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大宅

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發表於 06-7-29 05:37 |顯示全部帖子

有點怕

請工人已經有點怕,無錯, 他可以幫忙做家務,但太多要求,煩,如果可以自己做更好,不用求人,遲點有新工人,怎樣相處呢?
我以前的工人洗碗有洗潔清味,幫他開稀,又油立立,話佢仲駁嘴,星期日回來,又講甚麼甚麼權利,煩


大宅

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發表於 06-7-29 09:26 |顯示全部帖子

Re: 有點怕

平常心啦, 擔心唔o黎, 請倒好o既係你好彩, 唔好o既咪換o羅 ... 無須要忍受 !

好似我咁, 我目的係要請佢返o黎湊 bb (因為無老人家湊, 又唔想將 bb ling o黎 ling 去), 所以只要佢 lee 方面過倒關, 其他o野馬夫都算, 做得唔好咪叫佢再做過o羅, 但有 d 係接受唔倒o既, 記住人係唔會完美o既 !

可能我抱住 lee 個心態, 工人初初o黎到 (我仲有兩個星期生)主要係叫佢做清潔o既工作, 幫我洗定 d 餸菜等我放工返o黎自己煮 (其實我跟本無問過佢識唔識煮飯桌餸), 佢睇o黎好悶, 時時問我有咩要洗, 但當時佢新o黎怕佢整爛o野, 好多時都話遲 d 等我地放假至攪啦 (實質係想睇住佢整) ... 到我要生啦, 至開始放手俾o野佢做 (想唔放手都唔得, 自己湊 bb 跟本顧唔倒咁多o野) 至發覺原來我個工人好掂, 好細心 (佢好留意我做o既o野, 而且會盡量跟足我o既方法), 佢完全可以處理晒屋企o既家頭細務, 如果佢做o既唔夠乾淨, 我唔會直接話佢知, 只會係佢面前自己做o番, 佢好醒 ... 之後會學返我咁做 ... 仲有好多好多 ... 不過 lee d 方法只適合我家中o既工人, 你唔好學呀

p.s. 我 sunday 係會自己吸塵/ 抹地/ 洗奶樽o家


別墅

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發表於 06-7-29 17:56 |顯示全部帖子

Re: 有點怕

alf 寫道:我以前的工人洗碗有洗潔清味,幫他開稀,又油立立,話佢仲駁嘴,星期日回來,又講甚麼甚麼權利,煩


大家交流下,若然碗有味,我會叫佢即時洗過(傭主有權咁做)。最好當我面洗一次,有任何做得不標準,即時教佢。傭主有責任教佢,每日都要用碗,睇係小事,實際影響好大。我請佢,時間可以隨我分配,用 o既水又係我俾錢,無唔妥。無 hard feeling 。

若佢唔鍾意,已表示佢認為自己好得,得就叻 D做得妥當 D俾我睇(對待懶叻工人的方法)開稀洗潔精係行錯方向!始終 follow instruction 係工人首要守則。我會俾時間觀察佢調唔調節到,若然無心改變,我就請佢返歸,若然有心,我會頃囊相教!


子爵府

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發表於 06-7-30 10:48 |顯示全部帖子

Re: 有點怕

Hi wan-wan-ma

請問點對付懶叻工人的方法, 請指教!


子爵府

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發表於 06-7-30 13:44 |顯示全部帖子

Re: 有點怕

(講明只fit我隻陽光賓咋)
我所有家務都會做一次俾佢睇,然後睇佢做一次,有唔妥即出聲,佢係會有壓力,但係我個人重溝通,從來唔用炳o既方式,等佢做得開心D.
對佢就好似家人咁,係因為佢一教就上手,唔使我煩,仲要週圍收風佢對我個陽光妹勁好,我自己都要下下叫個囡同佢講Thank you,咁就知個囡真係勁蝦佢
平時佢一唔記得做少少野(例如雪凍水、煲水等)我會自己做,但係我會remind佢唔記得,通常佢會say sorry,我會順便玩佢:下次我做既話你返老家啦(我會陰陰咀笑 佢會get到我講乜,之後無唔記得 )
不過因為我隻賓好醒目,我同佢乜都傾,我成日整'古'佢,所以基本上佢好鍾意我係屋企,我起身遲佢三個鐘,一見到我就好似兔仔咁跳埋黎問我想食咩午餐,夜晚整'送'又想我地贊佢.
我同佢講佢係香港算好好彩,因為佢放假時收到風其他僱主點對工人,所以佢同我講佢會好好照顧我一家.(暫時真係蜜月期,仲好鬼好,一、兩年後驚佢學壞,因為佢真係好聰明)


