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發表於 05-2-1 12:56 |顯示全部帖子

工人英文差, 吾識同BB玩

My new bun arrived for a week, her overall performance is as follows, what is your comments:

English (not good)
1. though her application form stated that she is U-grad, she does not speak much English (so far, I have not heard a fully completed sentence from her). But it seems she understand my instruction (80-90%).

Cooking (OK)
2. she can cook by herself once we taught her and showed her how to cook. it is OK so far

Cleaning (OK)
3. she is wiling to follow our instruction and sometimes will do the cleaning work herself without much supervision once we told her to do so

Taking care of 1 year old baby (so so)
4. she is able to take care of my son (feeding, changing diaper, bathing, etc) once we showed her and told her how to do. It seems she likes my son and my son likes her too, but she does not know how to play with him. All she does is just holding my son and speaks some single words to him (e.g. no, ah, hello, etc.) or look at my son playing toys himself. I asked her to talk to him in full sentence but she didn’t (maybe her English is not good enough).

Character
5. she is very quite, looks kind and honest, but not very smart

My major concern is that because of her poor English, she is not good at playing with by son as 1 to 3 years is the critical period for baby to learn through playing.

Is there any mother has the similar case, how do you teach your bun to play with your baby? Please share.
Time flies, my kids are 12 and 10 years old now


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發表於 05-2-1 13:22 |顯示全部帖子

Re: 工人英文差, 吾識同BB玩

ahgooma:

我唔知我意見係咪正確,不過我都想同妳分享一下,如有錯誤請指正.

我姑奶都曾經搵工人(印傭)時,又想工人有degree(最好係major in education添), 又想個印傭英文流利. 點解要印傭,因為老爺奶奶唔識聽英文,d賓妹就唔識講中文多.

我個人覺得,莫講話印傭教育程度低,好少會係u grad,就算有,(唔好理賓定印),佢地d英文一來grammar未必岩,亦都唔係好叻,俾佢地由細教壞左個底子仲死,最好都係父母自己每日油時間親自教導,一來妳地會知孩子學到d乜,二來亦都係親子時間,孩子最需要都係父母陪伴教育,三來亦都減少孩子一口"賓"音

工人都係叫佢做家務/照顧小朋友好啦,唔好期望佢地可以幫手教英文. 如果妳既主要出發點係想小朋友透過玩而學習,叫個工人用多d心機同小朋友玩,肯付出愛心冇話唔得既~ 除非佢唔鍾意小朋友啦.
bk閒人


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發表於 05-2-1 14:00 |顯示全部帖子

Re: 工人英文差, 吾識同BB玩

Kiwizaki,

Thanks for sharing! I don't mean and expect my bun bun to teach my baby english. But I expect her, at least, be able to sing some simple baby songs or play some common games with him. She has a 4-year old baby girl and I think she should be able to do so (maybe in philippino only).

Since I am a working mother and my bun is the one whom spends the most time with my baby. So I want her to do something which my baby finds interesting and enjoyable. Of course, I and my husband play and tell story to the baby in our spare time.

As you suggested, I think I need to teach the bun how to play with my son.
Time flies, my kids are 12 and 10 years old now


子爵府

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發表於 05-2-1 14:06 |顯示全部帖子

Re: 工人英文差, 吾識同BB玩

我自己覺得,工人的責任是弄得屋企清潔,煮飯,照顧BB妥當,態度OK,不會黑面,不會駁咀,已經足夠.她並沒有責任教BB英文及很懂得跟BB玩.似乎後者兩點都應該是父母做的.當然如果工人的英文程度好就更加理想.你要記著,工人不是教師.如以上有什麼得罪,請見諒.

你可以週六或週日帶BB返PLAYGROUP.我都是這樣的.


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發表於 05-2-1 14:21 |顯示全部帖子

Re: 工人英文差, 吾識同BB玩

Almaz,

Thanks for your advice! Playgroup is a good idea. Do you know any playgroup for 1 year old baby?

Maybe my former bun was quite good at playing with my baby so that I expected the new bun to do the same.
Time flies, my kids are 12 and 10 years old now


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發表於 05-2-1 14:23 |顯示全部帖子

Re: 工人英文差, 吾識同BB玩

ahgooma

個人經驗, 覺得做家務好的, 就不會好like同小朋友玩, 鍾意同小朋友玩的, 就不鍾意做家務, 當然我亦請過兩樣都不鍾意做的工人.

我知你想表達mug野, 因為我對上的工人就是甘, 不識同我個仔玩, 只係望住個仔自己玩. 佢還要係在我個仔歲半學講野的時侯開始湊仔仔.

無錯, 同個仔玩/教係父母的責任, 但是當我們父母返工的時侯, 對得最多個仔的就是工人, 如果係個仔學講野的時侯, 對住一個不多講野, 不陪佢玩的工人, 個小朋友點樣學講野?

