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做全職媽媽，你們放棄o左幾多？

做全職媽媽，一點也不容易，面對多方面的壓力，尤其是經濟方面。你們決定當這偉大工作時，放棄o左一份幾多錢o既工作呢？

My baby -- Sumi & Selene

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Re: 做全職媽媽，你們放棄o左幾多？

我e前人工唔算多,5,6千蚊個月但唔辛苦仲好快就過1日,
不過工作好易搵得返o者!
我決定生B仔而且做全職媽媽,我放棄左我的時間同青春,
e前係個少女,而家係個C9

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Re: 做全職媽媽，你們放棄o左幾多？

做了五個月全職媽媽，有得有失：
失：失去O左一份萬五萬六元的人工(相信很難再搵到)
得：多了親子的時間，與兩個孩子的關係拉近了很多(相信呢樣O野金錢是買不到的)

無O左一份人工，面對經濟的確多了壓力，唯有慳D駛 :-P

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發表於 05-2-3 01:11 |只看該作者

Re: 做全職媽媽，你們放棄o左幾多？

失: 少左萬幾元人工(自用).雙糧.花紅.醫療福利 ~:-|
得: 同囡囡關係好左,親子時間多左~

總括來講決定做全職媽媽都係值得o既,始終小朋友童年最重要,囡囡可以常常親近我又好開心~ :lol:

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Re: 做全職媽媽，你們放棄o左幾多？

我個朋友考慮緊會放棄一份月入超過3萬蚊o既工而做全職媽媽，你o地又點睇？

My baby -- Sumi & Selene

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Re: 做全職媽媽，你們放棄o左幾多？

Me 2. I'm struggling to give up my job which could give me nearly 40K per month to become a full time mom.

This intention has been agreed by my husband. And of course I love my kid so much and believe only I am the best one to carry her. But I'm still law law luen to worry about the future financially.

sumi-mama 寫道:
我個朋友考慮緊會放棄一份月入超過3萬蚊o既工而做全職媽媽，你o地又點睇？

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Re: 做全職媽媽，你們放棄o左幾多？

I have quitted my job 3 years ago.
My previous job didn't give me much satisfaction
though the income I earned wasn't too bad.
As I had full support from my husband
and I was prepared to lead a very simple life,
I wasn't too worry about our financial situation.

The number one thing I learned these years
is that I know more about myself and my son (which is good).
Through the day-to-day contact with my son and my domestic helper,
I realise that I'm not as good a mother (or a boss) as I used to think about myself.
I would easily lose temper.
I would do something that I think a good mother (or a good boss) should never do to their kids (or to their staff).
As for my son,
he doesn't look very smart,
but I can see some good potentials in him.
As an at-home mom,
I'm prepared to help him in every way that
I can.
This requires a lot of time with your child.
A working mom may not have such advantage.

AhLing :wink:

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269103

我bb而家1.5歲。係我全情投入去造人既時候，我就已經放棄咗份工(同你參唔多salary)。我失去咗一d自由，一d朋友，一d美貌( :mrgreen: )，一d金錢。但我個女好可愛，好乖巧，好醒目，最重要係佢好開心，時時都笑容滿面。咁條數點計都有賺啦！

BTW，唔好意思，不停讚自己個女tim。 :mrgreen: :mrgreen:

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Hi 269103 & jjo4july,

I really admire you all for being such happy moms! I'm also considering to be a full-time mom. My husband always has so many considerations that can't come to a concrete decision. Please support me!!!

sumi-mama

My baby -- Sumi & Selene

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jj04july,

Thanks for your sharing. My kid is the same as your daughter. She is really happy when she is with me. Always laugh and active. Both my husband and my friend tel lme that my daughter is different (more happy and active) when I'm with her. therefore no doubt being a full time mom is really good to my daughter.

As we think that 學前教育is quite important. One of my expected duties is to plan and execute the 學前教育 for her. Therefore apart from financial problem, I have pressure for not doing well as a full time mom in 學前教育 aspect, which is exchange with the high pay (high in my own view. :mrgreen: )

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Re: 做全職媽媽，你們放棄o左幾多？

我個女就快足兩歲，可以讀書，而我份工又越來越忙，雖然我奶奶會幫我照顧囡囡，但見個女時間越來越少，我都想轉全職媽媽，因為個女開始唔跟我....但份工做咗10幾年又有D唔捨得...各位媽媽你會點揀 ?

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sumi-mama 寫道:
我個朋友考慮緊會放棄一份月入超過3萬蚊o既工而做全職媽媽，你o地又點睇？

唔好問人點睇，最緊要當事人怎樣取捨，好多時外人是不能理解的。我個同事她是一位專業社工，讀好多書，有master的學位，月入四五萬，最終她都甘願回家湊一對仔女

有人會覺得讀咁多書且人工又咁高，會否徙D呀，但個同事一點也不後悔，因她覺得為O左仔女這是超值的 :-P

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homingm 寫道:
唔好問人點睇，最緊要當事人怎樣取捨，好多時外人是不能理解的。我個同事她是一位專業社工，讀好多書，有master的學位，月入四五萬，最終她都甘願回家湊一對仔女有人會覺得讀咁多書且人工又咁高，會否徙D呀，但個同事一點也不後悔，因她覺得為O左仔女這是超值的 :-P

我都好認同homingm所言，每個人的價值觀不同，要考慮的事真多，前途�人工只是其中一個題目，我自覺最要考慮的是每個人的人生只有向前行不可能返轉頭．只要不會在往後的日子後悔今天的決定便是．每一個轉變總會有一些適應�一些反省�一些改變�一些更新．．．美好是要出點力．

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我都好認同你地既講法．．．我覺得人生應該做ｄ自己想做，而且做左會開心既事．．．如果人生大部份時間去左番工，冇時間睇ｂｂ，你話幾浪費？人生仲有好多追求ga ma...
不過，要決定做full time mom，係要有安排既．．．我都諗緊點做．．．
係呢，你地點同你老公講想做full time mom？佢會唔會好反對？因為我人工同福利都ｏk, 屋企支出係同老公一人一半，如果唔做野，老公會好辛苦．．．你地既經驗係點？

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放棄o左一份萬元左右及七年公司感情及在公司識到一班熟客

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李好MaggieMaMa,

我未生BB前以経係Full time housewife,我無同老公講想做full time housewife or Full time mom,因為我老公吾係
中国人、他的民族係通常女人結婚後就吾出去造野。
Actually,甘有好又有吾好、好既係我地吾需要Struggle放吾放棄事業、吾好既係好似根本無得Choose甘！