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別墅

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發表於 06-10-5 21:59 |顯示全部帖子

好難開口炒賓,請指教

我而家好疑惑,因為我簽左個新印印,打算下個月就炒個賓賓。話說個賓做清潔尚可,煮野麻麻。佢有時會做D令人好莫明奇妙又恐慌嘅野,例如將自己同BB一齊反鎖在房內,或靜靜雞將屋企條門匙配多條,當然你質問佢佢會比個好良善嘅理由比你。所以我的起心肝去搵第個。不過佢其實又未至於十惡不「些」果種,起碼都算有規矩,無打仔、偷野、偷食、發脾氣,肯食隔夜送,放假8點前返仲會簡單收拾一下,係做野吾曉轉彎 & 個樣成日好累咁囉。其實我係吾係「人心無厭足」、要求太高呢?我未完約叫佢走係咪太絕情呢?我都好擔心炒佢果日吾知點開口。有無經驗媽咪可以指教下應該點講會大家都好過D?


珍珠宮

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發表於 06-10-5 22:24 |顯示全部帖子

Re: 好難開口炒賓,請指教

係唔係要求太高呢樣嘢好難講,好似我而家個鐘点,其實幾汚漕,但佢絕少做錯嘢,唔清楚會打電話問我,皆因佢返 4:00 - 7:00pm而我放7:30,佢一年見我唔多過三次!

好啦!言歸正傳,打好封信及預備好所有嘢,叫佢坐低,然後話:XX, sorry that your service is no longer required. Here is your salary, one month pay in lieu of notice and the ticket, you can pack your things now !
教仔心得:媽咪容易犯的錯誤
http://www.baby-kingdom.com/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=951856&extra=&page=1

成日話「讚」可以改正小朋友壞行為,到底點解同點讚?   
http://forum.baby-kingdom.com//v ... page%3D1&page=1


別墅

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發表於 06-10-5 22:35 |顯示全部帖子

Re: 好難開口炒賓,請指教

Dear SandraLo,
直接講係好嘅,不過我估佢實會喊,喊到吾肯走果種... 其實駛吾駛事先借故鬧下佢比D心理準備佢,等佢聽到要走時都無咁刺激?


珍珠宮

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發表於 06-10-5 22:53 |顯示全部帖子

Re: 好難開口炒賓,請指教

係就係會有啲意外,但冇辦法個喎!你揾啲乜嚟鬧佢呢?鬧完佢隔幾耐至俾信?如果期間有大改善你重唔知点啦!叠埋心水得啦!

教仔心得:媽咪容易犯的錯誤
http://www.baby-kingdom.com/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=951856&extra=&page=1

成日話「讚」可以改正小朋友壞行為,到底點解同點讚?   
http://forum.baby-kingdom.com//v ... page%3D1&page=1


民房

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發表於 06-10-6 14:17 |顯示全部帖子

Re: 好難開口炒賓,請指教

Hi,

I have experience in firing servant and it was very smooth and successful.

Just one important point: Fire her with another family member together, e.g. your husband/wife or your mother, or even your friend. With more people in the house at that moment, the servant will not be too emotional and you will not be too uneasy. Watch her pack the belonging and go to the servant centre with her.

Tom


別墅

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發表於 06-10-6 16:08 |顯示全部帖子

Re: 好難開口炒賓,請指教

Dear Tom,
Do you know if they have a "servant centre" to go after being fired? There are so many maids being fired every day, do you know in most occasions where will they be staying before they take the plane back home?
Thanks!


子爵府

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發表於 06-10-6 16:27 |顯示全部帖子

Re: 好難開口炒賓,請指教

Joyful 寫道:
Do you know if they have a "servant centre" to go after being fired?


Don't worry. They have their own way to find a shelter.

Besides getting another family member on spot, try also to arrange kids temporily out.


珍珠宮

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發表於 06-10-6 23:29 |顯示全部帖子

Re: 好難開口炒賓,請指教

Joyful :

You're worrying too much! I fired 4 Buns before but not even one of them said they didn't know where to go !
教仔心得:媽咪容易犯的錯誤
http://www.baby-kingdom.com/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=951856&extra=&page=1

成日話「讚」可以改正小朋友壞行為,到底點解同點讚?   
http://forum.baby-kingdom.com//v ... page%3D1&page=1


珍珠宮

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發表於 06-10-6 23:38 |顯示全部帖子

Re: 好難開口炒賓,請指教

我之前都試過炒個蠢印印. 我無自己開口講, 之前同agent講左叫佢開口.

到炒0個日, 等囡囡返左學, 叫老爺黎屋企湊囝囝落街. 然後call agent叫agent係電話同印印講囉. 講完佢自動波入房執野, 仲識叫我一齊入房睇住佢執. 之後我送佢返agent到, 係agent面前交收曬所有錢&簽文件就攪掂曬. 非常簡單.


別墅

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發表於 06-10-7 01:24 |顯示全部帖子

Re: 好難開口炒賓,請指教

Thank you everyone for sharing. Actually, I am so angry tonight that I am no longer worry about what to say to fire the bun. Instead, I want to fire her immediately, only my husband asked me to tolerate until the new one come!
My mother told me she found out that the bun fed my 1.5 year old son every morning with 2 spoons of congee only! When my mother confronted her, she gave her excuse that I hurried her to prepare the son for playgroup so she could only fed him so little. When I confronted the maid, she gave me the excuse that my son had drunk milk at 6am so he should not be hungry (she did not tell my mother this excuse earlier this morning). What I hate most is she is not regret about what she has done. Instead she tell lies to justify herself. I have not hurried her for preparing the son for playgroup. I know my son does not wake up at 6am unless you wake him. The maid thought I am ignorant of the family's situation. She even cried poorly (Ho Hor Lin!!) as if we "bent" (wat) her. I am sick of this attitude. I don't want to see her anymore.
However, my husband said I was too quick to scold the maid. He said this may make the maid do bad things on the son, and I should tolerate until the next one comes.
I care about the well-being of my son. I don't know what to do will be the best way... I am puzzled.
Any suggestions?