複式洋房

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發表於 06-7-30 15:40 |顯示全部帖子

Re: 有點怕

hi, winnie_sh,

your 陽光賓 so good! What is her background or history, e.g. is she the first time in HK? How long she work for u? How old is she? High education or low?(just for interesting and want to get experience when employ the next maid! ) I have fired 4 yan yan maid in 3 yrs, and waiting the new one. If the coming yan yan not good again, my agency suggest me to find a 賓 who have never worked abroad wor) :-( :-( :-( :-(


珍珠宮

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發表於 06-7-30 16:28 |顯示全部帖子

Re: 有點怕

Jenny1234 :
三年炒四件都好利害,我都係十年七個炒咗四個!
始終都係嗰句:睇你命水!

Winnie :
我有個提議,响天書裡面開一個「僱主心得」Topic,在答問裡面選一些較有意思的分享放進,借此教新手僱主與工人相處之道!
我响呢度見到好多「兩極」嘅BK Moms,一些太驚工人對BB唔好,乜都唔敢出聲,自己就谷爆,另一派就太火爆,動不動就勁炳,兩種都唔係好掂!
我嘅「警告信糸列」教人一早部署,其實都有咁嘅意思在裡面,盡早以black and white方式溝通好些,避免過份忍讓寵壞或過激咁炳傷感情!因為人同人之間嘅感情,衰咗個頭就樣樣都好難!
教仔心得:媽咪容易犯的錯誤
http://www.baby-kingdom.com/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=951856&extra=&page=1

成日話「讚」可以改正小朋友壞行為,到底點解同點讚?   
http://forum.baby-kingdom.com//v ... page%3D1&page=1


子爵府

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發表於 06-7-30 16:31 |顯示全部帖子

Re: 有點怕

經絕世好賓介紹直接係菲律賓請,第一次黎香港係我度做了5個月,所以無債務問題(好既已經黎哂香港做緊)
28歲剛離婚有個女8歲要養,所以博老命要搵錢返老家
大學畢業讀電腦工程師兼讀電腦英語科(佢話係菲要另比錢學,因為電腦全用菲文,要識英文就要報電腦英文)
所以陽光妹D英文進步神速,仲識唱好多英文歌:
Nothing gonna change my love for you (死未 )
不過係本身佢性格好fit我屋企,我帶佢見過既人都讚佢,不過我睇得出佢對我都有大話(關於佢屋企問題)所以我都會保持距離,佢亦全自動波做好哂所有野,我每日比3~4個鐘佢陪我個囡玩,佢亦好識做先完成全屋家務,安排時間從來唔使我擔心,只要佢唔學壞,相信我會一路用佢!


別墅

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發表於 06-7-30 16:31 |顯示全部帖子

Re: 有點怕

見到D驚青傭主我都愛莫能助,見到D勁惡傭主又覺外傭可憐!

設分享頁。Good Idea!

贊成!


子爵府

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發表於 06-7-30 16:44 |顯示全部帖子

Re: 有點怕

SandraLo,

<<<<<<<<<應如何與外傭保持良好關係<<<<按此<<<<

唔使,我不嬲都save哂BK有興趣既Topic,你要乜我有乜
做落網會經常要update,咁不如直接出番D Topic 俾會員答咪得囉!


珍珠宮

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發表於 06-7-30 22:57 |顯示全部帖子

Re: 有點怕

Winnie :
呢個 topic 是否在天書裡面呢? 点解我找不到.....可能隻眼太細....揾唔到....
我懷疑佢地有冇咁好心機咁樣睇法,咁多頁,好似之前警告信個 topic 咁,去到第六、七頁,前面嗰啲就冇人睇,到有得「做埋」時,人數就急升,到你出聲,又靜番,都幾鬼得意,我知你為 BK Moms已經做咗好多好多嘢,但我又睇到呢度好多問題都係重覆又重覆,至想抽啲答案嘅精華出嚟.....
另外,天書裡面用「如何寫警告信」好像太權威和太 formal了(我邊有咁勁寫呢個topic),實在有点不安,可否用類似 「會員Sandra心得 (或分享):警告信要一早部署」等的字眼?
謝謝!
教仔心得:媽咪容易犯的錯誤
http://www.baby-kingdom.com/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=951856&extra=&page=1

成日話「讚」可以改正小朋友壞行為,到底點解同點讚?   
http://forum.baby-kingdom.com//v ... page%3D1&page=1


公爵府

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發表於 06-7-30 23:51 |顯示全部帖子

Re: 有點怕

SandraLo,
呢個topic係BK之前開架.係天書無架.
另您想我改改個天書出警告信字眼?無問題,不過等我做埋份bb翻譯一次過放上天書時改埋好嗎?
咁我唔駛分幾次改d電腦碼.


