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洋房

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發表於 06-10-10 08:54 |顯示全部帖子

99同62是否縱BB?

我要返工的,BB可能會俾99同62照顧,我很怕他們會縱BB。


複式洋房

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發表於 06-10-10 09:21 |顯示全部帖子

Re: 99同62是否縱BB?

有時..縱..都好過唔錫呀 !!


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發表於 06-10-10 12:26 |顯示全部帖子

Re: 99同62是否縱BB?

超縱......

冇計, 一定係隔代縱, 即奶奶對我老公好嚴, 但對個孫就乜都 ok~!

我明白佢地老人家既心態, 因為老實講, 仲可以蹤幾多年吖, 一諗到呢點, 我都軟化既, 最多自己同小朋友講多d道理, 教佢地唔係有爺爺嫲嫲撐腰就目中無人.

我bb13個月only, 佢已經識比爸爸鬧就撲去亞嫲到....唉. 難教難教.


子爵府

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發表於 06-10-10 12:35 |顯示全部帖子

Re: 99同62是否縱BB?

其實睇你奶奶佢地平時縱唔縱小朋友...如果佢地平時都縱你小朋友...咁你就要小心教導你既小朋友...




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複式洋房

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發表於 06-10-10 13:02 |顯示全部帖子

Re: 99同62是否縱BB?

老人家 ,一定會 ,我都擔心緊 ,因我都要出去做野


男爵府

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發表於 06-10-10 13:30 |顯示全部帖子

Re: 99同62是否縱BB?

我不是太同意說,仲縱多幾年.我老爺分分鐘仲有十幾廿年命,到時我小朋友都20幾歲,縱20年,我個小朋友都唔駛再教啦. :-(

我老爺都好縱,每逢喜慶做節,未裝好飯已經擺定杯可樂在我個女面前,個小朋友仲會食飯?


大宅

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發表於 06-10-10 14:01 |顯示全部帖子

Re: 99同62是否縱BB?

Unbeliverably 縱.

有次99湊姑仔個bb(歲半左右), 個bb推翻左99碗糖水,
其實都無人會怪個bb, 不過C6緊張99無糖水食,
所以就話bb唔乖, 累到婆婆無糖水食.
點知99即刻話番C6, 而個bb就即刻打打C6喇.
你話點教呀? 好彩我姑仔即時出聲話99唔啱.
因為佢太縱個bb喇.
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男爵府

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發表於 06-10-10 14:44 |顯示全部帖子

Re: 99同62是否縱BB?

I am the one who grow up with grandmum & grandpa. In my opinion, I don't suggest let the old people take care of your BB. (of course, it depends on your old people's characters...)

Me & my 外祖母好好好好感情 because she is the one who take care of me. My 外祖母 keep complainning about my mother(as lazy cow,etc), so I dislike my mum for many years during I was teenager. Also, whenever we talk, we will call my mother name in "full name" XXX. something like that....

You don't know about Old people..... I know as I grow up with them...
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大宅

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發表於 06-10-10 18:03 |顯示全部帖子

Re: 99同62是否縱BB?

Oh, what a sad story! By the way, did you find any means to amend the relationship with your Mommy?

060228 寫道:
I am the one who grow up with grandmum & grandpa. In my opinion, I don't suggest let the old people take care of your BB. (of course, it depends on your old people's characters...)

Me & my 外祖母好好好好感情 because she is the one who take care of me. My 外祖母 keep complainning about my mother(as lazy cow,etc), so I dislike my mum for many years during I was teenager. Also, whenever we talk, we will call my mother name in "full name" XXX. something like that....

You don't know about Old people..... I know as I grow up with them...
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男爵府

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發表於 06-10-10 19:05 |顯示全部帖子

Re: 99同62是否縱BB?


Ng360 寫道:
Oh, what a sad story! By the way, did you find any means to amend the relationship with your Mommy?
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I respect my mother as she is my mother. But we don't have 親密關係!

On the other side, me & my 外祖母好好好好感情 and we always have "密計" (talk: 有時講到天光ka). I like my grandmother and it is not my mother can compare with. Just let all the mothers know, you let the old people/maids to take care of your BB, you pass the 親密關係 (between you & BB) to the outsiders.

