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請教 應該點樣請工人


侯爵府

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發表於 05-2-13 17:26 |顯示全部帖子

請教 應該點樣請工人

我之前都有請個印印 但勁唔掂 已經返左家鄉 而家阿女比隔離師奶湊 我同老公放工自己湊番 但係真係好辛苦 好攰 我同老公都決定要再請工人幫下手起碼放工都叫有餐反食 我地想請菲菲 貪佢醒目d 我地好簡單 2公婆加一個女3個月大 應該用咩黎請工人 of course 要識湊 bb 應該請幾大年紀好 結左婚or 未結 有冇細老 出個國打工好 去個邊個國家好呢 有d話去過中東會聽話d 請各位媽咪有請開工人專湊bb 既比d 意見我 另外最緊要係我冇人會上黎我屋企幫手睇住個工人同bb that's the main point so worry  


複式洋房

國民生產總值:339


發表於 05-2-13 19:11 |顯示全部帖子

Re: 請教 應該點樣請工人

我一定會擇結左婚,自己有小朋友既, 起碼有經驗識照顧 BB, 年齡唔好太大, 我以前請過一個三十幾歲, 成日以為自已大過我, 經驗豐富過我, 我講乜都唔聽


男爵府

國民生產總值:7229

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發表於 05-2-13 23:48 |顯示全部帖子

Re: 請教 應該點樣請工人

最好去過星架波/沙地阿刺伯/台灣(哩d國家d外傭捱死);一定要已婚,有約三個細路,不要太細,最好在學但唔太大(有家庭負擔,會志在份工);要母親健在,最好同住(可以幫佢揍細路;無咁擔心);自己係大女,對落有一揪細佬妹(一定由細做家務做到大)!

哩d係我最初嘅要求! :-P


伯爵府

國民生產總值:18372


發表於 05-2-14 00:07 |顯示全部帖子

Re: 請教 應該點樣請工人

個agent介紹左一個比我, 因我都諗住換工人, 依加個個係印印, 但想換賓賓. 個個賓賓with助產士 cert, 大專畢業, 自己有個小朋友都7歲, 係philippine幫個一個華人家庭湊BB..... 你地又點睇呢個呢?


複式洋房

國民生產總值:368


發表於 05-2-14 10:24 |顯示全部帖子

Re: 請教 應該點樣請工人

Have you checked whether her experience in Phil is true or not? I think you have to consider her appearance as well, in particular any "smile".

My impression is that if one smiles all the time, she will take care the baby better. Believe it or not?


大宅

國民生產總值:1380

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發表於 05-2-14 12:25 |顯示全部帖子

Re: 請教 應該點樣請工人

I think if your agent can offer you to have a net meeting with the maid you are going to interview that will be better, at least you can talk to her in via the net meeting and you can more or less tell how much she understands you. When i was doing the interview for my maid, I ask her questions too, like what if "aul Paul" is mad at you, what would you do, if my baby felt at home, what should you do, if you break something at home what would you do.

I think more or less you will at least get a feel of the maid by asking questions like these.

If you don't have a person to look after the maid, it will be worrying, I can surely share your feeling. You just have to be "one eye shut, one eye open". However, I think not all the families in HK have the luxury of having an extra person to look after the maid and the baby.

Good luck.


男爵府

國民生產總值:8476


發表於 05-2-14 14:18 |顯示全部帖子

Re: 請教 應該點樣請工人

請工人其實真係好睇彩數, 我去年3月登記揾工人, 因9月預產期, 所以話明最早都要8月先上工, 我3月尾identify左個工人 (30歲, 有1子8歲, 丈夫已過身, 於singapore and malaysia各做了6年 (湊大2個newborn)), 8月頭番工到而家, 佢真係好好.

其實佢地一入training centre, agent已經幫佢地揾工, 因為visa process都要2個幾月, 咁到時咪話已經訓練過囉, 我因為早揾, 所以佢在training centre train足半年有多 (但有些在training centre train好耐都揾唔到工又係另一回事lah), 再加上佢本身既經驗, so far都覺得佢有90分 (可能我要求低). 我都係得佢睇bb, 冇其他人幫手, 靠個信字.


複式洋房

國民生產總值:175


發表於 05-2-14 17:53 |顯示全部帖子

Re: 請教 應該點樣請工人

Little_cy
I will ask them for all cert. proof and talk to the maid directly. I think that is better .
I love HK


複式洋房

國民生產總值:394


發表於 05-2-14 18:05 |顯示全部帖子

Re: 請教 應該點樣請工人

Dear ShinTeresa,

For both overseas and local maids, MUST get their ex-employers contacts. Call or write letters to their employer to get reference. What are their good/bad points. Also interview those maids, either face to face or over phone (for overseas). Once I called a maid she worked in middle east for 8 years (one employer) but she was very nervous and what she told me was very unreasonable (I thought she told lie). When you ask questions, must gain more information if the maid is experienced in taking care of baby (e.g. cry....., fever..., bathing...., congee....) and smart as she must take care the baby and house chorse independently. I prefer those mid-thirty, married and with children.
Also not the first time to go overseas, so not serious in home sick, esp those married women, some of them may hardly leave their husband. (I had experience before, that maid could not leave her husband <no sex>, the first time she lied to me and went home, stole condom too (she also destroyed some of my condom too). For those too young, they normally like to play, make-up, not so stable.

