060228 寫道:
I am the one who grow up with grandmum & grandpa. In my opinion, I don't suggest let the old people take care of your BB. (of course, it depends on your old people's characters...)
Me & my 外祖母好好好好感情 because she is the one who take care of me. My 外祖母 keep complainning about my mother(as lazy cow,etc), so I dislike my mum for many years during I was teenager. Also, whenever we talk, we will call my mother name in "full name" XXX. something like that....
You don't know about Old people..... I know as I grow up with them...
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Ng360 寫道:
Oh, what a sad story! By the way, did you find any means to amend the relationship with your Mommy?
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I respect my mother as she is my mother. But we don't have 親密關係!
On the other side, me & my 外祖母好好好好感情 and we always have "密計" (talk: 有時講到天光ka). I like my grandmother and it is not my mother can compare with. Just let all the mothers know, you let the old people/maids to take care of your BB, you pass the 親密關係 (between you & BB) to the outsiders.
My mother 帶大 my younger sister, they always argue, but they also 好好感情. To me, I have never 爭辯 with my mother, we don't even have that 親密關係 to 爭辯!!!!
(do u understand! 有時我心中也想吃醋, I feel like an outsiders when I see my mother & sister.....)
帶大 your child if you can. 親密關係 is not something money can buy.
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