My mother 帶大 my younger sister, they always argue, but they also 好好感情. To me, I have never 爭辯 with my mother, we don't even have that 親密關係 to 爭辯!!!!
(do u understand! 有時我心中也想吃醋, I feel like an outsiders when I see my mother & sister.....)

帶大 your child if you can. 親密關係 is not something money can buy.
執著帶來痛苦、學習放下煩惱  


男爵府

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發表於 06-10-10 20:08 |顯示全部帖子

Re: 99同62是否縱BB?

我覺得好悲哀.不過我囡囡是由工人湊,但我和囡囡關係十分親密.跟我多過跟工人.


大宅

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發表於 06-10-10 22:51 |顯示全部帖子

Re: 99同62是否縱BB?

我62唔係縱孫呀, 係同2個新袍爭仔!!!!
62之前教個大孫仔, 唔好跟亞爸, 亞爸會打(其實好少),
亞媽唔鍚你, 跟住亞爺好, 爺爺咩都俾你!山長水遠晨咁早,由天水圍接個孫返屯門屋企, 接咗佢又唔俾個孫走, 成日留個孫過夜,佢直情係同個細新袍爭仔, 我驚緊呀!!!
你地教下我啦, 佢而家轉移目標對準我個仔, 點算呀!!???
佢一抱住亞仔就唔肯放, 又周圍同人講呢個孫係佢自己揍嫁!!!佢直情當我死嫁, 救救我啦!!!!


大宅

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發表於 06-10-11 23:34 |顯示全部帖子

Re: 99同62是否縱BB?

Yes, I can understand. My situation is something similar to you. My mommy always said bad things of my Dad to us when we are kids. So, we didn't like Daddy so much before. But the past is past, present is a gift (present可解作禮物). You should think it bright and face your future. When you are still able to be with your Mommy, if I were you, I will try to be active in amending our relationship. You know, sometimes the 親密關係 need to be 悉心經營. Try to be open, I think your Mommy will love to accept you if you take the 1st action. See?

060228 寫道:

Ng360 寫道:
Oh, what a sad story! By the way, did you find any means to amend the relationship with your Mommy?
-->

I respect my mother as she is my mother. But we don't have 親密關係!

On the other side, me & my 外祖母好好好好感情 and we always have "密計" (talk: 有時講到天光ka). I like my grandmother and it is not my mother can compare with. Just let all the mothers know, you let the old people/maids to take care of your BB, you pass the 親密關係 (between you & BB) to the outsiders.

My mother 帶大 my younger sister, they always argue, but they also 好好感情. To me, I have never 爭辯 with my mother, we don't even have that 親密關係 to 爭辯!!!!
(do u understand! 有時我心中也想吃醋, I feel like an outsiders when I see my mother & sister.....)

帶大 your child if you can. 親密關係 is not something money can buy.
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別墅

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發表於 06-10-11 23:55 |顯示全部帖子

Re: 99同62是否縱BB?

老人家多數係會縱嫁啦!
可愛囡囡"教養孩童,使他走當行的道, 就是到老, 他也不偏離"。箴言22:6 我的寶貝囡囡最喜歡笑! :-D :-P 孩子若生活於... 接納中, 他學會愛 分享中, 他學會慷慨 讚美中, 他學會感激 鼓勵中, 他學會充滿信心 誠實中, 他學會什麼是真理 公平中, 他學會什麼是正義 :-P :-P :-P :-P :-P :-P


男爵府

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發表於 06-10-12 00:55 |顯示全部帖子

Re: 99同62是否縱BB?

Ng360

世上有你想像不到的父母..... As a kid, who wanna to believe your mother is such a ####, 不想明白/面對,但最後也要明白/面對, 過程痛苦.

You don't hate them, and still respect of & 養 them, you already give out the best gifts to them and yourself.

After many years, I would like to take it easy....... 沒有怨恨也不會話心中有刺, I already try my best.

親密關係....留給 me & God la......
Thanks for sharing.
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