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複式洋房

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發表於 06-12-20 23:50 |顯示全部帖子

Re: 小朋友大脾氣,可以點教

Dear SandraLo ,

謝謝你的回覆 . 其實我都是覺得活動教學小朋友會輕鬆 d , 但因很多家長都話活動教學的學校 , 在言行, 德行, 紀律都是不太嚴格 , 所以我怕我的女兒品行上控制不好 . 因現佢看見電視打打 , 推推 , 已開始模仿 ,見表姐弟亦是玩到推打, 佢又學 , 我就好憂心, 怕學校太鬆對佢有印所響 . 請問有何意見 ?

wingwingkam


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發表於 06-12-21 09:52 |顯示全部帖子

Re: 小朋友大脾氣,可以點教

Dear All,
I hv a question too. Can I ask?
My son is 2 yrs and is still not willing to talk. He can understand nearly all what we ask him to do. Frankly, he is quite okay, except going out for dinner/lunch.
He always cannot stay on the chair and just walk around. If daddy is with us, he will hold daddy's hand and ask him to go out w/ him.
I try to talk to him but there's still no improvement.

Any suggestions? Frankly, I still cannot find out the reason 'cose he doesn't know how to talk for the time being.
羲羲 :-P :-P :-P


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發表於 06-12-21 12:21 |顯示全部帖子

Re: 小朋友大脾氣,可以點教

SoBBMaMi

actually my son nearly 3yr is acting the same as yours

He always cannot stay on the chair and just walk around when we have to eat outside, also he would like to find someone to go out with him, eg daddy, grandparents, if not, he will lose temper and struggle

he seldom ask me to go out with him becoz he knows I won't do that for him easily

I don't know how to improve such kind of behaviour


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發表於 06-12-21 12:36 |顯示全部帖子

Re: 小朋友大脾氣,可以點教

thanks for all your sharing


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發表於 06-12-21 14:40 |顯示全部帖子

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發表於 06-12-21 16:45 |顯示全部帖子

Re: 小朋友大脾氣,可以點教

sa2501
we've tried your method many times, every time after he returned to his seat, he will not play with what the toys we've brought for him, he will struggle again to go out


複式洋房

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發表於 06-12-21 17:35 |顯示全部帖子

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I know it is good for him to explore. But sometimes, it is very dangerous to walk around in restaurant. When he is getting angry, he may cry or scream too. Then, it makes us embarrassed.
:-( :-( :-(
Frankly, my son's behaviour is quite okay, except this. I guess he feels bored just waiting for other people finishing the meal.

羲羲 :-P :-P :-P


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發表於 06-12-21 17:51 |顯示全部帖子

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發表於 06-12-21 17:55 |顯示全部帖子

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珍珠宮

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發表於 06-12-21 22:41 |顯示全部帖子

Re: 小朋友大脾氣,可以點教

wingwingkam 寫道:
Dear SandraLo ,
謝謝你的回覆 . 其實我都是覺得活動教學小朋友會輕鬆 d , 但因很多家長都話活動教學的學校 , 在言行, 德行, 紀律都是不太嚴格 , 所以我怕我的女兒品行上控制不好 . 因現佢看見電視打打 , 推推 , 已開始模仿 ,見表姐弟亦是玩到推打, 佢又學 , 我就好憂心, 怕學校太鬆對佢有印所響 . 請問有何意見 ?
wingwingkam


我覺得香港嘅學童開心嘅時候真係唔係好多,原因係太多功課、測驗同考試,所以如果連幼稚園階段都要嚴格,咁真係好惨!
我知道有好多家長有誤解,以為樣樣要為小朋友提早預備/適應,例如驚小學功課多,就選一間出名功課多的幼稚園,以為會令他上小學時容易適應,但小朋友學習是分階段的,未到那個階段,你迫他學定先是好辛苦的,這樣做除了令提早有功課壓力和少了時間玩之外,還會打壓了他們的學習興趣,令他們愈大愈討厭學習。
說到品行,很少小朋友會在學校造反,多是在家才出問題,現代的家長太緊張,所以學校一般不會太鬆,因為都怕小朋友出了什麼事會被家長投訴!
你怎樣看呢?
教仔心得:媽咪容易犯的錯誤
http://www.baby-kingdom.com/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=951856&extra=&page=1

成日話「讚」可以改正小朋友壞行為,到底點解同點讚?   
http://forum.baby-kingdom.com//v ... page%3D1&page=1


大宅

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發表於 06-12-21 22:44 |顯示全部帖子

Re: 小朋友大脾氣,可以點教

sa2501 & everyone,
he enjoys his time in playground as long as his favourite ride/swings/etc is not used by other kids/bbs... (sigh)... i usu takes him away to another part of the playground when he's agressive to other kids/bbs... & he's ok with it... i really do hope he'll grow out of this "problem" when he gets older...

btw, my bb also don't like to sit still when we are dining out... (i guess no bbs can sit still for long... their attention span is short...)... toys don't work on him.. (neither old nor new ones...)... but food can occupy him for some time (perhaps 1/2 an hour)... then i have to go "guyguy" with him... :-(


珍珠宮

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發表於 06-12-21 23:09 |顯示全部帖子

Re: 小朋友大脾氣,可以點教

bblui 寫道:
sa2501, SandraLo & everyone,

can i ask u for some advice pls? coz my 18mth old baby is getting aggressive lately... he's ok with us, but when he's at the playground, he can get quite hostile to other kids/babies... e.g. he'll try to snatch away toys that the others r playing (toys which don't belong to my son)... or he'll try to push others when they r occupying his favourite swings... i kept telling him to be gentle/ to share.. blablabla.. & apologise to the other kids for his behaviour... he's been acting like this for abt1 month lu and there seems to be no improvement... is this what they call terrible 2? he can't talk right now.. ppl say he'll be better once he can express himself... but meanwhile, what else cna i do? i'm deeply embarrassed with his behaviour... but i still want to bring him to the park everyday to mix around with other kids... any suggestions would be welcome... thank u...


