I totally understand, i had this experience b4 while i have a miscarriage 2 yrs ago, i have a relative who has a baby just at the same time while i have my miscarriage, when we had family lunch gathering together, she knew that I had a miscarriage at that time, I was so unhappy at that time, she still announce that she has a 2nd baby in front of me and also proud to say that this time it's a girl (she has a boy and very much want to have a girl), my heart was crying at that time, and I don't really feel happy for her (to be honest), ever since, I don't want to see her anymore, I don't know why she can be so cruel to say that to me at that time, doesn't she know how I felt or she do that in purpose to make me feel bad.