It is so true that "男人自私, 個性有點像小孩子, 但唔代表佢唔愛你"! Mine is just the same.
He was out of town on Valentine's Day. He did not leave me his flight schedule / he did not tell our son he was leaving town / he did not say a word of Happy Valentine's..... but said, "what made you so angry these couple of days"!!!!! When I asked him to take holidays, he was reluctant. When his friends asked him to golf, he would die for it.