複式洋房

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發表於 06-7-31 00:40 |顯示全部帖子

Re: 有點怕

SandraLo,

I know that 人同人之間嘅感情,衰咗個頭就樣樣都好難, so 僱主與工人相處之道 is a big topic to learn. Such like the current maid, when she come to our home, she always long face !! (when we teach her the routine/work that fit us, she always shows
impatient and long face. And she always works with non-serious manner if the things she think is not important or don't want to do!) And then she also not keen on playing with my son, cause my son don't like her, and always said that "ask her gone and back home!!"

2 wks ago, my husband decide to employ a new one and fire her later. (she works for 2 months now)But these 2 days, I found her have great improvement. But my husband said that she give a very bad impression to him, so he don't want her to stay in my home. So I understand that 衰咗個頭就樣樣都好難! :-( :-( :-( :-(


別墅

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發表於 06-7-31 01:02 |顯示全部帖子

Re: 有點怕

Jenny1234:

唔駛怕面對換工人架。我個妹都有類似情況,工人 fit 到基本要求,但對住小朋友就無愛心。姨生女食飯慢,佢居然 look大隻眼荔住個小朋友。意思即係話,妳仲唔食播,左住我做其他野,妳好煩,我唔鍾意對住妳。我個姨生女反射性地一日到黑同我個妹講唔鍾意佢,叫佢走!

妳要知道小朋友語言表達力不夠,但觀察力俾大人強好多,要信任自己個小朋友,若阿媽都唔信小朋友,搵邊個信佢地?阿媽要留個衰工人,要個仔受罪,天下無 lee個道理!

妳自己都講,個工人一日 long face 到黑,又無耐性,點打工呀佢,唔駛可惜喎。我個妹都搵到個能夠同小朋友相處愉快既工人,唔駛小朋友童年唔開心!


珍珠宮

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發表於 06-7-31 21:29 |顯示全部帖子

Re: 有點怕

Jenny1234 :
If it's your husband's decision, it's a lot easier. Because the male employer normally knows very little about the helper and he doesn't want to hear complaint from the wife. The wife will then be more angry with the helper without support from the husband.....
So, everything will be fine with you having a new helper soon !
教仔心得:媽咪容易犯的錯誤
http://www.baby-kingdom.com/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=951856&extra=&page=1

成日話「讚」可以改正小朋友壞行為,到底點解同點讚?   
http://forum.baby-kingdom.com//v ... page%3D1&page=1


珍珠宮

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發表於 06-7-31 21:33 |顯示全部帖子

Re: 有點怕

FA8866 寫道:
SandraLo,
呢個topic係BK之前開架.係天書無架.
另您想我改改個天書出警告信字眼?無問題,不過等我做埋份bb翻譯一次過放上天書時改埋好嗎?
咁我唔駛分幾次改d電腦碼.


no problem
教仔心得:媽咪容易犯的錯誤
http://www.baby-kingdom.com/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=951856&extra=&page=1

成日話「讚」可以改正小朋友壞行為,到底點解同點讚?   
http://forum.baby-kingdom.com//v ... page%3D1&page=1


複式洋房

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發表於 06-8-1 01:19 |顯示全部帖子

Re: 有點怕

Wan-wan-ma & SandralLo,

thank your encouragement!!

I just fired my previous maid 2 months ago, now I should fire my current maid again when the new maid come. The firing procedure make me tired (also waste $$ :-( :-( :-( ) so I am quite scare to facing the next maid!! :-( :-( :-(

But anyway, thank you your positive encouragement!!


別墅

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發表於 06-8-1 01:38 |顯示全部帖子

Re: 有點怕

Jenny1234,

再鼓勵下妳先:只要搵到個好幫手,就可以用好多年!

你可以請教個 d搵到好工人既朋友,問下要留意 mud 野,好增加你搵到好工人既機會。

例如係沙地阿拉百或星加坡做過,手英文寫得幾企理,有屋企要養……etc

齊祝你我同蒙主眷佑!皆因我都仲搵緊工人!


珍珠宮

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發表於 06-8-1 21:09 |顯示全部帖子

Re: 有點怕

Jenny1234:

唔駛担心定先喎,船到橋頭自然直嘛!呢度好多人幫你手呀!
教仔心得:媽咪容易犯的錯誤
http://www.baby-kingdom.com/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=951856&extra=&page=1

成日話「讚」可以改正小朋友壞行為,到底點解同點讚?   
http://forum.baby-kingdom.com//v ... page%3D1&page=1


複式洋房

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發表於 06-8-2 13:08 |顯示全部帖子

Re: 有點怕

thank you all again!!

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