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ang媽咪

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發表於 06-10-28 11:31 |只看該作者

give me some advice

my husband and son are in canada
i have my job in hk
my son used to lived with me in hk...but he is going to school soon
so my husband took him back...
i miss my son so much after he left...
i really want to quit my job....
pls give me some advice...

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LiLily

洋房

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發表於 06-10-28 11:35 |只看該作者

Re: give me some advice

你一定要考慮下究竟你份工重要D定係個仔同老公重要D呢！請想清楚不要讓自己後悔呵！

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Sharon_1304

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發表於 06-10-28 11:36 |只看該作者

Re: give me some advice

我會一齊去加拿大!

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ang媽咪

複式洋房

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發表於 06-10-28 11:40 |只看該作者

Re: give me some advice

thanks for your support,
but my husband said i may regret...
i don know what to do...
i just want to have a family together
i don mind having simple life...
money is not everything

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iloveuhb

別墅

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發表於 06-10-28 11:45 |只看該作者

Re: give me some advice

ang媽咪寫道:
thanks for your support,
but my husband said i may regret...
i don know what to do...
i just want to have a family together
i don mind having simple life...
money is not everything

妳會咁諗咪得law, 緊係一家人齊齊整整好啦. 如果唔能夠同家人一齊, 又點算得上有一個家呢, 咁同單身有咩分別 ??

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小香香

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發表於 06-10-28 11:51 |只看該作者

Re: give me some advice

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babychin

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發表於 06-10-28 12:05 |只看該作者

Re: give me some advice

其實你自己都有答案啦.... 按你自己所想去做, 不要後悔 !!!!

ang媽咪寫道:
i just want to have a family together
i don mind having simple life...
money is not everything

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babybread

民房

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發表於 06-10-28 12:41 |只看該作者

Re: give me some advice

呢個世界冇野重要得過一家人"齊齊整整"開開心心~

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Elefant老婆

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好媽媽勳章醒目開學勳章畀面勳章

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發表於 06-10-28 12:45 |只看該作者

Re: give me some advice

The answer is pretty obvious.

babychin 寫道:
其實你自己都有答案啦.... 按你自己所想去做, 不要後悔 !!!!

[quote]
ang媽咪寫道:
i just want to have a family together
i don mind having simple life...
money is not everything

[/quote]

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debbymama

別墅

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發表於 06-10-28 12:49 |只看該作者

Re: give me some advice

你老公其實都想你過去啦，不過唔想自己出聲，驚第日你有乜唔開心用呢樣野鬧佢，話係佢request 你為佢同BB無左份工之嘛！

如果係我，無左BB我會癲！

Please Visit My Web Home : http://hompy.netvigator.com/main/page/msdcheung Photo Album : http://hinhin.my.babysky.hk/

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onon1022

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好媽媽勳章

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發表於 06-10-28 14:39 |只看該作者

Re: give me some advice

其實工可以搵過...家係唔可以搵過...錢無左可以去搵...但係親情唔可以...

[url=http://lilypie.com][img]

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Viv

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發表於 06-10-28 14:58 |只看該作者

Re: give me some advice

if money is not that important to you (as you said), why struggle ?
stay with your family, give back your baby a mother
:>

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yiuyiu213

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發表於 06-10-28 17:24 |只看該作者

give me some advice

我會選擇同一家人在同一個地方生活, 過左去的時光是工作和金錢買不到

本身在加拿大結婚住左一年, 4年前回港 (當時未生囡囡). 但我們協議待她10歲左右會一起返加讀書. 與她一齊成長 (這很重要)

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烏租租

大宅

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畀面勳章

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發表於 06-10-28 20:15 |只看該作者

Re: give me some advice

咁你吾做尼份工會吾會影響生活丫？如果吾會的話,以我個人睇法,我會選擇家庭,因為無野可以比得上我個女同埋老公！
(個人小小意見,請勿見怪)

嵐嵐之家
[url=http://lilypie.com]

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Fionyiu

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發表於 06-10-28 20:34 |只看該作者

Re: give me some advice

I believe you like your job very much as same as me. My hubby also requested me to choose between my job and family. I think he is crazy. I am also unhappy on this issue. :-( :-(

My Little Prince, Naoki Kam - 諱諾BB.

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KimV

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發表於 06-10-28 23:21 |只看該作者

Re: give me some advice

if you want my opinion, I think you should go back to canada. If not you'll regret that you can't watch him grow up.

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rollingcat

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發表於 06-10-28 23:34 |只看該作者

Re: give me some advice

其實我而家都面對緊同一個問題
老公將要去澳洲做野
每年6個月stay 香港 6個月stay澳洲
我份工都ok, 黎緊仲會promote 一個grade
但係我個bb得5個月
最初我老公叫我留係香港湊住bb, 佢自己一個去澳洲就ok
但我諗咗好多日, 對bb黎講, 父愛同母愛缺一都唔好
唔想老公或我其中一個miss咗bb架成長
唔想到老時得番d回憶係工作, 工作同工作囉....

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myhalf2days

洋房

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發表於 06-10-29 01:47 |只看該作者

Re: give me some advice

'傻'ang媽咪,

傻妹呀, 生個仔出來唔睇住佢長大, 生來做乜!!!

仔需要你, 你更需要仔, 冇仔你點做"阿媽"!!!!

"媽媽"呢份工, 唔係生佐仔就自動識做架, 要落手落腳, 勞心勞力, 喜怒哀樂..........要學架. 仲要做到老,學到老!!!!

最佳老師就係你個仔
最好校監就係老公.
最理想學習環境就係家.

你睇下個課程:

嬰兒期: 用五官, 聲音, 氣味, 表情, 肌膚觸摸來彼此溝通, 親近. 係兩代人感情建立的關鍵期. 俾人湊? NO WAY

幼兒期: 行為模仿, 三歲定八十!!! 媽媽理應係最佳模倣對象,可塑性極高, 媽媽跟到實, 成長路上冇"閃失".

青蔥歲月: 陪佢走過後, 淡化"媽媽"的角色, 做良朋知己, 放佢出去, 只要開大個保護傘係屋企.

佢成年了, 話俾佢聽: " 阿媽從未如此需要你!"

.............................
(課程多元, 不能盡錄)

唔好放過增值做"老媽子"的機會呀, 有些人恨都冇得恨!

朋友聚會, 個個講仔經,
雖然好吵(有人話),
講來講去好重複(有人話),
講時個樣好師奶, 好俗(有人話).
但係世界上就係有呢種生物,
每日同大自然其他雌性/癡線動物一樣,
樂此不疲, 任勞任怨, 做出最大的犧牲!!!!
睇住小生命安全, 健康,
衫褲鞋襪好似變魔術咁不斷變大......
佢大定佐, 就冇魔術睇啦!

佢投佐你胎撿你做阿媽, 你冇得/冇籍口唔做/停做一排再做番. 你唔commit, '校監'同'老師'隨時踢你出校.

時光到流, 你依家就來返小學啦, 你想唔想阿媽陪你去呀?
你想唔想晚晚三個人一起食飯呀?

企係老公身邊, 拖住阿仔隻手,
留守家庭,
佢地兩個都需要你!!!

二十年後,
你地兩個都老了,
話俾老野聽: " 老公, 我冇後悔!"

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