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複式洋房

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發表於 06-7-25 19:31 |只看該作者

生完 B B 心理不平衡

自從BB 出世後,現在剛剛滿月, 工人6月已到,一心唸住叫佢湊BB, 但BB出院咁來,我都未比佢掂過, 遲遲拖住我老公話我會教佢, 但一唸起見到唔係自己人掂自己個仔,我好想嘔,又好想喊,不想返工,21�8我要返工啦,點算呢,我仲未教佢,現在媽媽都很來我家幾個鐘,返工後,佢都很來,但我真係好想克服,見佢湊我長女我又無什麼感覺,可能知道個女始終係會跟我,但BB一日對佢咁長,我好似好驚,有無人可開解我,我又唔敢同人講,我知個個會話我白痴,怎算好呢


複式洋房

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發表於 06-7-25 20:52 |只看該作者

Re: 生完 B B 心理不平衡

I know what feeling of u ...I know...
u can share all your feeling of your mother,
she must give u advice and suggestion,
dont worry about that , open u mind talk to
her, she can help u ^_^


大宅

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發表於 06-7-25 21:42 |只看該作者

Re: 生完 B B 心理不平衡

don't worry, u can talk to yr mom + yr hb, they will understand really u have to speak out don't keep everthing inside. i know that feeling, because i'm suffering from depression after giving birth to my bb as well :-( i'm getting batter la, but it may take time, just like me, now my bb is 6 almost 7 months old n sometime i still feel really sad n no one can do anything. when that happen i will turn to my hb n we will sit down n talk for a long time until i feel better... if u can't talk to them u can always come n talk to us, our door is always open for u get it out of yr system then u will know it's only normal after given birth, this is call baby blue, nothing big only if u start talking open up to yr family


別墅

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發表於 06-7-28 09:43 |只看該作者

Re: 生完 B B 心理不平衡

我都係, 係返工前仲日日借d易鬧工人, 唔放手比工人揍, 屋企人都話我有問題, 後來安排左個親戚睇住個b同工人, 返工後心情先有好轉


民房

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發表於 06-7-28 11:55 |只看該作者

Re: 生完 B B 心理不平衡

其實有邊個媽咪願意比bb工人湊呀.我都係一樣,生完之後,都係自己湊bb.換片,沖涼,餵奶,起身餵夜奶,全部都係我+奶奶做.但係現實終歸現實,你要返工,又想湊b,邊有咁好嫁.

最後,我選擇返工,所以都沒藉口唔比bb工人湊.因工人之前有湊b經驗,加上大b又係佢換片,餵粥,奶,做家務,所以在我返工前一個星期,我比bb跟佢睡,比bb佢餵夜奶.當然,我自己每晚都有過去看bb的情況,起身幫佢沖奶,一晚都起2-3次身嫁.

現在,慶幸bb都跟工人,工人亦錫bb.所以話bb好叻嫁,有人蝦佢哋的時候,佢地會放聲大喊,呢個咪係一個警號law.

所以你的情況和我的差不多,如果你媽咪可以日間過來看阿b的話,那就最好啦.你要想,個工人其實是輔助角色,係幫你媽咪一把的好幫手.

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