我個仔2歲幾都不識講野, 我最近抄左個工人, 換左呢個新的, 多野講, 育同個仔玩, 佢黎左都係1個月度, 依家仔仔講野都進步左, 當然我付出的錢同努力都係包括在內.

但湊佢的工人都係一個好重大的因素.

考慮清楚.
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發表於 05-2-1 15:47 |顯示全部帖子

Re: 工人英文差, 吾識同BB玩

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子爵府

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發表於 05-2-1 15:55 |顯示全部帖子

Re: 工人英文差, 吾識同BB玩

hinhinmummy,

我都好同意你的說法.我的印印廣東話不太好,而且說話不多,但都會同囡囡玩.導致囡囡說話都比較遲,但我從沒有怪罪於工人.其實請佢的時候都知,鬼叫自己要返工嗎?唯有自己晚上回家多點跟囡囡玩和傾計囉!


子爵府

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發表於 05-2-1 15:56 |顯示全部帖子

Re: 工人英文差, 吾識同BB玩

H&A 寫道:
ahgooma:

我明白你既要求&心態, 因為我都有叫我工人同bb玩, 因為工人對bb既時間係好長, 如果個工人唔鍾意同bb玩&傾計, 對bb好有影響, 當然, 我唔係叫工人教bb講英文, 我係想bb對人&物件有反應, 我&我自己身邊既朋友都算好彩, 因為所請既工人係肯同bb玩 & 照顧屋企所有野都ok,

我有一個朋友, 佢個印印又唔鍾意講野&唔同bb玩, 去健康院做test, 姑娘話佢比一般bb反應 (對顏色&聽既反應), 甚至有時係無反應, 因為, 工人只係放bb係bb床, 咁bb每日只係望住天花板....白色


咁就差d啦!


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發表於 05-2-1 16:00 |顯示全部帖子

Re: 工人英文差, 吾識同BB玩

ahgoodma

如果屋企有小朋友我都發覺,小朋友同工人一定要溝通,我個工人唔多出聲,好小駁咀,但佢連同我個仔講野都好小,佢都係u-grad. 但英文都唔差,所以我叫佢每晚都要讀一篇英文故事比我個仔聽,我唸照讀grammer都唔會錯掛,咁反而佢地多


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發表於 05-2-1 16:23 |顯示全部帖子

Re: 工人英文差, 吾識同BB玩

其實菲律賓的大學有好多種, 賓賓的學歷唔代表什麼. 越高的學歷越唔聽話, 請賓賓實際經驗允陣的. 妳而家個賓唔識同bb玩,妳可教下佢, 佢無實際經驗就唔識同bb玩. 妳bb得一歲工人同佢講單字問題不大, 講全句bb重唔識聽. 而且妳已請了個賓賓返來, 妳個小朋友如果只跟賓賓學英文, 佢的發音會很難聽. 請個賓只是比個bb多的機會講英文, 唔是教. 唔知妳同唔同意.我個仔就是咁, 的英語發音唔正 我都在bb兩歲左右送佢去讀一些英文playgroup糾正返, 因為自己只是放工同假期對住個小朋友.


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發表於 05-2-1 16:23 |顯示全部帖子

Re: 工人英文差, 吾識同BB玩

hinhinmummy, H&A,, wawa,

Thanks for your sharing and comments. I think the best way is to teach my new bun how to play with my baby. Ask her to observe and learn next time when I play with the baby.

Story reading is also a good way, I will ask my bun to do so.
Time flies, my kids are 12 and 10 years old now
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發表於 05-2-1 16:50 |顯示全部帖子

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發表於 05-2-2 18:35 |顯示全部帖子

Re: 工人英文差, 吾識同BB玩

my friend told me they can buy the certificate as in China. Maybe her certificate is not real !! ?-(
:-P :-P :-P :-P :-P


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發表於 05-2-3 09:31 |顯示全部帖子

Re: 工人英文差, 吾識同BB玩

I think your maid is quite good la.

If I were you, I will teach her to play toys with the baby and buy some VCD and books either songs or Cartoon, let her watch them with baby.


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發表於 05-2-3 09:48 |顯示全部帖子

Re: 工人英文差, 吾識同BB玩

bb2001, thanks for your advice, I also think in this way.

ken99, I think her qualification is real but she told me that she was taught in their own dialect at the university instead of English so that her English is not very good.
Time flies, my kids are 12 and 10 years old now


洋房

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發表於 05-2-3 14:02 |顯示全部帖子

Re: 工人英文差, 吾識同BB玩

我個工人都係咁,平時都唔多出聲,問佢點解,佢話怕羞.問佢我地唔係度佢會唔會同bb玩同講野,佢話會,信不信由你.

佢都話係大學畢業,但係連開奶加水之比例都攪唔掂,吹脹!

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