I think it's a bit too early to say that he is hostile. Your bb is only 18 months and you cannot expect him to share things/toys with others. Simply say NO and stop him when he has bad behavior or push other kids.
Just do what I said to twg before: If bad behavior = push others, praise him when he does not push others !
Time to go, talk later...


教仔心得:媽咪容易犯的錯誤
http://www.baby-kingdom.com/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=951856&extra=&page=1

成日話「讚」可以改正小朋友壞行為,到底點解同點讚?   
http://forum.baby-kingdom.com//v ... page%3D1&page=1


複式洋房

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發表於 06-12-22 00:44 |顯示全部帖子

Re: 小朋友大脾氣,可以點教

Dear SandraLo,

真開心看到你的回覆 .
之前朋友同我講比小朋友快 d 上手 , 上小學可輕鬆 d . 我亦有講話咁細個已要咁苦 , 幾時到大個 ? 現好似我呢 d 緊張家長太多 , 老公都成日話小小事都咁緊張, 你好容易精神有問題 . 我都覺得好大壓力 , 因小朋友好與壞 , 學校教育知識, 所有都是家長安排 , 我怕弄錯了 , 影響將來 . 你覺得呢 ?

wingwingkam : :cry:


珍珠宮

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發表於 06-12-24 10:36 |顯示全部帖子

Re: 小朋友大脾氣,可以點教

wingwingkam:

我估家長太緊張嘅原因係個個都生一個,於是所有注意力同好嘅嘢都想俾哂佢,咁就變成太緊張啦!

其實好多嘢邊會生出嚟就識?唔識教嘅話,上至心理學家,下至社工,甚至自己睇書都可以幫到;但都唔好隨便揾個人問,因為好多人用唔同方法去教自己子女,就啲方法係"work"但未必正確,做落去就有反效果,好似之前困細路入皮筴侷死咗嘅媽咪,佢就係做過一次個仔乖咗幾個月,以為咁嚇佢就得! :-(
教仔心得:媽咪容易犯的錯誤
http://www.baby-kingdom.com/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=951856&extra=&page=1

成日話「讚」可以改正小朋友壞行為,到底點解同點讚?   
http://forum.baby-kingdom.com//v ... page%3D1&page=1


大宅

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發表於 06-12-24 19:47 |顯示全部帖子

Re: 小朋友大脾氣,可以點教

如果是老人家或工人湊﹐有這情況絶對可以理解


複式洋房

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發表於 06-12-25 14:55 |顯示全部帖子

Re: 小朋友大脾氣,可以點教

Dear SandraLo ,

謝謝你的意見 , 我就是個類人, 好似學校選擇 , 不知道什麼是好, 是壞 . 看大家討論區知料,看家長意見 . 有心儀學校 , 見有讚有彈 , 就心大心細 . 太緊張思前想後是否有錯誤的決定. 現居然會想有了小朋友 , 已沒有了自己 , 沒有自我 . 真的有點累 . 現女兒才 2 years old , 都咁煩 , 幾時到大 ?

wingwingkam


珍珠宮

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發表於 06-12-26 18:45 |顯示全部帖子

Re: 小朋友大脾氣,可以點教

wingwingkam:

我都係過來人,好明白,但呢個世界嘅嘢,唔係你可以掌握到哂,我係基督徒,一切交託於神,即使是無信仰的,也知「人算不如天算」,一間學校好唔好,都好講夾人,名校又如何?學生勁偷嘢,重要冇得報警!
放鬆啲啦!有排架!
教仔心得:媽咪容易犯的錯誤
http://www.baby-kingdom.com/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=951856&extra=&page=1

成日話「讚」可以改正小朋友壞行為,到底點解同點讚?   
http://forum.baby-kingdom.com//v ... page%3D1&page=1


複式洋房

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發表於 06-12-27 00:12 |顯示全部帖子

Re: 小朋友大脾氣,可以點教

Dear SandraLo ,

謝謝你意見 . 我已有 d 你想法, 都要講夾唔夾 .
因之前很憂心學校不夠嚴謹, 小朋友是否會德行控制不好 , 人格會差 d . 但現女兒又咪見到人打打, 推推 , 就模仿照學 , 氣死我了 . 我都怕去到學校 , 好壞一起學 .亦怕佢"推"小朋友 ,到時其他家長投訴我怎麼辦 ? 見佢每次有不當地方 , 都已不斷解釋比佢聽 , 但日後不是我同佢一起返學上堂 , 佢會接觸其他人, 我怎能避免女兒學到不當行為 ??

wingwingkam


珍珠宮

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發表於 06-12-28 12:00 |顯示全部帖子

Re: 小朋友大脾氣,可以點教

wingwingkam:

其實打打推推呢d好容易處理,用番之前我講嘅 (在這topic page 1 近尾部份) 行為矯正,响佢冇做呢個打推行為時勁讚佢,好快會冇事;其實你覺得「唔好」嘅行為亦可以用同樣方法處理,不過最好搞完一樣至另一樣,以免小朋友混淆!
教仔心得:媽咪容易犯的錯誤
http://www.baby-kingdom.com/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=951856&extra=&page=1

成日話「讚」可以改正小朋友壞行為,到底點解同點讚?   
http://forum.baby-kingdom.com//v ... page%3D1&page=1


複式洋房

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發表於 06-12-28 13:48 |顯示全部帖子

Re: 小朋友大脾氣,可以點教

Dear SandraLo ,

tks for reply. 等我返去試

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