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大宅

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發表於 06-5-20 13:21 |顯示全部帖子

你地有無妒忌照顧自己BB 的人啊?

你地有無妒忌照顧自己BB 的人啊?

好予盾,妒忌我工人令我好唔開心,我BB的眼神話我知佢好鐘意個工人啊!唉,我又要返工,每日最快都係9點鐘才返到屋企,又唔識tum佢哈哈大笑,係禁kiss佢,好肉緊。有時放假陪多DBB,關係好返一日,都唔夠個工人星期一至六禁好架!遲D工人滿約,如果放走佢,BB會好傷心番,但係禁,始終都要面對架啦!有時我真係唸多左。 :cry: :cry:

好在老公好識Tum BB,不過唔明我感受羅。其實個工人都幾好架,又幾鐘意我BB,工作能力同記性都幾好架。客觀睇都算唔錯,不過有時佢會少少賴叻禁話比我知BB鐘意D咩呀,咸D咩呀,好了解BB禁,我又無明火起,只係唔出聲,心理好唔平衡呢! :cry: :cry: 工人好似代替我呢個媽媽既角色啦。 點算?我仲係餵奶粉。好無奈。


大宅

積分: 1451


發表於 06-5-20 23:43 |顯示全部帖子

Re: 你地有無妒忌照顧自己BB 的人啊?

zzerong,

你好似講緊我既 experience & feeling, 講中我既心事. 我好少同我工人講野, 都係因為妒忌佢, :evil: 不過佢真的幾有心機湊我bb, 好識同佢玩, 又講story佢聽, 所以妒忌還妒忌, 我都有加賞佢 ($$ & small gifts), 做人真茅盾! 莫非我們都心理唔平衡!!


複式洋房

積分: 166


發表於 06-5-21 05:52 |顯示全部帖子

Re: 你地有無妒忌照顧自己BB 的人啊?

Hi zzerong626

This is exactly my feeling as well. I'm very jealous of my 99, who helps me take care of BB. 99 wants to do everything for BB and always "stick" to BB. Even when I'm playing with BB or feeding BB, she comes and talks to BB.

Of course, 99 has more experience and knows how to make BB laugh. BB seems to like her more than me and I feel very unhappy.

I'm still on leave and I try to do as much as I can, although I feel very tired. (I had c-section in Jan and had another operation to remove the fibroid last week ).

However, I'll get back to work next month and I'll certainly miss BB very much. I can't quit my work and so feel very upset these few days. I'm quite emotional now, cry a lot and complain to my husband. I can't sleep both day and night but my husband only suggests me to see a psychologist!!!


:-( :-( :-(


大宅

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發表於 06-5-21 10:32 |顯示全部帖子

Re: 你地有無妒忌照顧自己BB 的人啊?

我同你都係一樣,唯一唔同就係我餵人奶,所以我堅持同bb



大宅

積分: 2005


發表於 06-5-22 10:13 |顯示全部帖子

Re: 你地有無妒忌照顧自己BB 的人啊?


男爵府

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發表於 06-5-22 10:29 |顯示全部帖子

Re: 你地有無妒忌照顧自己BB 的人啊?

我係全職媽媽,不過都有D野同大家分享下。

而家一個星期有5-6日daytime毛婆都會來同毛毛玩。佢地玩得好開心嫁,因為毛婆好鍾意BB,而且佢有耐性,可以同毛毛不停玩成粒鐘,我呢...嘻嘻,15-30分鐘都倦啦,又想做下自己野。 不過如果我出左去,得毛婆同毛毛一齊,毛毛會喊得好緊要嫁,毛婆話因為夜晚我自己湊,BB會跟夜晚個care taker多d。

另一實証係我家姐,佢要返工,所以兩個小朋友都係毛婆湊大,不過分別係大女湊日同夜,細佬就只湊日,夜晚跟工人。 唔知係咪因為咁,後來換左工人,細佬就變得好頑皮啦。 佢仲會掛住個工人添....

所以勸大家,放工後要夜晚自己湊呀。


別墅

積分: 858


發表於 06-5-22 10:30 |顯示全部帖子

Re: 你地有無妒忌照顧自己BB 的人啊?

I sometimes have the same feeling. It is now my 99 who looks after Long Long. Although I also BF him, he reacts particularly happy when my 99 speaks to him.

Luckily, I will become a FT mom in July and I can gain all these back.


大宅

積分: 2005


發表於 06-5-22 11:29 |顯示全部帖子

Re: 你地有無妒忌照顧自己BB 的人啊?


