same la, my husband always blame me not let my helper to feed and take care bb. do everything myself. he doesn't understand how much i care and love my boy. I persoanly dont like my maid, but i dont know if i change to another one will be better or worse(coz very by luck). so i dont want she touch my bb when i am home! for this reason, i request two month no paid leave to stay home baby sitting my bb. coz my helper very make me uncomfortable and not get my trust either....
i was very upset about this situation, but my husband will think thats my problem. He doesnt know that he is lucky coz i am home to take care bb, so he doesnt need to worry at all. I want to return to work i want to make money, but i cant leave my bb alone with my helper lor.....