It's not good to cheat him. If you get pregnant, will he love you and your bb? He will love it or doesn't do anything for the bb 'cos he doesn't want to have it. It's better for both of u to have compromise beforehand. It's fair to u, him and your bb. He has the right to choose 'cos he may be the father. You may tell him you love bb. If he still doesn't accept, will you choose to leave him?