ShinTeresas, as you do not have anybody can assist you at home and totally rely on the maid when both of you go out. Must be very careful otherwise, will get you into trouble and danger.For overseas maid, don't employ those worked in middle east before. Firstly, families in middle east normally employ few maids and they have their own responsibilities and imcomprehensive, e.g. baby-caring, cooking, cleaning, ironing etc.

Employ those worked in Singapore and Taiwan, especially their employers were Chinese. You may identify their race from their names. However, few Fililipnos has Singapore working experience as Singaporean tend to employ Indonesian.

For those already in HK, ask the agency if they can work at your home for a day (just a test/interview).

Hope the above will be useful for you.


公爵府

國民生產總值:29657


發表於 05-2-15 15:43 |顯示全部帖子

Re: 請教 應該點樣請工人

最好請在港剛完約, 可以即時見過面, 睇佢對答方面係點, 至少可以知佢識聽幾多廣東話。
我現在家裡個位印姐係隔山打牛方式請番黎, 勁差, 係台灣做過比人炒出黎, AGENT無話我知呢點, 黎到先知佢咩都唔識。仲要唔受教, 比我鬧過之後, 日日搵D野黎激我, 仲要好貪心成日攞我地D野唔出聲, 人一D都唔純良, 同當初睇相時, 所估計既完全唔一樣。

所以今次我換工人就堅持要見到真人既, 又可以同佢上手顧主通電話, 知道份人大慨係點, 咁會保險D。


男爵府

國民生產總值:5872


發表於 05-2-15 16:12 |顯示全部帖子

Re: 請教 應該點樣請工人

我請工人準則有幾點:

1. 同自己年紀差唔多, 大家好溝通, 大過自己好多的會唔聽你支笛, 細個自己好多既就好似幫人湊女。 我既例子係, 我30歲, 請番30歲, 我細妹24歲, 請番個22歲。 而我細妹唔可以請個30歲, 如果請左就比人洽果個係我個妹, 而呢個後生印印又肥又矮, 相當cutie, 想貪靚都貪唔黎, 更遑論出去 "覓食"? 睇下佢地張相個樣有冇修眉, 條眉若果靚過你, 整到咁靚一定好姿整, 呢d就唔使請。

2. for me, 要結左婚, 生左細路, 千其唔可以太細, 太細佢會掛得好緊要, 最好十歲八歲在學年紀, 佢要搵錢供佢地讀書。

3. 不可以全家排行最細, 做拉女始終比人縱憤, 最好排阿大或阿二, 責任心會強d。

4. 請印印唔請賓賓, 印印易話為d, 雖然有d蠢, 賓賓精好多, 十居其九都係賓賓麻煩d, 佢地寧願放假唔要錢, 要放就放, 冇得妥協, 印印你要佢幾時放就幾時放, 真係有起事上黎要佢唔放佢地都有商量。

5. 比人兜出黎既未必係最衰, 或者本身問題係出於個僱主, 例如我細妹果個, 就係比人兜走的, 原因點解? 因為剩係識講流利普通話, 唔識講英文同廣東話, 做野唔夠快, 所以比人炒左, 我知道後我就叫佢前employer留番比我個妹, 因為我知道果個印印心地唔錯, 肯學, 事關我都教佢唔少野, 只要溝通好, 絕對冇問題果隻, 而家不知做得幾好, 我細妹去返工, 完全放心個BB比佢湊, 而家冇左佢唔知點算。
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伯爵府

國民生產總值:18372


發表於 05-2-15 23:38 |顯示全部帖子

Re: 請教 應該點樣請工人

what question will u ask for the maid?


洋房

國民生產總值:42


發表於 05-2-16 00:33 |顯示全部帖子

Re: 請教 應該點樣請工人

其實而家都有好多質素好好的印傭. 對於我來講,我一定會請個有香港經驗


男爵府

國民生產總值:5103


發表於 05-2-19 23:33 |顯示全部帖子

Re: 請教 應該點樣請工人

如果你想請個工人睇bb但屋企又無老人家睇實個工人,你2個又要返工,就要留意前僱主屋企有無老人家啦,因為比我炒果個印印就話喺新加坡照顧過bb仔同bb女,但屋企有2個老人家,初初都以為佢識得照顧bb,但點知又唔識炒餸,又唔識湊bb,原來係個老人家做呀,佢只係幫手咋!清潔又那西,因為老人家對乾淨個要求唔高呀


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