珍珠宮

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發表於 06-10-7 07:10 |顯示全部帖子

Re: 好難開口炒賓,請指教

Joyful,

你媽媽係咪同你地一齊住? 如果係, 可以請你媽媽睇住佢做野. 你要同佢講你媽媽既instruction即係你既instruction. 如果佢再係餵少少粥比囝囝食, 叫你媽媽即刻叫佢做好d....但千祈唔好自己攞番黎做, 可能呢個就係佢目的. 你媽媽係屋企睇住, 所以你唔駛太擔心. 佢唔敢擔黎既~~~~


別墅

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發表於 06-10-7 07:58 |顯示全部帖子

Re: 好難開口炒賓,請指教

My mother does not live with me but she lives nearby. She comes everyday to take care of the kid from late morning until the night. My bun only needs to take care of the kid by 1. sleeping with the kid for the night 2. play with the kid and feed him congee in the morning before grandma come.
Even this small task the bun cannot handle well. She does not have the heart. She complained the kid wakes up in the night and make her dizzy during day time so she could not concencentrate on her work and make mistakes (such excuse!). She usually only get hold of the baby and let him watch TV (and she sleeps) during the morning time. She does not have much to play with the kid. So boring for a growing kid. And even congee, she cannot do it properly.
I told my mother, I know she is not that good, but she has not harmed the baby, I still can tolerate until her contract expires. But when we found that she hungers the baby, I think she is harming the baby and that makes me real angry.
This morning I wake up early to check what she was doing. I found that she let the baby holds a bottle of milk and sleeps, while she went to the kitchen to make congee. I have told her she cannot let the baby hold bottle while sleeping but she still does this for her convenience. She is obviously not thinking in the best interest of the child.
I have many adequte reasons to fire the bun now, but my husband asked me to tolerate and not to scold her for fear she will do something bad to the child. He thinks that as the bun is going to leave sooner or later, it is not wise to scold her too much and makes her aware we are going to fire her.
I know there is some reason behind his suggestion, but it is very difficult for me, a mother who cares about the kid, to suppress my anger about this bun.


複式洋房

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發表於 06-10-7 08:59 |顯示全部帖子

Re: 好難開口炒賓,請指教

Dear Joyful,

好多時工人都會有佢地認為"arm"的一套, 就算你話完佢, 佢應承你改, 你都要親身去跟進, 確保佢地做同記得做

其實我都唔知我是否overdemanding, 我總找到不合心水的地方, 例如假天花上面的污漬, 雪櫃"訂" D塵, 我會用工人的角度來想, 我相信他是不知而不是不做, 那樣, 工人又接受, 我又不覺得不開心. (請人就要信人, 疑人勿用)

另外, 你個仔是幾點鍾吃早奶, 又幾點再給他吃"足", 是否真的太飽呢, 我不是想幫你的工人, 只擔心你新工人到了又覺不滿意吧. 可能說多了, 多多包涵.

KEI kEI
:-) :-D :-D :-D :-D


珍珠宮

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發表於 06-10-7 11:49 |顯示全部帖子

Re: 好難開口炒賓,請指教

Joyful:

You have to bear in mind that the helpers are "stupid", and they won't be able to do what you expect / think! Write down clearly your instructions regarding the baby's food and ask her to write down also the time and amount of food she feeds the baby. That would be easier for the both of you !
教仔心得:媽咪容易犯的錯誤
http://www.baby-kingdom.com/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=951856&extra=&page=1

成日話「讚」可以改正小朋友壞行為,到底點解同點讚?   
http://forum.baby-kingdom.com//v ... page%3D1&page=1


別墅

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發表於 06-10-7 15:25 |顯示全部帖子

Re: 由難開口炒賓到忍吾住想即炒

我會睇緊D將會來果個新工人,希望以後可以做好D。現在呢個我對佢已經完全無期望!再教都係白費心機。我叫佢做D mud吾係忘記就係自己有自己主意。就好似比支奶個仔一路瞓一路食,我以前已經見過佢咁做,叫佢以後吾好,仲好言解釋話會濁親細路及壞牙。但原來我媽又見過,又叫過佢吾好。點知話極都仲有下次,鬼咩,貪方便嘛,又吾係佢個仔!我心淡都屬正常。最吾開心係我老公要我忍佢多個月,因為新人未到,吾想搞到自己麻煩。咁咪自己谷住條氣先囉,吾係又可以點喎 :evil:


大宅

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發表於 06-10-8 06:21 |顯示全部帖子

Re: 由難開口炒賓到忍吾住想即炒

總括來講, 你bun bun做野好無heart, 點解可以話小朋友夜晚醒令佢日頭做錯野? 簡直係excuse, 我個囝都成日三四點醒, 唔通我可以同老細講亞囝令到我做野集中唔到精神而做錯野咩? 又唔同囝囝玩, 只係睇電視, 分明佢都唔喜歡小朋友, 咁佢有咩資格做保母喎.... 所以你炒得岩, 佢只適合做d清潔工作.


大宅

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發表於 06-10-8 07:05 |顯示全部帖子

Re: 好難開口炒賓,請指教

Joyful :
First of all, don't argue with your husband with this matter. Prepare for the next housemaid come. You must ask your mother to come when you are not in home during this period of time !
You may get help from the agent and you need to look after your child by yourself whenever possible.
Your husband said right that the bun is going to leave later, so it is not wise to scold her as she will not listen to you any more ( thinking if you were her). So, I will not let her know when is her last day !



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