Agree,.... 我鍾意自己一手一腳攪bb o既野, but my 奶奶 is trouble, she always think that she is the best one to take care of baby. When baby come home from hospital, she dont let me help bb take bath, she did it herself .. i am unhappy, but i cannot complain to my husband as my husband think that 奶奶 is good to let me take rest...
everytime go to clinic, 奶奶 hold my baby, i just pick the bags.. like a maid... i saw other mums hold her babies, very admire them.... i am really unhappy. Now, my baby is 2 months la.. i just hold her to go out once ... :-( :-(
At first, I was like that too and tried to respect my 99's wishes. (For example, she tried to hold baby all the time and took baths for baby.) But I realized that she was not grateful for any of that and took things for granted.
Now, I would just be strong and tell my husband and her what I want. Afterall, I am the mother of my baby! She needs to respect my likes/dislikes. I'd rather let me myself be happy instead of her!! :tongue:
yes,.. 我同我老公嘈交 several times la .... at the beginning, may be due to hormone changes, i always cry in my room. My husband saw that and ask his mum to let me help bb沖涼. The first time I help bb沖涼, 奶奶stands besides me and said this is not good, that is wrong, i think she is so trouble. When I hold my bb 沖涼, she 搶 bb from my hands ...... really 過份. Then, I help BB 沖涼 when she had not arrived my home... I said that i can do so la....
She always said that it is wrong, that's wrong.... :tongue: :tongue: :tongue: 激c!!!