大宅

積分: 2005


發表於 06-5-22 11:45 |顯示全部帖子

Re: 你地有無妒忌照顧自己BB 的人啊?

mother 30,
it's great that you will become a FT mama.....

mrsmcdull,
thanks for your sharing. night time咁重要,我一定唔會放過, but 我 father-in-law想bb一星期搵時間去佢屋企住....唉!!!我都唔想 :-x , 但老公話爺爺想同bb玩尢得佢啦


男爵府

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發表於 06-5-22 11:52 |顯示全部帖子

Re: 你地有無妒忌照顧自己BB 的人啊?

除左我老公.. 同我媽之外..
其他人我都會架.. 所以我唔可以做weekend mami..
BB chi 其他人多D.. 我會好傷心架.
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大宅

積分: 1455


發表於 06-5-22 12:35 |顯示全部帖子

Re: 你地有無妒忌照顧自己BB 的人啊?

I definitely know how it feels when your bb positively responses to others than you. My maid is full time taking care of my son, luckily that my husband is staying at home during the daytime; I can see that my son responses to them very quick and happy, I am so jealous of that, that's why I'll rush home in 99 secs, right away bath him and if possible feed him, then play with him. So tiring, but that's the only quality time for both of us. I wish I could be a FT mom too!


大宅

積分: 1455


發表於 06-5-22 12:38 |顯示全部帖子

Re: 你地有無妒忌照顧自己BB 的人啊?

I decided to take one day off (Wednesday) every week from July till Nov, so that I have more time to be with him


大宅

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發表於 06-5-22 15:01 |顯示全部帖子

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大宅

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發表於 06-5-22 15:02 |顯示全部帖子

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大宅

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發表於 06-5-22 15:03 |顯示全部帖子

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大宅

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發表於 06-5-22 15:03 |顯示全部帖子

Re: 你地有無妒忌照顧自己BB 的人啊?

絕對有. 呀b見到工人即刻笑哂, 好開心. '樓'眼訓又一定要搵佢'暗'訓. 見到我, 望2眼就唔'so'我. 好唔開心. :-( :-( :-( . 但自問又真係冇佢咁有耐性, 同咁多時間對住呀b. 冇得比.
番茄媽, 你咁好嘅. 可以每星期三放一日假. so envy!!!


侯爵府

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發表於 06-5-22 16:47 |顯示全部帖子

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複式洋房

積分: 166


發表於 06-5-22 17:40 |顯示全部帖子

Re: 你地有無妒忌照顧自己BB 的人啊?

Hi mrsmcdull

Thanks very much for your advice.

I really want to sleep with BB. However, I had c-section and my 99 suggested that she sleeps with BB so that she can feed him at night. (99 lives near us and she stays at my home at night to help in the 1st and 2nd months.)

When I recovered in the 3rd month and told her that she can return home to sleep sometimes, she only smiled. I had complained to my husband and told him that I wanted to sleep with my BB, but he just ignored me.

It is the 4th month now but 99 still comes to sleep with BB at night and stays at my home as much time as she can during the day!!! I can imagine that I have to live with her for so long and really want her to return her home !!!

I know 99 loves BB very much, every one loves him (e.g. 99, 爺爺, 公公, 婆婆, etc.) and they come to my home frequently to play with BB. However, I have to work soon, I want to spend more time with him alone during my maternity leave!)


大宅

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發表於 06-5-22 21:23 |顯示全部帖子

Re: 你地有無妒忌照顧自己BB 的人啊?

mrsmcdull 寫道:
我係全職媽媽,不過都有D野同大家分享下。

而家一個星期有5-6日daytime毛婆都會來同毛毛玩。佢地玩得好開心嫁,因為毛婆好鍾意BB,而且佢有耐性,可以同毛毛不停玩成粒鐘,我呢...嘻嘻,15-30分鐘都倦啦,又想做下自己野。 不過如果我出左去,得毛婆同毛毛一齊,毛毛會喊得好緊要嫁,毛婆話因為夜晚我自己湊,BB會跟夜晚個care taker多d。

另一實証係我家姐,佢要返工,所以兩個小朋友都係毛婆湊大,不過分別係大女湊日同夜,細佬就只湊日,夜晚跟工人。 唔知係咪因為咁,後來換左工人,細佬就變得好頑皮啦。 佢仲會掛住個工人添....

所以勸大家,放工後要夜晚自己湊呀。


好彩我夜晚都同bb


別墅

積分: 787


發表於 06-5-23 08:28 |顯示全部帖子

Re: 你地有無妒忌照顧自己BB 的人啊?

> 所以勸大家,放工後要夜晚自己湊呀。

Totally agreed!
I am lucky that my baby always smile to me and her dad when we came back home after work.

Night time is so limited already, back home at around 730, still need to feed her, bath her, have dinner ourselves, have shower, then it is time to feed her again before she sleeps. Only have around 15 min to play with her everynight
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