


複式洋房

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發表於 05-2-1 11:43 |顯示全部帖子

Re: 工人情緒化,點算?<急>

工人有思鄉都係正常既 , 我諗你要多d同佢傾下, 關心下佢 or 比佢打下電話返屋企. 佢地會開心d嫁. 我都係倆三個月比我工人打下電話返屋企, 佢傾完明顯係開心d嫁. 你可以考慮下, 睇下會唔會好d, 因而思鄉係無藥醫既...
我個宏宏豬出生於2004年


男爵府

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發表於 05-2-1 11:53 |顯示全部帖子

Re: 工人情緒化,點算?<急>

如果你有時間自己揍小朋友等佢放下假返去囉!
一年有7日假麻!


[size=medium]*Humphrey*[size=small]04年8月28日10:40am係浸會出世7磅3安士


大宅

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發表於 05-2-1 12:47 |顯示全部帖子

Re: 工人情緒化,點算?<急>

妳可適度地關心她, 但表達的重點應是希望她在工作上有好的表現, 不會受心情影響.

例如你可找一個時間只有你二人(我通常會在書房或去麥當勞---------因無幫趁都得! :mrgreen: ),
然後關心的同佢講:

(1) 發覺佢在你家時,常有哭或不出聲的情況(要講實際細節,不要只說 "見你不開心", 因佢可能話: 無呀)--------------讓佢知你有平日都有留心佢
(2) 你希望佢在你家工作是開心的, 因為這樣工作表現會好些--------------讓她知你問佢的動機
(3) 所以你想知工作上是否有甚麼安排令佢不好受的地方,可講出來和你討論看能否改善.

你可用很關切的態度, 但記著你始終是僱主, 如直接問佢私人事(如: 你有甚麼不開心呀?), 佢可能不領情覺得你八卦,或基於身份不同始終不會同你講私事.
此外, 你也可衡量自己跟她的交情和信任度, 如果佢真的跟你說起私人的困難,例如家人病等錢用, 你願意無保留相信她嗎?你會毫不猶疑在經濟上幫她嗎?又或如果佢說失戀, 你會真心開解她還是怪責她拍拖?如果答案是有保留, 那就做一個有足夠關心(關心她的工作表現)的僱主便夠了.主僕關係始終跟朋友有別 (除非妳義無反顧要做她朋友...)


子爵府

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發表於 05-2-3 16:46 |顯示全部帖子

Re: 工人情緒化,點算?<急>

我已經同佢講左啦,佢話無事喎。問極都話無事。真係比佢激死。


別墅

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發表於 05-2-4 14:32 |顯示全部帖子

Re: 工人情緒化,點算?<急>

Is there any incident happen in these few days? Did she has some requests that u rejected or u have indicated some unstatisfaction about her performance? Let me tell u my story:

I agreed with my maid to let her have holidays from 19 Mar to 5 Apr and I arrange the CX for her. I told her about my findings on the Cathay flight sch which I believe is a good one since it is "early flight departure and late night arrival" to/from HK. Since the back flight arrive at 9pm, I request her to come back on 4 Apr instead of 5 Apr to allow her for settle down on 5 Apr which is a public holiday. She suddenly turned to an extremely black face. As usual, I then ask her what happen and she kept silent. I then gave her another option that if she insist on coming back on 5 Apr, then she must be back to my place before 8pm and settle down by that night. THIS IS ALREADY MY BOTTOM LINE. She replied " let me think about it" and went to sleep. I tried to find an excuse for her behaviour, may be she's too tired or she didn't understand what I said.
This morning, I write down the sch on piece of paper and ask her to think again. I even ask her to check with her "CausewayBay" friends if she can find a better flight sch (as she think) that fits my requirements. She then burst into big cry but keeps on saying "no problem". I am so angry inside but still ask softly what's her problem, she keeps on crying and never look at me.

I then asked the agent to talk to her. My agent just called and reported that my maid wrongly take my words as asking her not to take leave bcos I want to take her for a trip with my family instead. Rubbish! I just mentioned it (my family trip) once b4 last christmas, how come she can relates it to her leave????? Also, I wrote to her the itin this morning stating clearly that the destination is Jakarta and ask her to check the internal flight to her home town, does she believe that I am going to take my sweeties to visit her home.

This is not the first time she show the black face and cry (but saying "no problem") b4 me and everytime before I have acommodated her requests. I think she become "lo fung" already. Be careful with ur case. Take care

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